The Gary Gunn Show Podcast

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  How to Get Better at Dating: Dating Advice for Men From a Real Coaching Session | #606 17.09.2026 17min

  In this episode, I break down what actually happens inside a real dating coaching session and the kind of problems men bring to me. You’ll learn how I identify what is holding someone back, how I challenge unhelpful patterns, and how we turn vague dating problems into practical changes. I cover confidence, meeting women, communication, mindset, attraction, and the mistakes that often keep men stuck. If you want to understand how dating coaching works, improve your dating life, or become more confident around women, this episode gives you a practical look at the process from the inside. Book a 45-minute strategy call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  How to Avoid Narcissistic Women | #605 16.09.2026 14min

  If you keep finding yourself drawn to narcissistic women, there is usually a pattern behind it. In this episode, I break down how to recognise the early warning signs, avoid getting pulled in by charm, and stop repeating the same dating mistakes. You will learn what narcissistic behaviour can look like, why certain men overlook the red flags, and how to build stronger standards before emotions take over. I also explain how to protect your confidence, trust your judgement, and walk away sooner. The goal is simple: help you choose healthier women and create better relationships from the start again. Book a 45-minute strategy call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  How to Have More Sex with More Women | #604 13.09.2026 11min

  In this episode, I break down how I work with clients to build a life where meeting women, attracting women and creating opportunities becomes a natural part of how they live. This is not about chasing harder, using dating apps more, or relying on tricks and tactics. It is about lifestyle design, social positioning, confidence and putting yourself in environments where attraction can happen without force. I talk about how to create a life that makes you more visible, more socially connected and more attractive to women, to the point where women start showing interest in you first. Book a 45-minute strategy call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  How to Build a Better Self-Image in Dating | #603 12.09.2026 16min

  Your self-image shapes how you show up in dating, from the women you approach to the standards you set and the confidence you carry into every interaction. In this episode, I break down how to build a stronger self-image by choosing better male role models, using role plays to practise new behaviours, and learning how to handle the inevitable teething issues that come with change. I also explain why self-confidence is built through evidence and repetition, not positive thinking alone. If you want to feel more capable, grounded and confident around women, this episode gives you a practical place to start. Book a 45-minute strategy call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  What to Talk About on a First Date: 10 Conversation Topics That Create Connection | #602 11.09.2026 11min

  What should you talk about on a first date if you want the conversation to flow without turning it into an interview? In this episode of The Gary Gunn Show, I give you ten first-date conversation topics that can help you create connection, attraction and a more memorable interaction. You will learn what to talk about when the initial small talk runs out, how to ask better questions and how to take a conversation beyond work, where you live and what you did at the weekend. I also explain how to share stories, introduce humour, explore values and listen for conversational threads that give you somewhere natural to take the interaction. If you worry about awkward silences, struggle to know what to say on a date or find yourself firing questions at women because you are nervous, this episode will give you a simple framework for having better first-date conversations without memorising scripts. Book a 45-minute strategy call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  How to Talk to Women: What 18 Years of Coaching Men Has Taught Me | #600 09.09.2026 14min

  How do you talk to women with confidence, create attraction and avoid running out of things to say? For episode 600 of The Gary Gunn Show, I bring together the most important lessons I have learned from 18 years of coaching men in real-world dating situations. I cover how to start a conversation with a woman, what to say after the opening few minutes, how to listen without turning the interaction into an interview and how to introduce humour, flirting, teasing and sexual tension. I also explain some of the biggest conversation mistakes men make, from trying to impress women to overthinking every word they say. If you struggle with confidence talking to women, want to improve your conversation skills or want to understand how attraction develops through communication, this episode gives you a complete framework. After 600 episodes, this is my guide to becoming a man who can talk to women without relying on scripts, tricks or rehearsed lines. Learn the strategies I’ve used to coach more than 1,200 men worldwide to take control of their dating lives and create the results they want: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  Why Women Lose Interest in Men: 7 Mistakes That Kill Attraction | #601 08.09.2026 15min

  Why do women lose interest in men, even when the attraction seemed strong at the beginning? In this episode of The Gary Gunn Show, I break down seven common mistakes that can cause a woman to lose attraction and start pulling away. You will learn why chasing harder when a woman becomes distant can make the situation worse, how neediness and reassurance-seeking affect attraction, and why abandoning your own standards can change the way she sees you. I also explain how over-texting, trying too hard to impress her and becoming emotionally dependent on the outcome can create pressure where there was once excitement. If a woman has suddenly become distant, stopped showing the same level of interest or left you wondering what changed, this episode will help you understand what may be happening. More importantly, you will learn how to avoid the behaviours that cause attraction to disappear in the first place. Book your £29 strategy call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  What Women Find Attractive in Men: 6 Traits That Matter More Than Looks | #599 08.09.2026 14min

  What do women find attractive in men, and how important are looks compared with confidence, personality and behaviour? In this episode of The Gary Gunn Show, I break down six traits that can make a man more attractive to women and explain why attraction is about much more than physical appearance. We look at emotional stability, confidence, leadership, self-respect, presence, purpose and the way you communicate with women. I explain why trying too hard to impress a woman can reduce attraction, why having standards matters and how the way you live your life influences the way women respond to you. If you want to become more attractive to women, understand what women want in a man and improve the qualities that shape attraction, this episode will give you practical areas to work on. The goal is not to pretend to be someone else. It is to develop traits that make you stronger in dating and in life. Learn more about my coaching: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  How to Ask a Woman Out Without Making It Awkward | #598 07.09.2026 13min

  How do you ask a woman out without making the situation awkward, putting too much pressure on her or talking yourself out of it? In this episode of The Gary Gunn Show, I explain how to ask a woman out with confidence and make the transition from conversation to date feel natural. You will learn when to ask her out, what to say, how to suggest a date without sounding needy and why many men create unnecessary tension before they even make the invitation. I also cover how to handle rejection, how to avoid vague plans and why being clear about what you want makes dating much easier. Whether you have met a woman through friends, at work, during the day or through your social life, this episode will help you understand how to ask a woman on a date while keeping your confidence and self-respect intact. Book a private consultation call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  How to Know If a Woman Likes You: 7 Signs She’s Genuinely Interested | #597 06.09.2026 12min

  How do you know if a woman likes you, or whether she is just being friendly? In this episode of The Gary Gunn Show, I break down seven clear signs a woman is genuinely interested in you and explain how attraction tends to show up through her behaviour, body language, communication and level of investment. You will learn how to recognise the difference between politeness and genuine attraction, how women behave when they want to spend more time with you, and the common signals men miss because they are overthinking the interaction. I also explain why relying on one sign can lead you in the wrong direction and why you need to look at the whole pattern of her behaviour. If you want to understand female attraction, recognise the signs a woman likes you and become more confident reading social situations, this episode gives you a practical framework you can use in your dating life. Book a private consultation call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  Why Is Dating So Hard for Men? | #596 04.09.2026 17min

  If dating has started to feel frustrating, exhausting or pointless, this video will help you reset your mindset and regain momentum. I’ll show you how to deal with rejection, stop taking setbacks personally, rebuild your confidence and keep moving forward without forcing results. You’ll learn how to recognise when frustration is affecting your behaviour, how to take control of your focus, and how to create progress even when your dating life feels stuck. If you’re tired of dating, losing motivation or wondering whether to give up, this will give you a practical way to reset and start moving again. Book a private consultation call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  #595 - How to Improve Your Dating Life With One Simple Change 25.08.2026 11min

  Years ago, I worked installing air conditioning systems around the country. We worked hard, travelled constantly and made the same mistakes again and again, until someone showed us one simple change that transformed everything. In this episode, I explain why the same principle applies to your dating life. You can put in more effort, meet more women and consume more dating advice, but if nobody spots the mistake you keep repeating, your results may stay the same. I’ll share examples from my coaching and show how one small correction can improve your confidence, conversations, dates and results with women. Book a private consultation call: https://socialattraction.co.uk/ Disclaimer: This content is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute personalised coaching, therapy, medical, legal or financial advice and does not create a professional client relationship. Individual circumstances and results vary, and no specific outcome is guaranteed. Copyright © Social Attraction Limited. All rights reserved. Unauthorised copying, republication, distribution or commercial use of our original content is prohibited, subject to applicable copyright exceptions and other rights provided by law.
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  #594 - Texting Anxiety: Feel the Tension, Don’t Send the Text 24.08.2026 14min

  Texting anxiety can make you overthink every message, check your phone constantly, reply too quickly, double-text, or send something just to relieve the tension you are feeling. In this episode, I explain why that tension is not always a signal to act. Sometimes the most confident thing you can do is feel the discomfort and do nothing. You will learn how to recognise when anxiety is driving your behaviour, why reassurance-seeking can damage attraction, and how to become calmer around texting and dating. The goal is simple: stop using messages to escape tension and start responding from a stronger emotional position. Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #593 - Why Do I Feel Like I’m Not Good Enough for Attractive Women? 23.08.2026 25min

  You see a woman you find incredibly attractive and, within seconds, your perception of yourself changes. You might have felt good walking into the room. You might be successful in other areas of your life, comfortable talking to people and capable of holding your own socially. But then you notice her and a different conversation begins in your head. You start wondering why she would be interested in you. You notice the other men around her. You imagine the kind of men she probably dates. You become more conscious of your appearance, your status, your age, your conversation skills or whatever insecurity happens to be available at that moment. Before you’ve even spoken to her, you’ve reached a conclusion: I’m probably not good enough for her. Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #592 - What If You Had a Sugar Baby? 18.08.2026 20min

  What would your life look like if you had a sugar baby? In this episode, we run a thought experiment and talk you through what that relationship might look like, from the initial attraction and excitement to the expectations that come with it. We explore what happens when money, lifestyle and intimacy become part of the agreement, and how that can change the dynamic between two people. We also look at the difference between a transactional relationship and a real relationship built on genuine desire, connection and choice. Would having a sugar baby make dating easier, or would you lose something more valuable? Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #591 - Are You Talking to Her or Defending Yourself From Her? 15.08.2026 17min

  What would your conversations with women feel like if you stopped preparing to defend yourself? In this episode, I explore J. D. Salinger’s *The Catcher in the Rye* and what Holden Caulfield can teach us about defensive communication. We’ll look at sarcasm, quick wit, judgement, imagined conversations, vulnerability and the exhausting need to control how other people see you. From Holden’s red hunting hat to his desire to become the catcher in the rye, we’ll explore how the things that once protected you can eventually prevent connection. What happens when you stop defending yourself and start experiencing the conversation? Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #590 - The Anxiety of Approaching Women 14.08.2026 16min

  What if your approach anxiety isn’t telling you to stop, but telling you that you’re standing in front of possibility? In this episode, I explore Søren Kierkegaard’s *The Concept of Anxiety* and what his ideas can teach you about the fear of approaching women. We’ll look at the relationship between anxiety, freedom, choice and possibility, and why trying to eliminate nervousness might be the wrong goal. From the dizziness of freedom to learning through uncertainty, you’ll discover a different way to understand approach anxiety. Perhaps confidence isn’t feeling no fear. Perhaps it’s choosing to act while the possibility remains uncertain. Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #589 - Can Tantra Transform Your Dating Life? 13.08.2026 15min

  What would happen to your dating life if you stopped trying to make anything happen? In this episode, I explore Osho’s *The Tantra Experience* and what its principles can teach you about women, attraction and dating. We’ll look at presence, spontaneity, awareness, letting go of outcomes and learning through action. Instead of approaching every interaction wanting a number, date or result, what happens when you experience the moment without trying to force it somewhere? From handling rejection to flirting without expectation, this episode explores how the principles of Tantra could help you become more present, relaxed and free around women. Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #588 - Confessions of a Sexually Driven Man 12.08.2026 16min

  What do you do with your sexual energy when you don’t want it controlling your life? In this episode, I explore Augustine of Hippo’s *Confessions* and his struggle with sexual desire, temptation, habit and self-control. We’ll look at what happens when a strong sexual appetite starts influencing your decisions, why repeated behaviour becomes habit, and whether every sexual urge needs to be satisfied. We’ll also explore how your environment can intensify desire and how to redirect your attention without becoming ashamed of your sexuality. Ultimately, can you experience powerful sexual desire without allowing it to control your dating life? Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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  #587 - Dating Notes from the Underground 11.08.2026 24min

  What if the reason you think you’re meeting women isn’t the real reason? In this episode, I explore Fyodor Dostoevsky’s *Notes from Underground* and what it can teach us about the hidden motives behind our dating behaviour. Are you looking for connection, or validation? Are you approaching women because you’re sociable, or because you need to feel desirable? Are you pursuing sex, escaping loneliness or repairing your ego after rejection? Through Dostoevsky’s Underground Man, we’ll explore self-deception, approval, humiliation, power, vulnerability and the uncomfortable gap between what we say we want and what might actually be driving us. Learn more about my coaching and digital courses here: socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #nervoussystemhealing #childhoodtrauma This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.