The Good Sex Project

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• BONUS: Digital Dangers - The New Rules, with Netsafe's Sean Lyons 12.06.2026 26мин

  You don't have to do anything to become a victim of image-based sexual abuse. AI can now fabricate intimate images from a single photo - and the shame, fear, and coercion that follow are just as real as if it had actually happened. Melody talks to Netsafe's Sean Lyons about deepfakes, sextortion, nudify apps, and the organised crime networks behind them. Essential listening - especially if you have kids online.Make a submission to the deepfake digital harm and exploitation bill here Get in touch with Netsafe here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: Sex Bots & Data Dilemmas with Dr Rebecca Saunders 11.06.2026 38мин

  Your data knows who you're attracted to. Your apps are learning how you love. And somewhere, an AI is waiting to be your perfect partner. Dr Rebecca Saunders talks to Melody about sex bots, relationship mediators, and the very human desires fuelling a very profitable industry.Dr Rebecca Saunders' Book Bodies of Work can be bought here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• Artificial Intimacy 09.06.2026 43мин

  Meet the new third wheel in modern dating: a chatbot. This episode digs into AI in our sex and love lives - Helen uses it to game the dating apps, until it works a little too well… and Rob turns to AI roleplay to explore his sexuality. But whose interests does it really serve - and what is it shaping us to desire? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• TRAILER: The Good Sex Project is back for Season 3! 04.06.2026 1мин

  Eight episodes diving into the tricky topics - age gaps and AI, betrayal and repair, singleness and shame, sex work and saying things out loud, and the question of what it takes to become an extraordinary lover. Honest, human, funny and sometimes uncomfortable - It’s gonna be a ride! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• LOVE BITE: Charlie 26.05.2026 28мин

  We meet Charlie, who charts a course through a restrictive childhood, people pleasing, mirroring, and an abusive relationship to thriving as a solo non-monogamous person living with various mental and physical health issues. Can rejecting the ‘rules’ of monogamy help you feel safer, freer, and more yourself? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• LOVE BITE: Jasmine 19.05.2026 26мин

  Jasmine and her husband, together since their teens, had just started to reconnect and really learn about intimacy after having kids when Jasmine got a shock diagnosis. While they navigate Jasmine’s health journey, they continue to connect in ways that surprise them.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• LOVE BITE: Chris 12.05.2026 28мин

  When he was 14, Chris made a list of the attributes of his dream girlfriend. But as time ticked by, no-one made the grade. He was happy to wait until she appeared… but at some point he realised he was the only virgin on campus. And then M came along - who ticked almost none of his boxes, but was super fun and incredible. What should Chris do?  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• LOVE BITE: Sarah and Lane 05.05.2026 22мин

  After three kids dulled their once-magnetic sex life, mid-40s couple Sarah and Lane throw out expectations and pressure, un-learn old patterns, add some new tantra tricks to the repertoire and rebuild connection through weekly ‘naked nights’. Find Libido Liberation on Insta - @libidoliberation Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• We're BACK! And need YOU. 26.08.2025 1мин

  The Good Sex Project will be back in 2026, and we're still looking for some people with specific experiences and stories to speak to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: Live Masterclass with Nic Beets and Verity Thom 30.09.2024 45мин

  In association with Ensemble and live from The Village in Auckland, Melody is joined by intimacy and relationship experts Nic Beets and Verity Thom to discuss the vital role of having and re-centering pleasure in our lives.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: Update on Chloe from S1 09.09.2024 6мин

  Bonus alert! In this mini episode, Chloe - who shared her list of "f**keries" in season 1 - leaves a voice memo with a surprising update.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: The Māori Therapist 06.09.2024 39мин

