The Boss Mom Podcast

Epizode

• Know Your Zero: The Tom Hanks Trick for Raising Confident Kids (with Presilah Nunez Davis) 02.07.2026 50min

  What does getting a fast pass at Universal Studios have to do with building a business? More than you'd think. This week Dana sits down with Presilah Nunez Davis, founder of The Finer Points, a coaching practice built at the intersection of performance psychology, neuroscience, and modern etiquette. Presilah spent over a decade as a working actor before motherhood shifted her focus, and she now teaches the exact skills, presence, eye contact, recovering from mistakes gracefully, that separate the person who commands a room from the person who shrinks in it. This conversation will change how you think about what you're teaching your kids, and what you never got taught yourself. You'll hear: Why "etiquette" is really just the hyper-awareness of the feelings of others The 2 a.m. Instagram scroll that turned into an entire business Why Dana teaches her kids to "ask for the ketchup," and what that has to do with pricing your work The "know your zero" framework for understanding your own natural presence The acting class critique that reframed everything Presilah teaches about perfectionism Why "the fourth grader is king" and imperfection is what actually builds connection Five simple ways to start building confidence in your kids today This is for any mom who wants her kids (and honestly, herself) to walk into a room and stay in it. Mentioned in this episode: Presilah on Instagram: instagram.com/presilah The Finer Points: discoverthefinerpoints.com BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community BossMom+: bossmom.com/join
• Don't Do His Laundry: The Rule That Went Viral and What It Really Means for Moms (with Paige Connell) 25.06.2026 42min

  Paige Connell went from zero kids to four kids in under three years — foster care, adoption, two biological pregnancies, and a baby born during COVID while her husband, a blue-collar first responder, never worked a single day from home. What happened next is a story about the mental load of motherhood that every mom in a partnership needs to hear. This isn't a conversation about chores. It's about the assumptions that build up without anyone saying a word, the resentment that follows, and the real conversations that change things. Paige didn't do her husband's laundry. He cooks dinner most nights. People have feelings about both of those things online. What actually matters is the system underneath, and how they built it. You'll hear: Why the mental load snowballs without anyone intending it to The laundry rule Paige's mother-in-law gave her years ago (and why it's actually about resentment, not laundry) Why defensiveness is normal, and what matters is what happens after The "third option" between sucking it up and leaving What to do when you're growing and your partner isn't How to build a division of labor based on strengths instead of assumptions What it actually looks like on the other side of two years of hard conversations This one is for any mom who is carrying more than her share and doesn't quite know how to start the conversation. Mentioned in this episode: Paige on Instagram: @sheisapaigeturner Paige's website: shesapaigeturner.com  Paige's Substack (Lessons Learned): substack.com BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community BossMom+: bossmom.com/join
• She Replaced Her Teaching Salary in Five Months as a New Mom (with Laura Jennings) 18.06.2026 43min

  Laura Jennings was a college professor with a master's degree, doing everything she'd been taught to do — until her daughter was born and she realized the life she'd built didn't fit the mom she was becoming. Five months after discovering virtual assistance, she'd replaced her teaching salary. Two years later, she'd tripled it. Her daughter never spent a day in daycare. In this episode, Dana and Laura get into exactly how moms can become virtual assistants using skills they already have — and why right now is one of the best possible moments to start. You'll hear: Why "too good to be true" is just a stage, and how to stack evidence until it becomes your new normal The ladder of believability: how imposter syndrome fades when you take action instead of waiting to feel ready Why "I'll work with anyone" is the wrong starting point — and how to find clients you actually enjoy working with The AI question answered honestly: what VAs can use it for, and why it's not replacing them The identity shift that nobody warns moms about — and why the flexible income path is one of the few structures that actually honors it What moms with 10 to 20 hours a week need to know about the current market for contract work This one is practical, personal, and full of permission for moms who've been sitting on the edge of making a move. Mentioned in this episode: Laura's free "Get Started as a VA" masterclass: laurajtraining.com/masterclass-registration-guest-podcast Laura on Instagram: @hey.lauranicole Laura on Threads: @hey.lauranicole Your Virtual Assistant Coach podcast: Apple Podcasts BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community BossMom+ ($197/year): bossmom.com/join
• Trusting Your Intuition: Why Inspired Action Wins (with Keira Brinton) 11.06.2026 47min

