The Hats Podcast

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  216: The Side Hustle Hat with Kim Prepetit 16.09.2026 44min

  Can you build a profitable side hustle without leaving your nine-to-five? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie welcome multifaceted entrepreneur and business professional Kim Prepetit for a practical conversation about wearing The Side Hustle Hat. For more than a decade, Kim has balanced her career, family, and several side business ventures. In this episode, she shares how her side hustles have evolved with her interests and seasons of life, eventually leading her to create On the Wall LA, an online boutique featuring culture-inspired apparel, wall art, and gifts. Kim explains why passion is essential when building a side hustle, especially when you are using your evenings, weekends, and early mornings to make it work. She also shares the financial side that many new entrepreneurs overlook, including tracking every expense, pricing for profit, understanding your market, and knowing when you can expect a return on your investment. Together, Kim, Melissa, and Kerri discuss how to protect your nine-to-five, keep clear boundaries between both roles, involve your family, ask for help, and decide whether your side hustle should remain an additional income stream or eventually become your full-time business. In this episode, you'll learn: How to turn a personal need or creative interest into a business idea Why passion and profit both matter when choosing a side hustle How to calculate your real expenses and price your work appropriately Why your customers' needs should guide your products and services A side hustle takes time, discipline, sacrifice, and plenty of trial and error. With passion, preparation, and a clear understanding of your numbers, it can also become a meaningful creative outlet and an additional source of income. Tune in to discover how to start, grow, and confidently wear The Side Hustle Hat. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/
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  215: The Hiring Hat 10.09.2026 52min

  What does it take to hire the right people for your growing business? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The Hiring Hat and explore one of the biggest steps in growing a business: building a team you can trust. Drawing from Kerri's experience as an employment attorney and franchise business owner, she shares what she looks for beyond a résumé, how she evaluates culture and role fit, and why curiosity can reveal so much about a candidate. Melissa also reflects on her first experience hiring a virtual assistant and the lessons she learned about setting expectations, maintaining professional boundaries, and knowing when a working relationship is no longer the right fit. Together, they discuss the responsibility employers carry throughout the hiring process, from clearly communicating the role to asking appropriate interview questions and creating a structured, legally sound process. In this episode, you'll learn: What to look for beyond a candidate's résumé How to assess whether someone fits the role, team, and company culture Why clear expectations and professional boundaries matter from the beginning How leading with your heart can affect hiring decisions Why reviewing fewer strong candidates can lead to a better hiring process As your business grows, there may come a time when doing everything yourself is no longer sustainable. Learning how to hire, train, and trust the right people can give you the support you need to keep moving forward. Tune in to learn how to approach hiring with greater clarity, structure, and confidence because you may wear many hats, but you do not have to wear them all. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  214: Board of Directors Hat with Tamala Lewis 02.09.2026 43min

  Serving on a board of directors is a significant way to level up any career. But, knowing how to get there can be a big challenge.   In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie welcome Tamala Lewis, Senior Director of Community Affairs for AEG's Dignity Health Sports Park, for an insightful conversation about serving on a board of directors. Drawing from her experience serving on community and philanthropic boards, Tamela explains what board service truly involves, from attending meetings and supporting events to fundraising and fulfilling fiduciary responsibilities. She also shares why it is important to choose organizations that align with your values, interests, and passions. Tamala opens up about entering rooms where women, particularly women of color, have historically been underrepresented. Guided by the belief that she belongs in every room she enters, she follows what she calls the "Four Ups": stand up, speak up, show up, and pull someone up behind you. Together, Melissa, Kerri, and Tamala discuss how to prepare for board service, find the right opportunities, understand the expectations, and confidently contribute your experience once you have a seat at the table. In this episode, you'll learn: What serving on a board of directors truly requires Why passion and research should guide the boards you choose How to contribute confidently, even when you do not initially feel ready Why representation and bringing the community to the table matter How Tamela's "Four Ups" can guide your leadership Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  213: The AI Hat with Khalel Dumaz 26.08.2026 47min

