The NVR Podcast

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• NVR Podcast - Parents - NVR principles to support Sarah with her nonverbal autistic grandson 18.02.2025 45min

  Hello and welcome to PartnershipProject's first Parent Podcast. This year we are focusing on Parental Presence in the form of monthly podcasts and blog posts. These voices will be from current or past parents who have been referred to PartnershipProjects via a local authority or agency to work with our accredited NVR practitioners. Here, they are permitting us to host their stories, their struggles and successes in their own words, using this platform to share their growth ...
• NVR Podcast Season 4, Episode #1 - Special New Year Edition: NVR and Neurodivergence 22.01.2024 39min

  A special edition by Peter Jakob and Joanne Buchmüller, writer and Specialist Family and Systemic Psychotherapist in which they discuss the dilemmas in how NVR can be used to support parents and their children with Neurodivergence. They highlight how the exploration of parental erasure and not mattering are the starting points and that resistance methods such as announcements are secondary ways in which parents raise presence, hear their own voice and sense of agency. They c...
• NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode #9 - The Need for Justice in Child Focused Practice - How to engage with clarity? 03.01.2024 33min

  Shila Desai and Peter Jakob discuss some additions to Child focused Practices in NVR . Unmet needs were categorised in four ways which included the need to belong, to feel safe and secure, the need for autonomy with a sense of accomplishment and fourth the need for a coherent and benign narrative of worth and being loved. This podcast throws up a fifth need which is the 'Need for Justice' and how NVR has ignored this 'big elephant' in the room. How do we help adults to initiate ju...
• NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 8 - New Developments in NVR 30.11.2023 30min

  In this episode Jill Lubienski and Dr Peter Jakob discuss the wider applications of NVR, focusing on areas of practice not originally considered within the NVR family approach developed by Haim Omer. Discussion includes how NVR could be used for example in situations where a young person refuses to comply with diabetic medication; in communities where there is gang-related violence; how practitioners might utilise imaginary methods with siblings to resist escalation; and NVR practices in wide...
• NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 7 - "Can't think about anything but war!" 11.10.2023 32min

  In light of recent events (war) taking our focus, we felt strongly to reflect on what builds peace. This is an emotional piece that we were compelled to speak about. With Shila Desai & Peter Jakob. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influ...
• NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 6 'A Gentle Kind of Resistance'- NVR and Mental Health 29.08.2023 29min

  In this episode Shila Desai speaks to Vasiliki Loumpa- a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist/ NVR Accredited Practitioner about how she uses NVR and its adaptations in working with young people's mental health. We explore how de-escalation in symptoms is possible and how practitioners create space to re-connect with for parents unheard needs. Don't forget to check the PartnershipProjects Website for our 1 day conference on 12th September and also new dates for our training courses from ...
• NVR Podcast season 3, episode #5 - How can NVR be adapted for Situational Mutism 02.08.2023 36min

  In this podcast, Shila Desai and Peter Jakob explore the difficult impact of situational mutism, social withdrawal and shutdown faced by parents and carers when young people are no longer engaging with the world. The conversation explores the needs of young people and their withdrawal being situated within an attempt to find a solution. Peter and Shila explore how resistance by parents and a caring community can bring back life energy, the ability to persevere and to invite dialogue again. So...
• NVR Podcast season 3, episode #4 - NVR and Women 22.06.2023 27min

  In this podcast, Jill Lubienski and Peter Jakob consider the position of women and NVR. Many of our clients are women in situations of distress, who are left alone to cope in often dangerous family situations and then frequently blamed by agencies and others for not being 'good enough' parents. Peter and Jill explore NVR's lack of consideration as a whole of issues of gender and violence. They discuss how this lack of a feminist sensibility has left women exposed and their struggles underappr...
• NVR Podcast season 3, episode #3 - Overcoming Resistance Fatigue 25.05.2023 28min