  This week is an interview, and it's one of my favorites in a long time. I sit down with Keira Brinton, founder of JOA Publishing and known as The People's Publisher, a single mom of five who built a multi-million-dollar company in three years by merging deep faith with serious strategy. Keira is high energy in the exact way I am, so the two of us together will get you fired up. But she also gets vulnerable in a way I did not see coming. The big idea: trusting your intuition is not woo, it's the fastest path to action. When you stop avoiding the thing you're scared of, your business can move at the speed of light. You'll hear: The "face your dragon" story, and how Keira unblocked nine months of stuck in two weeks Why whatever you feel inside shows up in your outer world An honest, tender conversation about friendship, loneliness, and outgrowing people as you grow Why books are the one thing that lasts, and why real leaders need to write now Keira's "ask, listen, do" method and how to actually hear the answer Why moms are wired to stop receiving, and how to get it back Why you can say yes before you're qualified, and act before it's perfect This is a must-listen for any mom building a business who's felt stuck, scattered, or behind despite doing all the right things. Mentioned in this episode: Keira's Mini Book Activator Course ($197): go.keirabrinton.com/minibookactivator Keira on Instagram: instagram.com/keirabrinton BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community BossMom+ ($197/year): bossmom.com/join
• The Midlife Awakening Nobody Warned You About (With Katy Rexing) 04.06.2026 36min

  This week isn't a how-to, it's a heart-to-heart. Dana sits down with meditation teacher Katy Rexing to talk about the midlife awakening for moms: that wobbly, something's-off, where-did-I-go season so many of us hit in our late 30s and 40s. If you've been quietly wondering whether something is wrong with you lately, this is the episode that tells you the truth. Nothing is wrong with you. You're right on schedule. Katy rebuilt her entire life from the inside out after years of "perfecting perfection" led her straight into panic attacks she couldn't name. Dana shares her own panic attack on a bridge and the traumaversary behind it. Together they get into why this unraveling is by design, and how to meet it with peace instead of fear. You'll hear: Why almost every woman hits a wall around 40, and what "I am done being at war with you" really means Why a panic attack is your body crying to be heard, not a sign you're broken The case that this midlife awakening is by design, and why you shouldn't try to dodge it Why you can't "just love yourself" yet, and the step almost everyone skips How to stop riding the roller coaster of likes, gold stars, and outside validation Dana and Katy's friendly debate on whether every mom should have a business Why this is the most supported, least lonely time in history to do this inner work This is a must-listen for any mom who's felt scattered, behind, or like she's quietly falling apart for no reason. You're not. You're right on time. Mentioned in this episode: Katy Rexing's website + WithIn podcast: katyrexing.com Katy on Instagram (comment PRACTICE for her starter meditation toolkit): @katyrexing BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community — where moms get help clarifying goals and building the focus skills to hit them BossMom+ ($197/year): bossmom.com/join — the right marketing plan + implementation support for your business
• Why You Can't Out-Strategy What You're Feeling with Jaclyn Orent of Cultural Catalyst Network 28.05.2026 43min

  This week isn't an interview, it's a real, ranty discussion. Dana sits down with Jaclyn Orent, co-founder and frequency architect of the Cultural Catalyst Network, to break down one of the most important truths every mom needs to hear right now: you cannot out-strategy what you're feeling. No morning routine, no new funnel, no productivity hack is going to fix what's actually a frequency problem. And there's nearly 60 years of consciousness, change, and scaling science to back it up. If you've ever felt scattered, behind, "off," or like you're working as hard as you can without it adding up — this is the episode that flips it. You'll hear: Why the rise and fall of empires happens every 80 years, and what that means for moms right now The science of resonance and why moms are the natural cultural catalysts of this era The "good enough economy" and why your voice is more valuable than ever Dr. David Hawkins' scale of consciousness and the critical threshold of 200 The three-step "let go" practice that actually works (and why most affirmations don't) The difference between self-sacrifice and true sacrifice Why your kids cannot be your purpose (and what to do instead) This is a must-listen for any mom who's felt the pull toward something bigger and didn't have the language for it. Mentioned in this episode: Jaclyn's free Science-Backed Secrets to Catalyzing Culture Masterclass: culturalcontribution.com/masterclass Jaclyn on Instagram: @culturalcatalystnetwork Jaclyn on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jaclynorent BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community BossMom+: bossmom.com/join
• How to get back into focus after all the daily distractions 21.05.2026 27min

  If you've ever resented your own schedule, this episode is for you. In this solo, Dana gets vulnerable and shares the one skill that changed her business, her motherhood, and her experience of life more than any strategy ever has. It's not a productivity hack. It's not a morning routine. It's the simple, life-altering practice of recognizing when you've drifted, and coming back to focus. Recorded as Dana's last episode before turning 45, this is a reflective, honest look at the inner work that actually moved her business, the chiropractor analogy that reframed how she sits in discomfort, and the one line she says to herself that has replaced every affirmation she's ever tried. If you've ever felt scattered, behind, or like your kids are the reason you can't get anything done, this is the episode that flips that. You'll hear: The one skill every mom should build before any other (and why it matters more than any tool) Why your kids probably aren't the actual distraction, and what is The chiropractor analogy for sitting in the discomfort of growth The inner work that finally moved Dana's business forward (it wasn't strategy) Dana's "I would never sabotage someone I love" line that replaces every affirmation Why being cringe, quirky, and fully yourself is the whole point The 5-step focus practice you can start today This is for any mom who feels behind, scattered, or like she's working as hard as she can without it adding up. Mentioned in this episode: BossMom Community (free): bossmom.com/community — where moms get help figuring out their goals and building the focus skills to actually hit them BossMom+ ($197/year): bossmom.com/join — the right marketing plan + implementation support for your business
• Why You Can't Schedule Your Way Out of Mom Burnout (with Irin Rubin of MamaZen) 14.05.2026 46min

  This week, Dana sits down with Irin Rubin, founder and CEO of MamaZen, a mental wellness app for mothers. Irin's story is one a lot of moms will recognize: a difficult first delivery, severe colic, hospitalization, PTSD in the second pregnancy, and the slow realization that the high-speed train of motherhood didn't have stops. What she discovered next changed everything: nervous system regulation isn't another thing to add to your overwhelm. It's the thing that makes the rest of your life feel possible. If you've ever felt like the world keeps telling you to "just slow down," "just give yourself permission," or "just take a bath," and none of it actually helps, this episode is for you. You'll hear: Why the answer to overwhelm is never "do more" (and what actually works) The science of fight-or-flight and why most moms live there by default Irin's "math story" with her daughter, and how self-talk literally changes outcomes Why your kids hear every word you say (including how you talk to yourself) The line Irin uses to filter unsolicited advice without conflict Why saying no gets easier (not harder) once your nervous system is regulated How regulating your nervous system creates generational change for your kids This is a must-listen for any mom who's tired of being told the answer is more self-care, more scheduling, more permission. The real answer is quieter, deeper, and works. Mentioned in this episode: MamaZen app (free 7-day trial, iOS and Android): mamazen.com Book: MamaZen: The Parenting Method on Amazon Irin on Instagram | Facebook | TikTok Boss Mom Community (free): bossmom.com/community
• The world doesn't want experts anymore..which is great for us moms. 07.05.2026 39min

  This week is different. It's not an interview, it's a real, ranty discussion. Dana sits down with buyer psychology expert Katie Read to break down something every mom growing a business needs to hear: right now is one of the easiest times in a decade to grow a business as a mom. Big companies are hunting small audiences. AI just made your voice the most valuable thing you own. And the rules for how you build, sell, and show up have completely changed in your favor. If you've ever felt behind, too small, or like you needed a bigger platform before you "really" started, this episode is going to flip that. You'll hear: Why "the fourth grader is king" and why being two steps ahead is enough The "good enough economy" and why it's coming for regurgitation businesses The scars vs. wounds framework for vulnerability that builds authority (not pity) Why newsletters are roaring back, and why your messy human voice is gold right now How to use AI for structure without letting it steal your voice First principles thinking: why the old "video module + Facebook group" model is breaking The two (and only two) things you should actually be using AI for in your business This is a must-listen for any mom running an online business.  Mentioned in this episode: Katie's free AI prompts for buyer psychology: buyerpsych.com/freeprompts Katie's Incubator program (rebuild your offer for the 2026 buyer): incubator.katieread.com Katie's main site: BuyerPsych.com Boss Mom Community (free): bossmom.com/community Boss Mom Plus: bossmom.com/join
• The Crockpot Effect: How AI Is Quietly Becoming Every Boss Mom's Secret Weapon 30.04.2026 23min

  The world is swirling my beautiful BossMom! AI, shifting buyer behavior, businesses opening and closing overnight. So what should mom entrepreneurs actually focus on right now? In this episode, Dana gets real about the difference between hustling (good!) and hustle culture (not so much), why AI is the crockpot of our generation, and exactly how she's using ChatGPT and Claude to run her life and scale Boss Mom, without burning out. You'll hear: Why "slow down" isn't always the right advice (and what to do instead) How Dana uses ChatGPT as her personal assistant, and her midnight therapist The three things Claude does better than anything else for mom entrepreneurs The "last 10%" problem that's keeping most moms invisible Why nano communities are quietly winning (and why that's incredible news for you) Plus a vulnerable behind-the-scenes story about a midnight spiral, a partner conversation, and how AI helped Dana reset before bed. Whether you're scaling a business, juggling clients, or just trying to figure out what to do with all the AI noise, this episode will give you a clearer, more permission-filled path forward. Mentioned in this episode: Boss Mom Community (free): bossmom.com/community Boss Mom Plus ($197/year): bossmom.com/join Nurture to Convert Messaging Strategist Certification: bossmom.com/ntccert
• 4 Buyer Psychology Hacks You Need To Know With Katie Read 23.04.2026 41min

  Dana invited Katie Reed onto the show after reading just one of her emails — and this conversation did not disappoint. Katie is a Forbes-featured buyer psychologist and AI strategist who spent 20 years as a psychotherapist before turning her expertise toward why people buy (and why they don't). In this episode, Dana and Katie dig into the Castle Guard Framework — four core psychological guards that run every purchase decision — and why traditional objection-handling actually makes things worse. They also get into the "husband objection," how to use AI to understand your buyers at a deep level, and why your customers aren't objecting at all — they're protecting themselves. What We Cover IntroWhy Dana invited Katie on after just one email — and what that says about great messaging MindsetScars vs. wounds: the difference between vulnerability that builds connection and vulnerability that invites pity FrameworkBuyers don't object — they guard. The psychology behind why your sales tactics may be making things worse Guard 1Drive — emotional motivation, urgency, and whether someone has the energy to actually do something Guard 2Identity — current vs. aspirational identity, belonging vs. uniqueness, and why moms tend to nail this one Guard 3Risk — financial, functional, social, and self-blame risk (and why a money-back guarantee isn't enough) Guard 4Pattern — the most overlooked guard: daily habits, status quo bias, and how disruption stops people cold TacticsSupporting the defense: the therapy technique that works just as well in sales calls Real TalkThe "talk to my husband" objection — and Dana's conversion-boosting trick for handling it with integrity AIUsing AI to understand your buyers at scale — and Katie's "fetch" prompt trick for auditing your sales page BonusKids, entrepreneurship, and why we should stop making our children wait to create value Key Takeaways Buyers guard — they don't object. Meeting them where they are relaxes the guard; fighting it tightens it. Every purchase runs four internal scans: Drive, Identity, Risk, and Pattern. Your messaging needs to address all four. "Time and money" are almost never the real objection — they're surface-level stand-ins for something deeper in one of the four guards. Supporting the defense (a therapy technique) is one of the most powerful sales tools you're not using. AI is your best tool for understanding buyer psychology at scale — use it on your transcripts, reviews, and sales calls. Share from scars, not wounds. Your audience shouldn't have to be your therapist. Resources + Links Guest Resource Free AI Buyer Psychology Prompts Katie is dropping a free resource with 10 prompts to help you understand the psychology of your specific buyers. Join her email list to get it plus a new AI prompt every week. Katie's main site (Castle Guard Framework)buyerpsych.com Katie's consulting & speakingkatieread.com Join the Boss Mom Community (free)bossmom.com/community Upgrade to Boss Mom Plus — $197/yearbossmom.com/join
• How Amanda Northcutt Built a Business That Runs Without Her (And How You Can Too) 16.04.2026 34min

  Dana met Amanda Northcutt at a Circle event and was immediately struck by how Amanda showed up — traveling, exploring, fully in visionary mode while her business ran without her. In this conversation, Amanda shares how she got there: from a health crash at 26 that forced her to reinvent her career, to building Level Up Creators into a team of 20 that constructs real, scalable businesses for thought leaders. Along the way, Dana and Amanda dig into the identity work that holds so many of us back, why experts are actually becoming more valuable in the age of AI, and the five things every recurring revenue business must have. What We Cover: IntroHow Dana met Amanda and why she was the most valuable person in the room BackgroundAmanda's journey from workaholic to 20-hr weeks to founding Level Up Creators MindsetPlaying small even after big success — and how to peel off everyone else's expectations IdentityWhy we link growth with losing ourselves (and how to flip that script) FrameworkThe 5 things every successful recurring revenue business must have AI + ExpertsWhy the age of AI is actually the best time to be an expert — the HEARR framework Wrap-upMoney, bad people, and why growth is the most loving thing you can do for yourself Connect with Amanda: Connect with Amanda on LinkedInlinkedin.com/in/northcuttamanda Level Up Creatorsmrraccelerator.com Email amanda@welevelupcreators.com LinkedIn linkedin.com/in/northcuttamanda About BossMom: BossMom is the leading voice and resource for moms building businesses. We know you're not here to choose between being an amazing parent or running a successful business—you're here to build a life that makes room for both. Find more resources, support, and community right here → https://bossmom.com Join the Boss Mom Community (free)bossmom.com/community Upgrade to Boss Mom Plus — $197/yearbossmom.com/join
• Why Success Feels So Scary for Moms 09.04.2026 24min

  In this episode, Dana unpacks something so many moms in business quietly carry: self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and the feeling that maybe success just isn't meant for them. But what if that's not actually the problem? What if the real issue is that success feels unsafe? Dana shares why moms often reject abundance without even realizing it, the hidden "mom math" that keeps women small, and the belief systems that make success feel like a threat to motherhood, relationships, identity, and worth. Inside this episode, she explores: why moms aren't usually afraid of failure the real reason success can feel scary the 3 beliefs that keep moms playing small why abundance doesn't make you a bad person how your business can model self-worth and emotional honesty for your kids what it means to stop rejecting the life you actually want If you've ever felt torn between wanting more and feeling guilty for wanting it, this episode is for you. ✨ Join the free Boss Mom community: bossmom.com/community ✨ Explore Boss Mom Plus: bossmom.com/join
• Breaking the Shame Cycle in Parenting with Wendy Snyder 02.04.2026 33min

  In this episode, Dana sits down with Wendy Snyder to talk about her new book, Fresh Start Your Family: Powerful Parenting to Restore Peace in Your Home, and the deeper truth behind raising strong-willed kids. This conversation goes far beyond parenting tactics. Dana and Wendy unpack the connection between shame, perfectionism, nervous system regulation, emotional literacy, and the invisible burden so many moms carry when they feel responsible for fixing everything. They talk about why the traits we're taught to tone down in ourselves and our kids are often the very things that make us powerful, resilient, and uniquely suited for the lives we're meant to live. In this episode, they discuss: why strong-willed kids are not a problem to solve how shame gets passed down through parenting systems the connection between perfectionism and control why play, curiosity, and emotional honesty matter so much how to help kids learn peaceful conflict resolution what moms can let go of so they stop carrying the weight of everything Connect with Wendy: Book: Fresh Start Your Family — FreshStartFamilyOnline.com/pre-order Podcast: Fresh Start Family Show Instagram: @freshstartwendy Free Strong-Willed Kids Learning Bundle: FreshStartFamilyOnline.com/secrets
• Two AI Personalities Discussed My Business Belief System—And It Was Wild 27.03.2026 27min

  I tried something a little different… and honestly, it blew my mind. I uploaded my thoughts about going all in on my business into NotebookLM and had it turn everything into a podcast episode—hosted by two AI personalities who broke down my belief system in real time. What they uncovered? Way deeper than I expected. In this episode, we explore: why moms in business aren't actually stuck because of strategy the emotional blocks behind visibility and growth the concept of the "exposure tax" and why success can feel scary why stepping back isn't failure—it might be exactly what you need how to know what you're truly "all in" on (and what you're not) This conversation is raw, insightful, and honestly… a little wild. If you've ever felt torn between wanting more and being afraid of what that might require, this episode is for you. ✨ Join the Boss Mom community: BossmomJoin the BossMom Community & App for free ✨ Explore Boss Mom Plus (our membership with tools, support, and guidance): BossmomBossMomPlus
• Hey Mom, Stop Trying to Be Clever With Your Title 19.03.2026 7min

  Dana Malstaff 56 mins Edit   Reply       Stop Letting My Title Cost Me Clients: Focus on Frameworks, Not Labels In this episode, I explain how what I call myself—my title and even my business name—can actually confuse the market and keep me from getting the clients I want and building consistent income. After coaching thousands of women, I've seen that trying to be clever with a unique title backfires, so I need to stop making my title creative and instead focus on the framework I use to take someone from a problem to a transformation. I also share how titles can get tangled with my identity, especially as a mom whose sense of self keeps evolving, so I shouldn't pin my identity to a label. Finally, I challenge the old idea that I need a perfect business card or bio, and I invite listeners to email me or join the Boss Mom community to keep the conversation going. 00:00 Titles That Repel Clients 00:20 Welcome to Boss Mom 00:44 Stop Being Clever 01:39 Sell a Framework 02:45 Titles and Identity Traps 03:40 Lead With Results 04:49 Ditch the Business Card 05:44 Bios and Relationship Building 06:20 Framework Sweet Spot 06:43 Next Steps and Wrap Up
• Nobody's Coming to Promote You: How to Climb Your Own Ladder as a Mom Entrepreneur 12.03.2026 12min