  What if AI could help you work smarter, build faster, and bring your ideas to life without taking away the creativity and experience only you can bring? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The AI Hat and welcome AI founder and entrepreneur Khalel Dumaz for a conversation about artificial intelligence, what it can actually do, where people get it wrong, how entrepreneurs can begin using it without feeling overwhelmed, and ethical concerns around the growth of AI.  Khalel brings experience from product initiatives at Meta, Amazon, and Fanatics and is a co-founder of Vora IQ, an AI business operating system designed to help founders validate ideas and execute them. He breaks AI down in a way that makes it approachable and easy to understand.  In this episode, we cover: How to think about AI as a teammate rather than expecting it to do all the thinking and creating for you. The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make with AI and why better inputs, context, and prompting lead to better results. How AI can help turn an idea into action, from validating a business concept to creating a clearer path toward execution. The real concerns surrounding AI, including privacy, ethics, job disruption, and what happens as the technology becomes increasingly powerful. Where beginners can start without chasing every new AI tool, including Khalil's go-to platforms and advice for choosing tools that actually fit your needs. AI is moving quickly, but you don't have to understand every new tool to start benefiting from it. The key is learning how to use AI intentionally while keeping your own knowledge, creativity, and judgment in the driver's seat. 🎧 Tune in to Episode 213 of The Hats Podcast for an approachable look at AI and how you can begin using it to support your ideas, your business, and what's next. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  212: The Audacity Hat 19.08.2026 27min

  What could change in your life if you had the audacity to believe you belong in the room, ask for what you want, and go after the opportunities calling you? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The Audacity Hat for a candid conversation about what it means to show up unapologetically and believe in yourself enough to make boss moves. Melissa and Kerri reflect on the moments that taught them to be audacious, from negotiating salaries and pursuing leadership opportunities to navigating relationships and starting over after disappointment. They also explore what can happen when we hold ourselves back: missed opportunities, lost income, diminished confidence, and the possibility of never discovering what we're truly capable of. But audacity doesn't always come naturally. Melissa and Kerri share how it can be strengthened over time, borrowed from the confidence of people around you, and developed by becoming more comfortable with hearing "no." Because sometimes rejection isn't the end of the road. It may simply be an invitation to find another path forward. In this episode, we cover: What it really means to live with audacity and why believing you belong can change the opportunities you're willing to pursue. The hidden cost of playing small, from missed opportunities and income to the impact it can have on your confidence and self-esteem. How to face rejection without allowing a "no" to determine what you're capable of or where you go next. Why you don't need another course, coach, or accomplishment before taking action and trusting what you already bring to the table. How to "borrow" confidence and audacity from other women until you're ready to fully own yours. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/
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  211: The Negotiation Hat 12.08.2026 38min

  What if the biggest thing standing between you and your next opportunity isn't your qualifications but your willingness to ask? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The Negotiation Hat to explore one of the most valuable skills every leader, entrepreneur, and professional can develop. From negotiating salaries and business opportunities to advocating for yourself in everyday life, they share why negotiation is less about conflict and more about confidence, preparation, and clarity. Drawing from their experiences as an attorney, therapist, business owners, and leaders, Melissa and Kerri unpack why so many people—especially women—hesitate to negotiate. They offer practical strategies for overcoming the fear of hearing "no," preparing for important conversations, and building the confidence to advocate for your worth without compromising your values. Whether you're preparing for a job offer, asking for a raise, growing your business, or simply learning to speak up for yourself, this episode will give you practical tools to negotiate with confidence. In this episode, we cover: Why hearing "no" isn't something to fear—and how asking can open doors you never expected. The mindset shifts that help you negotiate with confidence instead of hesitation. How to prepare for salary discussions, business deals, and difficult conversations before they happen. Why knowing your worth and defining your non-negotiables changes the way you negotiate. Practical strategies to advocate for yourself with clarity, confidence, and integrity. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  210: The Diversification Hat 05.08.2026 42min