  In this episode, Jill Lubienski and Peter Jakob discuss possibilities for how to keep going in tough times. Peter and Jill elaborate on a metaphor of climbing a mountain - how our work in NVR and within the systems in which we are located, can be akin to such an experience, where we have to find ways of coping in unfamiliar locations and in inclement weather, employing various resources and survival skills which we may have needed in the past, but forgotten. Jill and Peter discuss their...
• NVR Podcast season 3, episode #2 - Stillness in the Chaos 17.04.2023 31min

  Peter Jakob introduces Shila Desai and together they discuss the idea of how to cultivate stillness in the demands and uncertainties that families and practitioners face. The idea of a First Aid Still Box is explored and how both physical supplies and mentalising practices can be included in such a box to create a halt before taking action. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. O...
• NVR Podcast season 3 episode #1 - 'What's Love Got To Do With It'? 23.03.2023 30min

  Peter Jakob and Jill Lubienski take inspiration from Martin Luther King Jr. in exploring the theme of connecting heart and mind and taking action in an NVR frame. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influential guests. Listen in as they discuss c...
• NVR Podcast season 2 episode #23 "when cases are tough" 13.12.2022 21min

  Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer have discussions about practitioners working on cases that are tough. It is farewell from me (Rachael) as I hand over to my colleagues Shila Desai and Jill Lubienski for season 3. Thank you for listening to my ramblings. Please check out the PP website for info on: Eli Lebowitz who is coming to the UK to deliver the first face-to-face training in the S.P.A.C.E model in London 17th & 18th of April and Birmingham 20th &...
• NVR Podcast season 2 episode #22 - "The Struggle" 17.11.2022 38min

  Peter Jakob & Rachael Aylmer talk about "The Struggle" between caregivers in NVR and practitioners in NVR. Note * this is a 50-minute podcast We ask the listeners in this podcast to consider a question: What helps generate "hope" ?? From a parental position..... how do you as a parent/caregiver grow a sense of hope in the NVR work/process? From a practitioner's position, how do you help guide/coach/contain parents toward hopefulness? Please respond via ...
• NVR Podcast Season 2 episode #21 "Languages of love" 03.11.2022 27min

  Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk on this week's podcast about the "Language of Love". reference: Carl Rogers - https://counsellingtutor.com/biography-of-carl-rogers/ Unconditional positive regard (UPR) PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, ...
• NVR podcast Season 2 Episode #20 - "Resisting what adults do"!!! 21.10.2022 29min

  Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about resistance in our practice. How do NVR practitioners challenge other professionals with different scripts and narratives in our family work which may cause distress and /or harm to parents? PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubie...
• NVR Podcast season 2 episode #18 - "Is it her" - or "Is it the autism"???? 02.09.2022 22min

  Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss how a diagnosis in a young person can affect how parents and caregivers utilise NVR. Referenced: The National Autistic Society - https://www.autism.org.uk/ Haim Omer - https://www.haimomer-nvr.com/ PartnershipProjects: - www.partnershipprojectsuk.com PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualifie...
• NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #17 - "Clarity" 19.08.2022 21min

  Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about "Clarity" on this week's podcast. A short and sweet conversation about how practitioners gain a sense of clarity in their work with parents/caregivers. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, a...
• NVR Podcast season 2 episode #16 - The Vulnerability of Parents 27.07.2022 29min

  The vulnerability of parents was today's discussion between Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influential guests. Listen in as they discuss current events, and relevant topics within the NVR communit...
• NVR podcast - Diagnosis and Aggression - Series 2 episode #15 15.07.2022 26min

  Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about young people's disabilities and diagnoses and how aggression can be normalised. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influential guests. Listen in as they discuss current events, and relevant t...
• The NVR Association (NVRA) Community PODCAST series 1 episode #01 SPACE Model 15.07.2022 35min

  Welcome to the first NVRA community podcast. This month: Rachael Aylmer talks to Warren Matofsky Clinical and Community Psychologist from West Sussex CAMHS who has developed the S.P.A.C.E model in his service using the New Authority Model NVR with children and young people suffering from severe anxiety problems. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcas...