We Talk Back

The North Remembers 28.05.2026 1h 10min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, culture, and relationship talk while recapping their weekend adventures, including a night out at a dessert bar and conversations around popular films and viral moments. The duo dives into the intersection of crime and law enforcement through humorous commentary, while also unpacking ongoing debates surrounding “gold diggers,” financial expectations, and modern dating standards. They discuss public conversations involving Floyd Mayweather Jr. and child support, using the topic to explore the broader realities of money, responsibility, and perception in relationships. The conversation expands into the evolving dynamics between men and women, focusing on ambition, attraction, communication, and societal expectations in modern partnerships. AJ and TamBam examine how financial success often shapes male identity, while many women seek emotional connection, support, and intentionality beyond money alone. From discussions around masculine and feminine energy to power, submission, and relationship balance, this episode offers an honest and entertaining perspective on navigating gender dynamics, emotional needs, and healthier communication in today’s dating culture.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You Only Know The Old Me 21.05.2026 1h 18min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another. The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Y'all Feel That Too? 14.05.2026 57min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on Mother’s Day and unpack the emotional layers surrounding motherhood, relationships, and modern dating expectations. Through personal stories and honest dialogue, they explore the pressures women face around love, family, and self-worth while discussing how societal standards shape perceptions of desirability and relationship value. The conversation also tackles trust, communication, and the impact of infidelity, offering candid insight into the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The discussion expands into sexuality, burnout, and the everyday pressures of balancing work, personal life, and emotional well-being. AJ and TamBam examine how media influences ideas around sexuality and self-image while addressing the shared exhaustion many women experience as they juggle responsibilities and expectations. From aging and body image to self-care and emotional health, this episode delivers a relatable and thoughtful perspective on the challenges of maintaining balance, protecting peace, and showing up authentically through life’s evolving seasons.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

So You Doing The Bending 07.05.2026 1h 2min

AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and social media dynamics. The duo discusses everything from movie experiences and hot yoga to the unexpected role of air fryers in relationships, using everyday moments to unpack larger conversations around gender norms, sexuality, and personal expectations in dating. Their relatable storytelling offers an entertaining yet thoughtful perspective on navigating romance in today’s culture. The conversation deepens into the importance of boundaries, consent, and emotional awareness in intimate relationships. AJ and TamBam explore why people—particularly women—sometimes compromise their personal limits to please partners, while discussing the emotional consequences that can follow, including guilt, shame, and self-violation. Emphasizing communication, accountability, and mutual respect, the episode encourages listeners to better understand and protect their boundaries while fostering healthier, more intentional relationships rooted in trust and self-awareness.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thou Art No Russell 30.04.2026 1h