  What if the key to building a successful business isn't doing more of the same—but having the courage to grow in new directions? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The Diversification Hat and welcome entrepreneur Danielle Spangler for a conversation about expanding your opportunities while staying true to who you are. From building a boutique fitness studio to co-owning multiple restaurants, Danielle shares how taking calculated risks, embracing change, and leading with authenticity helped her successfully grow businesses across very different industries. Together, they explore what it means to diversify your skills, income, and passions without losing sight of the values that matter most. Whether you're considering a new business venture, looking to create additional income streams, or simply wondering if it's time to step outside your comfort zone, this episode offers practical advice and encouragement for taking your next step with confidence. In this episode, we cover: What personal diversification really means and why it matters for long-term growth. How taking calculated risks can open doors to unexpected opportunities. Why authenticity and community are powerful business strategies. The importance of building relationships before building your business. How transferable skills can help you succeed across different industries. Balancing multiple businesses, family life, and personal well-being. Why collaboration is often more valuable than competition. Practical advice for women looking to diversify their income or start a business. The role of goal setting, manifestation, and long-term vision in entrepreneurial success. How staying grounded in your values creates businesses that people genuinely want to support. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/ Connect with Danielle Spangler Beach Life Fitness Boutique: @beachlifefitnessboutique https://www.instagram.com/danispangler72/
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  209: The Succession Hat 29.07.2026 42min

  What happens to everything you've built when it's time for someone else to take the lead? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie explore The Succession Hat and why succession planning is about far more than replacing a leader. It's about protecting your vision, preserving your values, and preparing the next generation for long-term success. Drawing from Kerri's experience in a multi-generational family business, the conversation unpacks the emotional, practical, and strategic sides of succession. From knowing when to begin planning to choosing the right successor, they discuss why successful transitions don't happen overnight—they're built through intentional conversations, preparation, and trust. Whether you're a business owner, entrepreneur, leader, or simply thinking about the legacy you want to leave behind, this episode offers valuable insights into creating a transition that strengthens both people and organizations. In this episode, we cover: What succession planning really means—and why it's more than just replacing a leader Why succession is an ongoing process, not a one-time event The difference between succession planning for employees versus business ownership How to identify and prepare future leaders without rushing the process Why choosing the right successor is about readiness, not obligation The emotional side of succession, including family dynamics, trust, and letting go The importance of preserving company culture while welcoming fresh perspectives Who should be involved in succession planning, from key decision-makers to legal and financial advisors Why future leaders should bring their own strengths instead of trying to become a copy of their predecessor How thoughtful succession planning creates lasting legacy for businesses and families alike Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  208: The Leadership Hat 22.07.2026 45min

  What makes a great leader? Is it the title, the authority, or something much deeper? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The Leadership Hat to explore what it truly means to lead with integrity, courage, and humanity. Whether you're managing a team, running a business, leading your family, or simply leading yourself, this conversation offers practical insights on developing the kind of leadership people genuinely want to follow. Melissa and Kerri share their own leadership journeys, reflecting on the experiences that shaped them, from being first-time leaders to navigating difficult decisions, earning trust, and learning through failure. Together, they discuss why leadership isn't about telling people what to do, but about creating safety, building community, listening well, and leading by example. They also unpack the qualities that define effective leaders - and, it's not the list you might be thinking. Along the way, they offer encouragement for anyone stepping into a new leadership role, reminding listeners that leadership is built through experience, not perfection. Whether you're an entrepreneur, business owner, therapist, manager, parent, or aspiring leader, this episode will inspire you to embrace your own leadership style while staying grounded in your values. In this episode, you'll learn: The difference between being a boss and being a leader. Why leadership starts with leading yourself. How integrity, vulnerability, and emotional intelligence build trust. The importance of listening before leading. Why confidence doesn't require having all the answers. How to navigate difficult leadership decisions with courage. Practical advice for first-time leaders and emerging professionals. Why great leaders remain coachable and continue learning. How to lead with humanity while maintaining healthy boundaries. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  207: The Confidence Hat 15.07.2026 43min

  Confidence is often mistaken for being grounded in having it all together from the beginning of time and all of the time. In reality, confidence is developed, built, grown and nurtured through experience, healing, preparation, and doing the work.  In "The Confidence Hat", co-hosts and typically very confident women, Melissa and Kerri, share honest stories about moments when their confidence was shaken, from navigating motherhood and body image to changing careers, imposter syndrome, and stepping into unfamiliar roles. Together, they unpack why confidence looks different across every area of life and how anyone can strengthen it over time. Whether you're building a business, pursuing a new opportunity, or learning to trust yourself again, this conversation is a reminder that confidence isn't a personality trait. It's a muscle that's strengthened every time you choose to keep going. In This Episode: What confidence really means beyond appearance Why confidence evolves with age, healing, and experience The difference between personal and professional confidence How motherhood, relationships, and career changes can shake your confidence Recognizing and overcoming imposter syndrome Why keeping "receipts" of your successes matters Using evidence instead of self-doubt to build confidence The importance of positive self-talk and affirmations How therapy and healing contribute to lasting confidence Why preparation builds confidence, even when things don't go as planned Confidence as a muscle that grows through consistent practice Learning to trust yourself through experience The role of vulnerability in becoming more confident Practical ways to strengthen confidence in everyday life Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  206: The Fail Fast Hat with Dee Robinson 08.07.2026 54min

  What if failure isn't something to fear but one of the greatest tools for growth? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie welcome entrepreneur, author, and business leader Dee Robinson for a powerful conversation about wearing The Fail Fast Hat. With more than 30 years of entrepreneurial experience, Dee shares why some of her greatest successes were built on the lessons she learned from failure. She opens up about leaving corporate America, launching multiple businesses, navigating financial setbacks, and discovering that holding on too long can sometimes cost more than letting go. Together, Melissa, Kerri, and Dee explore the mindset shifts that help entrepreneurs, professionals, and leaders move through fear instead of being controlled by it. From imposter syndrome and limiting beliefs to intuition, resilience, and the power of surrounding yourself with the right people, this episode is filled with practical wisdom for anyone pursuing a dream. Whether you're starting a business, navigating a career change, or wondering if it's time to pivot, this conversation is a reminder that failure doesn't define you. It's often the very thing preparing you for what's next. In This Episode: What it really means to "fail fast" Why failure is a necessary part of success The opportunity cost of holding on too long Learning to separate failure from your identity Why fear keeps so many people stuck The power of reframing limiting beliefs How intuition can guide better business decisions Building resilience through setbacks Why successful people don't avoid failure, they learn from it The importance of defining your own success metrics Creating an exit strategy before you need one How to recognize when it's time to pivot The value of surrounding yourself with people who challenge and encourage you Why passion alone isn't enough to build a successful business Dee Robinson's advice for entrepreneurs, professionals, and aspiring leaders Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Dee Robinson Website: www.GoodTroubleBourbon.com Courage by Design: Ten Commandments +1 for Moving Past Fear to Joy, Fulfillment, and Purpose : Available on Amazon Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  205: The Risk Taking Hat 01.07.2026 42min