  In this special bonus episode of TGSP, we introduce you to Jemma Bennett, an extraordinary therapist based in Tauranga who goes by 'The Māori Therapist' on Instagram. Jemma shares her deeply moving life story, alongside her professional insights into the cycles of abuse and the complexities of intimate relationships. This episode is a raw, touching, and enlightening exploration of resilience, healing, and the importance of pleasure, connection, and cultural identity in overcoming trauma.If you or anyone you know needs support, please reach out to one of the following helplines. Women’s Refuge 0800 733 843 Safe to Talk Sexual Harm Helpline free call 0800 044 334 anytime.Shine Free call 0508 744 633 between 9am and 11pm (for men and women)1737, Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 to talk to a trained counsellor.Kidsline 0800 54 37 54 for people up to 18 years old. Open 24/7.What’s Up 0800 942 8787 (for 5 to 18-year-olds). Phone counselling available Monday-Friday, noon-11pm and weekends, 3pm-11pm. Online chat is available 3pm-10pm daily.Youthline 0800 376 633, free text 234, email talk@youthline.co.nz, or find online chat and other support options here.If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 111Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• 9: Horny Stories 26.08.2024 48мин

  Horny stories are having a moment. What is it about them that's got us so thirsty? What makes a good horny storyline good, and a bad one... dismal? And is erotic media just for fun, or does it have the potential to impact our actual sex lives? Melody speaks with "kooky, spooky" romance writer Steff Green, erotic audio maker Ryan Mairs aka Marisyy and Intimacy coordinator Ita O'Brien (Normal People, Sex Education, I May Destroy You) about the power of stories in fueling sexual desire and breaking taboos. Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: Aging well with Dr Olivia Smart + Nic Beets 26.08.2024 59мин

  Gynaecologist Dr Olivia Smart and Clinical Psychologist Nic Beets talk about some of the physical, sexual, and mental health effects of ageing, including in depth discussion of peri, post, and menopause, and how to support your partner through these changes. They also touch on changes in the male body, and explain why getting older doesn't have to mean the end of a happy, thriving sex life - if you don't want it to.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• 8: Autumn Years 19.08.2024 52мин

  Sex and ageing, we explore the intersection of sexuality, ageing, and personal transformation. Host Melody Thomas delves into stories from those experiencing newfound freedoms and adventures in their later years. From touching accounts of midlife crises to the joy of rediscovery, this episode sheds light on navigating sexual health, menopause, and ultimately, embracing a fulfilling and vibrant life at any age.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: Anke Richter 12.08.2024 40мин

  Journalist and author Anke Richter shares her personal journey through the world of neo-tantra and reveals how easy it can be to become entangled in high-demand groups. Tune into this bonus episode for an eye-opening conversation that spans personal diary, investigative journalism, and critical advice on how to navigate these complex dynamics.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• 7: Purity ring 12.08.2024 45мин

  Is it possible to have sexual joy and spiritual faith? This episode of The Good Sex Project delves into the impact of purity culture. Phil and Lavinia share their journey from conservative Christian upbringings to embracing a different path for their family. We'll also hear from Chrissy and Mark, whose lives are intertwined with profound lessons about love, faith, and sexual freedom.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• 6: Three Women 06.08.2024 51мин

  Inspired by Lisa Taddeo’s book, 'Three Women,' this episode follows the intimate journeys of Tracey, Leah, and Naomi through their experiences of love, desire, and identity. Navigating the deep waters of sexuality, societal expectations, and personal transformations across different generations, tune in for candid conversations that challenge norms and offer insights into the complex tapestry of female desire. Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• 5: Slow your roll (Relationships 102) 29.07.2024 48мин

  What if we took it slow? In this episode we join one woman on her search for profound love and mind-blowing, soul-melding sex, travelling from scepticism to a deep, fulfilling relationship built on respect, patience, and divine slow-sex. You’ll hear about real techniques to slow it down and up the pleasure from Alissa Resnick of OMGYes. If you're curious about taking your intimacy to a lush new level, this episode is a must-listen.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok      Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
• BONUS: Emily Nagoski on the gender mirage, emotional floor plans and magic tricks 25.07.2024 36мин

  In this extended interview, Melody Thomas talks with renowned sex educator and author Emily Nagoski. They explore the neuroscience behind desire and pleasure, debunk cultural myths, and discuss Emily's latest insights on creating lasting sexual connections. Tune in for actionable wisdom and transformative advice that could elevate your intimate life to new heights.Let's stay connected! InstagramFacebookTikTok       Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.