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack a weekend in Atlanta while diving into serious conversations around domestic violence, relationship dynamics, and cultural headlines. From reacting to a shocking incident at a Mercedes-Benz dealership to discussing the latest surrounding Megan Thee Stallion, the hosts blend real-time commentary with deeper reflections on safety, accountability, and emotional awareness. They also explore the idea of the “good man” in today’s dating landscape, referencing Russell Wilson as a point of debate while breaking down expectations, values, and partnership standards. The conversation expands into modern relationships, focusing on communication, honesty, and the personal growth required to attract and maintain healthy connections. AJ and TamBam discuss the balance between discipline and freedom, the importance of privacy in relationships, and how public exposure can impact personal lives. With candid insights and relatable perspectives, this episode offers a grounded take on navigating love, self-care, and evolving relationship standards in today’s culture. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You Aint Got No Alibi 23.04.2026 1h 5min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam dive into a thought-provoking conversation on Black women’s empowerment, mental health, and the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The duo unpacks the complexities of the justice system, the rise of therapy language in everyday conversations, and how terms like gaslighting and narcissism are often misunderstood or misused. They also explore the impact of social media on mental health awareness, highlighting how online narratives shape perception, accountability, and emotional expression. The conversation deepens into personal experiences with trauma, PTSD, and the emotional labor often expected in relationships, while addressing the importance of clear communication and self-awareness. AJ and Tam also touch on parenting, nutrition, and the responsibility of fostering healthier environments both at home and in partnerships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Chose The Bear 16.04.2026 1h 13min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor with hard truths as they recap their weekends—from fasting challenges to a wild Cardi B concert—before diving into trending topics like taxes, prank call dangers, digital likeness rights, and celebrity divorce drama involving Kimora Lee and Russell Simmons. What starts as lighthearted conversation quickly shifts into deeper discussions about accountability, ownership, and the unexpected risks people face in today’s digital and real-world environments. The episode takes a serious turn as the hosts address the tragic case of Ashley Janay, using it as a catalyst to discuss women’s safety, situational awareness, and self-defense. AJ and Tam emphasize the importance of recognizing red flags, trusting your instincts, and being prepared for dangerous situations—especially for Black women navigating unique societal challenges.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do It With No Hands 16.04.2026 56min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor and real talk as they unpack trending topics and personal experiences, from weekend recaps to rising gas prices and headlines involving Offset. The conversation dives into street culture, music industry drama, and viral moments involving artists like Gucci Mane, Poo Shiesty, and Trick Daddy, while exploring how these situations reflect deeper conversations about balance, accountability, and priorities in everyday life. The discussion also shifts into self-care, aging, and redefining success, as AJ and Tam Bam reflect on the pressures of hustle culture, evolving friendships, and the realities of maintaining relationships while chasing career goals.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Molly, You In Danger Girl 02.04.2026 1h 1min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam mix humor with real-life commentary as they recap their weekends and react to trending headlines, including Angela Simmons’ controversial dating advice, viral internet moments, and unexpected tragedies that spark deeper conversations about accountability and awareness. The hosts also unpack airline drama, the realities of no-fly lists, and how everyday situations can quickly escalate—bringing their signature blend of humor, storytelling, and unfiltered perspective. The conversation shifts into bigger-picture topics like AI, cyber warfare, and emergency preparedness, exploring how technology and global instability are shaping the future. AJ and Tam discuss the importance of survival skills, community support, and staying ready in unpredictable situations—from natural disasters to worst-case scenarios. Balancing comedy with insight, the episode encourages listeners to think critically, stay informed, and prioritize resilience in an ever-changing world.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Choreplay with Jordan Carlos 26.03.2026 1h 22min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam turn weekend chaos into a meaningful conversation about relationships, household responsibilities, and emotional connection. Joined by comedian and author Jordan Carlos, they unpack themes from his book Chore Play, exploring how everyday tasks like cleaning, cooking, and shared responsibilities can strengthen intimacy and partnership. The discussion highlights how upbringing shapes expectations around domestic roles and why modern relationships require more balance, effort, and intentional communication. The conversation also dives into division of labor, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics, offering practical advice on recognizing signs of strain and improving connection. AJ, Tam Bam, and Jordan emphasize the power of small gestures, mutual respect, and understanding each partner’s background to build healthier, more supportive relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We Talk Back: Hard Head Makes A Soft A$$ 21.03.2026 1h 24min

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam deliver a candid and humorous conversation on relationships, financial literacy, self-growth, and navigating life as unapologetically Black women. Through personal stories and real-life experiences, they reflect on the importance of learning from past mistakes, listening to older generations, and making intentional decisions that support long-term growth. Their unfiltered dialogue blends laughter with life lessons, offering relatable insight into everyday challenges and wins. The conversation also explores self-care, evolving friendships, health awareness, and money management, emphasizing the urgency of making necessary life changes before it’s too late.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Reliable...like a Honda 12.03.2026 51min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor, pop culture, and relationship talk as they recap weekend stories and trending headlines. The hosts react to reports of a home invasion attempt at Rihanna’s residence, discuss the controversy surrounding Dak Prescott’s canceled wedding over a prenup dispute, and revisit the music industry conversation around Adina Howard’s career challenges.  The discussion shifts into a candid debate about dating, marriage, and gender dynamics, exploring the emotional labor women often carry in relationships and the different ways men and women approach commitment. AJ and Tam Bam unpack topics like attraction, compatibility, settling in relationships, and the societal expectations placed on both genders—ultimately emphasizing the importance of communication, compromise, and self-awareness in building healthy partnerships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Never Forget feat. Laura Dyan Kezman and William Howell 05.03.2026 1h 7min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with filmmakers Laura Dyan Kezman and William Howell to discuss their powerful documentary Cycle, which investigates the tragic police killing of 18-year-old Tyrese West in Racine, Wisconsin. The conversation explores the challenges of turning real-life tragedy into impactful storytelling, the resistance the filmmakers faced while uncovering the truth, and the responsibility of presenting sensitive cases with journalistic integrity and accuracy. Kezman and Howell also reflect on the broader implications of police violence, media narratives, and systemic injustice, while sharing how the documentary aims to break the recurring cycle of outrage followed by public forgetfulness. Through personal insight and honest dialogue, the episode highlights the role of documentary filmmaking as activism—encouraging viewers to engage with the story, confront uncomfortable truths, and work toward meaningful awareness and change. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We Can't Be Friends feat. Jackie Woodyear 26.02.2026 1h 2min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam re joined by returning special guest Jackie Woodyear and unpack a mix of pop culture and relationship dynamics, from their weekend recaps to the story of Juanita Jordan and the ongoing tension between 50 Cent and T.I. They break down how celebrity drama reflects deeper themes of loyalty, ego, and public perception. The conversation shifts to male-female friendships, exploring the realities of “work husbands” and “work wives,” blurred boundaries, and hidden intentions. AJ and Tam Bam challenge listeners to examine trust, emotional safety, and the difference between genuine friendship and ulterior motives—reminding everyone that clear communication and strong boundaries are essential in modern relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dreams on Layaway ft. Jackie Woodyear 19.02.2026 1h 23min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam are joined by special guest Jackie Woodyear for a candid, eye-opening conversation about the reality of the American Dream, home ownership, and financial empowerment — especially for Black women and underserved communities. The trio breaks down today’s housing market, rising debt, credit challenges, and the real barriers many people face when trying to buy a home and build long-term stability. They also explore financial literacy, generational wealth, gentrification, and hustle culture, unpacking how systemic inequality and economic pressure shape modern life and decision-making. With practical tips for first-time homebuyers and honest talk about money habits and mindset, this episode delivers both game and perspective for anyone navigating real estate, credit, and wealth building in today’s economy.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We Talk Back: Roses Are Red, Flags Are Too 14.02.2026 47min

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam unpack the real meaning of love, relationships, and self-care as Valentine’s Day approaches. The hosts share personal stories and honest reflections on dating, romantic expectations, and the emotional pressure that social media can place on modern relationships. From Valentine’s Day gift culture to relationship standards, they challenge fairytale narratives and encourage more grounded, intentional connection. The conversation explores love languages, communication in relationships, self-love, and partner expectations, highlighting how couples can better understand each other without performance or pressure. With humor and transparency, AJ and Tam Bam remind listeners that healthy relationships require clarity, reciprocity, and emotional awareness — not just grand gestures for the timeline.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 Roses Are Red, Flags Are Too | Season 6 PremiereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mile A Minute! 22.01.2026 56min

In this upbeat episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam reconnect after quiet weekends, turning everyday moments into laugh-out-loud commentary. From battling freezing temperatures to candid reflections on weight loss, wellness goals, and body changes, the hosts unpack the realities of trying to live healthier in real life—not just on social media. They also explore trending health topics like peptides, diet shifts, and lifestyle discipline, offering honest takes on what works, what doesn’t, and what’s simply hype. The conversation flows into hilarious and relatable discussions about dating standards, personal quirks, and the chaos of modern relationships, blending humor with real-life observations. The episode closes with a celebratory reflection on the podcast’s growth, marking five seasons of unfiltered conversations, friendship, and laughter.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

DoorDash Gotcho Cash 15.01.2026 59min

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and Tam Bam catch up on personal health updates and weekend highlights before diving into timely conversations around pop culture, celebrity relationships, and the latest moments from the Golden Globes. They break down Hollywood dynamics, public image, and how fame often complicates relationships behind the scenes.The discussion then shifts to financial literacy and emotional spending, with the hosts examining how money habits are often tied to self-worth, relationships, and personal healing.   Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Agape....Agave 08.01.2026 50min

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam ease back in after the holidays with candid conversations about rest, reflection, and resetting for the new year. They touch on evolving health and wellness trends, shifting attitudes toward alcohol consumption, and an unexpectedly generous moment that sparks a broader discussion about kindness, reciprocity, and human connection.The episode also explores personal growth, navigating romantic relationships, and the importance of self-care, boundaries, and choosing joy in everyday life. With their signature humor, AJ and Tam share lighthearted “dumb b*tch story" from a listener—rooted in past missteps that offer lessons on self-awareness, confidence, and growth.   Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Replay* | The Judgment Olympics with Good Mom Bad Choices 02.01.2026 1h 22min

*Originally aired October 16th, 2025 In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @goodmoms_badchoices @watcherica @milah_mappSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.