  What if the life you're dreaming about is waiting on the other side of one courageous decision? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie put on The Risk Taking Hat and explore why every meaningful step forward in life, leadership, business, and relationships requires a willingness to take risks. From launching The Hats Podcast during the uncertainty of the pandemic to leaving successful careers, starting businesses, and embracing major life transitions, Melissa and Kerri share the personal risks that have shaped who they are today. They reflect on the fears that almost held them back, the lessons they learned through failure, and why some of their biggest breakthroughs came from saying "yes" before they had everything figured out. Together, they unpack the difference between calculated risks, reckless decisions, and leaps of faith, offering practical tools to help listeners navigate uncertainty with greater confidence. They also discuss imposter syndrome, overthinking, fear of failure, and why waiting for certainty can often keep us stuck exactly where we are. Whether you're considering a career change, launching a business, making a major life decision, or simply wondering if now is the right time to take your next step, this episode is a reminder that growth rarely happens without risk. In This Episode: Why risk-taking is essential to becoming a boss The story behind launching The Hats Podcast Melissa's leap from corporate life to private practice Kerri's decision to leave law and join her family business Why fear doesn't always mean "don't do it" The difference between calculated risks, reckless risks, and leaps of faith How to evaluate whether a risk is worth taking Managing imposter syndrome and fear of failure Why women often overprepare before saying yes The role of faith when facing uncertainty Practical ways to stop overthinking big decisions Questions to ask before taking your next leap Learning from failure instead of fearing it Why resilience is built through taking risks How every boss move begins with one courageous decision Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/
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  204: The Show Up Anyway Hat 24.06.2026 27min

  What do you do when you simply don't feel like showing up? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie tackle a reality that every ambitious woman, leader, parent, and professional eventually faces: the days when motivation is low, energy is depleted, and yet life still expects you to show up. As part of the Boss Bitch Season, Melissa and Kerri explore the difference between pushing through and honoring your capacity. They share honest stories about workouts they didn't want to do, commitments they questioned, parenting responsibilities, professional obligations, and the ongoing tension between rest and responsibility. Together, they unpack the narratives that make showing up harder, including comparison, fear of missing out, negative self-talk, and the pressure to keep up with everyone else. They also discuss practical ways to determine when it's time to push through and when it's time to cancel with understanding and extend grace to yourself. From timers and to-do lists to music, rituals, faith, and filling your cup from a place of abundance rather than scarcity, this conversation offers practical wisdom for anyone trying to navigate the many demands of life without losing themselves in the process. Because being a boss doesn't mean you're motivated all the time. Sometimes it simply means showing up anyway. In This Episode: Why bosses don't always feel motivated What it means to wear The Show Up Anyway Hat The difference between commitment and motivation Melissa's ongoing conversations with herself about working out How introversion and social commitments can collide Navigating disappointment while honoring commitments Showing up for your children, family, and community How to distinguish between pushing through and honoring your boundaries Why milestone moments may deserve a different level of commitment The power of cancelling with understanding Common narratives that make showing up harder Fear of missing out, comparison, and negative self-talk Why availability and capacity are not the same thing How faith and service can provide a grounding purpose Rituals that help when you don't feel like doing the thing Using timers, music, and routines to build momentum Why filling your own cup matters before pouring into others Creating a personal litmus test for deciding when to push through and when to rest Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  203: The Boss Moves Hat with Monique Earl 17.06.2026 44min

