Healing Anxious Attachment

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  Why You're Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men 14.09.2026 14min

  Why do so many of us find ourselves drawn to emotionally unavailable men - again and again?In this episode, we unpack how low self-worth, harsh self-talk, and struggles like body dysmorphia and disordered eating quietly shape our relationship patterns. We get into why breaking this cycle isn't about mindset or strategy. it's about the body and the nervous system, and why the real work starts before the relationship even begins. __Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us 🧡
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  How to Stay Cool When He Starts Pulling Away 07.09.2026 14min

  He cancels plans, his tone shifts, he says he's busy, or needs space..and suddenly you're spiraling, convinced this is the moment he leaves.In this episode, we talk about that panic and how to tell the difference between when it's time to self-soothe and give him room, and when it's actually time to have a conversation.__Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Here 💗
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  How to Date Like You Don't Need Him to Choose You 16.08.2026 12min

  Getting a man who's willing to commit isn't about being more available, liking what he likes, or being "perfect." It's the opposite.In this episode: slowing down instead of rushing in, asking yourself how does this make me feel, paying attention to his communication and choices, and keeping your options open. Because staying in your power starts with staying with yourself first.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  When You Feel Crazy for being Triggered by 'Small' Things 04.08.2026 19min

  I'm sharing why those "small" triggers feel big. Why you might feel activated from a text left on read, or 'that tone' from someone you love.It's rarely actually about the small thing.__Go Deeper with JohannaJoin me inside Becoming Her - the program where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  5 Reasons I Knew He (My Fiancé) Was Secure 02.07.2026 9min

  I'm taking you behind the scenes of my own relationship and sharing the 5 things I noticed about my now-fiancé that told me - this one is different.After years of dating avoidant men and convincing myself the anxiety was just chemistry, experiencing security for the first time was genuinely disorienting. I almost didn't trust it.In this episode I cover the five signs that changed everything for me - from the way he showed up on day one, to the moment he was willing to walk away rather than pressure me, to what it finally felt like to be truly held in my emotions.If you're not sure what you're looking for, or you keep finding yourself in the same cycles - this one is for you.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  Why You're Confident Everywhere... Except With Him 28.06.2026 10min

  We're getting into why dating triggers anxiety that shows up nowhere else in your life, and what your attachment system is actually doing when real feelings are involved.If love is the one area where all your internal composure goes out the window, this one will help you understand why.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  How to Receive as a Strong and Capable Woman 10.06.2026 12min

  You know you over-give. You know you find it hard to receive. You've probably known for a while.So why hasn't anything changed?In part 2, we get into what's actually keeping you stuck - and what it looks like to start softening without losing yourself.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A monthlyAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  The Independence Whiplash 03.06.2026 12min

  You handle everything. You've built a life that proves you don't need anyone.So why does it still feel like nobody really sees you?In this episode, we get into why the very thing that makes you so capable is the same thing keeping real intimacy out - and where it all started.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop monthlyLive Q&A July 14thAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  Anxious attachment is actually your body protecting you (and how to get it to stop) 21.05.2026 12min

  An episode about Internal Family Systems. The psychology framework to identify the different parts of ourselves and how they interplay (or sabotage) us.Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.Live workshop June 7thLive Q&A July 14thAccess the 21 day Foundations Path50+ somatic exercises-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
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  Can You Actually Heal Anxious Attachment? 08.05.2026 13min

  No one is born with anxious attachment style. So the short answer is yes, you can change your attachment to secure!In this epsiode you'll learn:•⁠ ⁠Why no one is born with anxious attachment, and what actually created yours•⁠ ⁠How your mother's nervous system shaped yours before you even had words for it•⁠ ⁠Why books, therapy, and podcasts haven't been enough, and what's missing from most healing approaches•⁠ ⁠The difference between knowing better in your mind and your body actually catching upJoin me live for coaching and somatic therapy workshops in Becoming Her 👉🏼 https://link.becomingsecurecommunity.com/ep53-POD ✨Working together 🌹:1:1 Somatic healing - info + applicationBecoming Her - group space, live workshops and coaching callsSomatic Workshops - instant access to healing workshops 🦢
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  How to Calm Relationship Anxiety Right Now 30.04.2026 11min

  An episode to listen to when you're feeling anxious right now. Or, listen now and save the teaching for later 🫶🏼.We also touch on how to regulate your emotions, come back to your own sense of safety, and create a more grounded, secure way of relating.See in you in there!GO DEEPER WITH JOHANNA 🦢 Join me inside Becoming HER - the place you come when therapy and books haven't been enough. For the woman competent in other areas of life, but anxious in relationships.
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  Why Men Don't Commit to Anxious Women 13.04.2026 13min

  We're diving into the dynamic between anxious women and non-committal men, and how over-availability and trying to hold everything together can unintentionally create the very outcome you don’t want.We also touch on why anxious tendencies attract avoidant partners, and what truly creates the space for a man to step forward, invest, and choose you.See in you in there!GO DEEPER Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡
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  Why You Should Spend Time Away From Your Partner 30.03.2026 9min

  In a world that often glorifies constant closeness, this episode explores the power of space within relationships.We dive into the concept of polarity - how attraction thrives when there’s a sense of individuality and magnetism between two people. Because when you’re always merged, something can start to fade.We also touch on why space can feel especially important for avoidant partners and why many men, in particular, value freedom as a way to feel safe and open.See in you in there!Say Hi on Instagram - I love hearing from you @johhhannamariaGO DEEPER Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡
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  Cycle Syncing for the Anxious Nervous System 15.03.2026 25min

  One week you feel empowered, hot, regulated, grounded, making progress. The next you're spiralling, your inner critic is screaming, and you're convinced you've undone everything you've worked for. It's not a a setback - it's your internal winter. In this episode, we cover the four seasons of your cycle and how to eat, move, and schedule your life accordingly. Plus the specific codes that helped me personally reduce luteal phase irritability. You'll learn what cycle syncing looks like if you're on birth control, and an intro to seed cycling as an easy hormonal support tool.See in you in there!Say Hi on Instagram - I love hearing from you @johhhannamariaGO DEEPER Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡
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  What Disordered Eating & Anxious Attachment Have In Common 25.02.2026 25min

  What if your relationship with food isn’t just about food?In this episode, I share my own struggles with disordered eating and anxious attachment, and the surprising parallels I’ve noticed between the two. From craving reassurance in relationships to seeking comfort or control through food, these patterns often stem from the same place - fear of abandonment, lack of safety, and a deep need for control.This is a conversation about the emotional roots beneath these behaviours and what healing has looked like for me as I’ve started building more security within myself.PS. On March 5th I'm hosting "The Language of the Body Workshop" which is a perfect intro to somatic therapy and will give you frameworks for understanding what it means to rewrite patterns on a subconscious level and free you of old stories, blocks, and even symptoms.Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡Over 30 guided somatic practices2 live calls a monthNext workshop March 5th! (Replay available) Individualized coaching from Johannalearn more here 💐
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  ChatGPT Interviews Me! (and didn't hold back) 10.02.2026 26min

  I asked chatgpt to play interviewer and focus on what would bring you the most value. Some of the questions we covered are:"What's one moment in your healing anxious attachment journey that really changed the game for you?""When we hear that the other person isn't ready to deepen a relationship what's one practice we can do to deepen our self trust in those moments?""What's one daily ritual or mindset shift you'd recommend that can help women stay on track, especially on the tough days?""Many women feel their still repeating the same pattern of situationships, if you were sitting across from them right now, what's one first step you'd have them take, to break that cycle for good?""What's one gentle piece of guidance you'd offer, to help women step into that new chapter?""What's one word you'd love for your listeners to hold on to, as they step into their journey?"Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡Over 30 guided somatic practices2 live calls a monthIndividualized from Johannalearn more here 💐
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  Why Effort, Patience, and People Pleasing Stops Working 07.01.2026 30min

  In this episode, we explore what it means to move from forced to self-sourced. When external crutches like validation, and good-girl syndrome aren't enough and you’re called to become your own anchor.This conversation unpacks the emotional shifts, inner resilience, and self-trust that are built when you stop outsourcing safety, validation, and direction.If you’ve found yourself gripping and forcing to hold yourself through uncertainty, this episode is an invitation to step into deep self-reliance, inner security, and embodied confidence.👑 ✨ SELF-SOURCED 8 Week Group Program Waitlisted 👑 ✨ Learn more.An 8 week initiation into your own power, through and beyond healing anxious attachment into regulation, inner security, and amazing relationships.https://link.becomingsecurecommunity.com/ss-ep45-btm
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  Anxious to Secure in 1 Year 26.12.2025 34min

  In this episode, we dive into what it truly takes to become secure within one year. This conversation breaks down the key shifts, practices, and mindset changes required to transform your inner world. If you're ready to step into a version of yourself that feels calm, confident, and worthy of love, this episode is your roadmap to getting there. 🌟Join Becoming Secure Learn more here: https://link.becomingsecurecommunity.com/-ep44🧡
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  How to Survive the Holidays - Boundaried, Grounded and Restored 02.12.2025 23min

  The holidays can be triggering, here's how to protect your peace. This episode covers:-How you can bring more depth and feeling into your traditions -5 ways to clear and protect your energy-Discerning when to have the intense conversations Go Deeper into you Inner Work Journey: Join the Becoming Secure women’s membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡30+ guided somatic practices2 live calls a monthIndividualized coaching from Johannalearn more here 💐
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  Finally Dating a Good Guy but Feeling Anxious 12.11.2025 30min

  In this episode, we explore what happens when you finally meet a good, emotionally available man, but your anxious attachment starts to panic.We talk about why healthy love can feel unsafe when you’re used to chaos, inconsistency, or having to prove your worth in relationships. You’ll learn how to recognize when your nervous system is reacting to safety as unfamiliar, and how to start soothing that part of you that expects love to be hard.This conversation also touches on the difference between genuine connection and emotional intensity, and how to stay grounded when you want to run, overthink, or self-sabotage.Enjoy this episode 🙏🏼.Go Deeper into you Inner Work Journey Join the Becoming Secure women’s membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡30+ guided somatic practices2 live calls a monthIndividualized coaching from Johannalearn more here 💐