  What does it really take to make a boss move? In this episode of The Hats Podcast, Melissa Dumas and Kerri Harper-Howie sit down with powerhouse leader Monique Earl to explore what it means to make bold decisions, lead with confidence, and create impact without losing yourself in the process. With more than two decades of leadership experience across both the public and private sectors, Monique brings a wealth of wisdom on navigating high-level leadership, building meaningful relationships, overcoming fear, and trusting yourself when the next move feels uncertain. Throughout the conversation, Monique shares lessons from her journey through government leadership, consulting, community service, and personal adversity. She opens up about the pivotal career decision that changed the trajectory of her life, the cancer diagnosis that forced her to reevaluate her priorities, and why betting on yourself is often the biggest boss move of all. Melissa, Kerri, and Monique also challenge common ideas about leadership, success, and imposter syndrome. Together, they unpack the importance of authenticity, mentorship, capacity, relationship-building, and learning to trust the process even when the path forward isn't completely clear. Whether you're considering a career change, stepping into a leadership role, navigating a personal transition, or simply wondering what your next move should be, this conversation offers practical wisdom and encouragement to help you move forward with confidence. In This Episode: What "making boss moves" actually means in leadership and life Why taking risks is essential for personal and professional growth The influence Monique's parents had on her leadership philosophy How community impact shapes true leadership Why fear doesn't disappear and how to move forward anyway Navigating rooms where you may be the only woman or person of colour The importance of knowing and owning your superpowers Building relationships outside your comfort zone Why mentorship remains one of the most valuable career tools Understanding the difference between availability and capacity Monique's career-changing decision to leave a role she loved Lessons learned from navigating a cancer diagnosis and recovery Why betting on yourself is one of the biggest boss moves you can make Rethinking imposter syndrome and trusting your abilities How mistakes become some of our greatest teachers Why not every opportunity, promotion, or paycheck is the right one The power of showing up as your authentic self Why making boss moves is more like playing chess than checkers About Monique Earl: Monique is a dynamic leader with over 20 years of experience in both the public and private sectors, specializing in financial management, policy development, and infrastructure innovation. She currently serves as a Senior Manager at Accenture LLP, where she leads transportation and infrastructure initiatives across Southern California, helping public sector clients drive modernization, efficiency, and equity in mobility solutions. Previously, Monique held key leadership roles in the City of Los Angeles, including Deputy Mayor of Budget and Financial Policy, Chief Deputy Controller, and Executive Officer at the Los Angeles Department of Transportation. In these roles, she shaped financial strategy, improved transparency, and advanced transportation planning to better serve Angelenos. At the Los Angeles Department of Water and Power, she led Human Resources and spearheaded diversity initiatives in hiring, contracting, and community engagement. Born and raised in Los Angeles, Monique is a proud resident of Leimert Park and remains deeply committed to community engagement. She holds a Master of Public Administration from American University and a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from California State University, Northridge. Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumas: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  202: The Small Talk Hat 10.06.2026 25min

  Small talk. Argh, right?! Most of us do it. Many of us dislike it. Yet somehow, it remains one of the most important social skills we use in our personal and professional lives. Small talk is a bridge that helps people move from strangers to genuine connection. So, let's talk about small talk: how to make it easier and do it better.  Melissa shares why small talk can create anxiety for her as a therapist who spends her days having deep, emotionally meaningful conversations. Kerri reflects on how her career as an attorney has helped her become skilled at asking questions, building rapport, and navigating conversations in virtually any room. Together, they explore the purpose of small talk, why it matters, how it can open the door to deeper relationships, and practical ways to make it feel more authentic and less awkward. Whether you're attending networking events, meeting new people, reconnecting with old friends, or simply trying to feel more confident in social settings, this conversation offers practical insights that can help you approach small talk with greater ease and intention. In This Episode: Why small talk exists and the important role it plays in building connection The difference between small talk and meaningful conversation Melissa's experience with small talk anxiety and why surface-level conversations can feel challenging How Kerri learned to navigate conversations through her work as an attorney The value of finding shared humanity when meeting new people Why silence doesn't always need to be filled Practical strategies for starting conversations in networking and social settings How compliments can become authentic conversation starters The importance of asking questions you are genuinely curious about Why people often enjoy talking about themselves and how to listen well Signature questions that can help create more natural conversations How small talk can lead to deeper relationships, opportunities, and community Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  201: The Lifelong Learner Hat 03.06.2026 35min

  In this episode of The Hats Podcast, co-hosts Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie explore the Lifelong Learner Hat and why continuous growth is essential for anyone looking to level up personally and professionally. As part of the Boss Bitch Season, Melissa and Kerri discuss how lifelong learning extends far beyond classrooms, certifications, and formal education. It includes learning through life experiences, relationships, challenges, mistakes, therapy, business ventures, and self-reflection. They share personal stories about the lessons they've learned, the beliefs they've had to unlearn, and how staying curious has helped them evolve into stronger leaders, partners, parents, and professionals. The conversation also dives into the practical realities of making space for growth when life is already busy. From setting boundaries and prioritising learning on your calendar to advocating for professional development and embracing vulnerability, Melissa and Kerri offer actionable insights for anyone who wants to continue growing at any stage of life. Whether you already consider yourself a lifelong learner or you're just beginning your journey of personal and professional development, this episode is a reminder that it's never too late to learn something new or unlearn something that no longer serves you. In This Episode: Why the Lifelong Learner Hat is a key part of the Boss Bitch Season What it truly means to be a lifelong learner The connection between ambition, growth, and continuous learning How Melissa and Kerri intentionally create space for learning Why learning doesn't stop after school or professional certifications The importance of self-awareness and personal development Lessons Melissa learned from building a podcast and growing her therapy practice How Kerri prioritises learning through strategic scheduling and boundaries The difference between learning and unlearning Kerri's powerful realization that love is not transactional Melissa's journey of unlearning over-giving and strengthening boundaries Why communication is essential when growth changes your relationships How to protect your curiosity and commitment to learning Free and accessible ways to continue learning at any stage of life Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  200: Welcome to the Boss Bitch Season 27.05.2026 29min

  The Hats Podcast is back for Season 9! We are bigger, bolder, and brighter than ever. In fact, we are coming back in full Boss Bitch mode! In this season opener, hosts Melissa Dumaz and Kerri Harper-Howie officially introduce the "Boss Bitch Season" - a season focused on elevation, expansion, leadership, reinvention, and what it truly means to step into your next level personally and professionally. And, surprise: The Hats Podcast is launching a YouTube video version of its podcast! Yes, episodes will continue to be available via our usual audio channels.   In conversation, Melissa and Kerri open up about entering their "second life", leaving behind what no longer serves them, and stepping fully into the work, opportunities, and impact they feel called toward. They share honest reflections about ambition, imposter syndrome, innovation, professional growth, wellness, branding, entrepreneurship, and learning how to think bigger without losing authenticity along the way. The episode also gives listeners a preview of what's coming this season. In This Episode: Why Season 9 is called the "Boss Bitch Season" The launch of The Hats Podcast video experience Melissa and Kerri's current season of personal and professional growth The mindset shift from survival mode to expansion Why branding matters more than ever The importance of failing fast in business How AI is changing the future of entrepreneurship Melissa's vision for expanding wellness beyond the therapy office Kerri's public speaking goals and journey toward self-innovation Why visibility, impact, and community matter in this next chapter Connect with The Hats Podcast Send an email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHatsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheHatsPodcast   Connect with Kerri Harper-Howie: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/kerriharperhowie/ Check out Kerri's book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0D9TYFW6N Connect with Melissa Dumaz: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadumaz/ Website: https://www.melissadumaz.com/  
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  199. What the Guys Said About Season 8 22.01.2025 35min

  Season 8 was different than all the others. So, we had to mix things up for our closing episodes as well. Episode 198 was all about the highs and lows of Season 8 from co-host Melissa and Kerri's perspectives. This final episode of Season 8 is how their husbands, Khalel and Sanford, felt being on the hot seat all season long. Listen in to see how it went for them. Connect with us: Facebook Twitter Instagram [email protected] Thank you for listening! We tip our hats to you!
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  198. She Said, He Said, We Said IT ALL ... 15.01.2025 29min

  Well, maybe we didn't say everything - impossible, right? But, we talked about fatherhood, sex, layoffs, dates, being black men and so many other things. Listen to co-hosts Kerri and Melissa wrap up season 8 and our favorite moments from this unique season with our husbands as our only guests. Connect with us: Facebook Twitter Instagram [email protected] Thank you for listening! We tip our hats to you!
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  197. The Work/Life Balance Hat - He Said 08.01.2025 47min

  Men balance life differently than women ... at least our husbands, Khalel and Sanford, do. They even see the need to balance through a different lense. So, co-hosts Kerri & Melissa thought the Hatters could benefit from hearing how they balance their busy lives and careers with our busy lives and careers. They shared some insights even we had not thought of. Listen in so you can get them too! Connect with us: Facebook Twitter Instagram [email protected] Thank you for listening! We tip our hats to you!