  At BossMom, we're normalizing the conversations that help you grow a business while raising a family. In this episode, Dana gets real about something nobody tells you when you start your own business: nobody is coming to promote you. You're both the employee stuck in the trenches AND the CEO who decides promotions—so why are you still waiting for someone to tap you on the shoulder and tell you you're ready for the next level? Dana breaks down the three specific things keeping mom entrepreneurs stuck in the same role, making the same money, and doing the same work without any exit strategy in sight. She explains why you need both a promotion plan AND a retirement plan for your business (and no, not the 401k kind—she's talking about how you actually get out of the content game, the service-providing game, the doing-all-the-things game). From why you don't even realize a promotion is what you need, to how the Messaging Map Strategist Certification teaches you to sell before you master the skill (because confidence comes from talking about it, not waiting until you feel "ready"), this episode will shift how you see your trajectory. Plus, Dana shares why giving yourself a promotion isn't just good for your business—it's good for your kids to witness. Because model, don't martyr, always. Explore More Resources from BossMom BossMom is your go-to home base for content, support, and community designed specifically for moms growing businesses → https://bossmom.com 📝 Check out the full article that pairs with this episode: →https://bossmom.com/sales-marketing/promotion/  📚 Want more conversations like this? Browse our full library of articles: → https://boss-mom.com/articles 🛠 Looking for the best tools, tips, and resources every BossMom needs in life and business? → https://boss-mom.com/resources 💬 Ready to go deeper with us? When you know that community and connection aren't just nice-to-haves, but the strategy that helps you thrive—come join us inside BossMom+.  It's our private networking community built just for moms growing businesses—because you shouldn't have to do this alone. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✨ Why nobody is coming to promote you (and why that's actually good news once you accept it) ✨ The three specific things keeping you stuck in the same role making the same money ✨ Why you need both a promotion plan AND a retirement plan for your business ✨ How to identify what systems you'd be promoting yourself for (hint: you probably don't even know what you're good at yet) ✨ Why the Messaging Map Strategist Certification teaches you to sell BEFORE you master the skill ✨ The difference between "I don't have the skills" and "I don't have the confidence" (and which one is really holding you back) ✨ Why giving yourself a promotion is actually good for your kids to witness Ready to move from service provider to strategist? The Messaging Map Strategist Certification is designed specifically for moms who are done trading time for money and ready to step into strategic, leveraged work that pays what you're actually worth. Check out https://go.nurturetoconvert.com/ntc-mapping-cert-sales-page to learn how you can give yourself the promotion you've been waiting for. Success doesn't come from doing more—it comes from doing what matters and making it easier to stay consistent. That's why tools like FutureMe GPT and Nurture to Convert AI were created: to help you take action, simplify your messaging, and grow your business without the overwhelm. Your audience is ready for you. Now it's about showing up in a way that works for you. Check out bossmom.com/futureme and nurturetoconvert.ai to see how much lighter business can feel. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes! About BossMom: BossMom is the leading voice and resource for moms building businesses. We know you're not here to choose between being an amazing parent or running a successful business—you're here to build a life that makes room for both. Find more resources, support, and community right here → https://bossmom.com Elevate the routines you live in. Head to cozyearth.com and use code BOSSMOM for up to 20% off. And if you get a Post-Purchase Survey, be sure to mention you heard about Cozy Earth right here! Dana is obsessed with their Classic Cuddle Blanket. It feels like a weighted blanket and is so amazing she got a second one because her daughter kept stealing hers.
• Friendship Breakups: Raise Standards, Not Boundaries with Annalie Bloomfield 05.03.2026 51min

  Friendship Breakups, Boundaries vs. Capacity, and Building Communities of Understanding At BossMom, we're normalizing the conversations that help you grow a business while raising a family. In this episode, Dana sits down with Annalie Bloomfield, author of Unapologetic: Unshackle Your Shame, Reclaim Your Power, for a refreshingly honest conversation about something nobody warned us about: friendship breakups in our 40s. They dive into why so many women are experiencing major friendship shifts right now, the difference between boundaries (exhausting) and raising your standards (empowering), and why your kids watching you pursue your dreams isn't selfish—it's the opposite of self-sacrifice. Annalie shares her powerful reframe: stop trying to set boundaries and start raising your standards. When you elevate what you're willing to accept for yourself, people naturally rise to meet you there—or they don't, and that's okay too. Dana introduces the concept of "unlimited capacity" versus the scarcity mindset that tells us we can't handle noise, chaos, or complications. They both agree: when you're in the right spaces with the right people, you discover you actually have infinite capacity for connection. From "paint your truck first" (Dana's reminder never to self-sacrifice like her birth father did) to "model, don't martyr" (the mantra every mom entrepreneur needs), this conversation will make you rethink everything you've been told about being a "good mom" and a "good friend." Plus, they explore why micro-communities and "communities of understanding" are the future—because sometimes you need different people for different parts of your life, and that's not only okay, it's healthy. Explore More Resources from BossMom BossMom is your go-to home base for content, support, and community designed specifically for moms growing businesses → https://bossmom.com 📝 Check out the full article that pairs with this episode: → https://bossmom.com/boss-mom-podcast/friendship-breakups 📚 Want more conversations like this? Browse our full library of articles: → https://boss-mom.com/articles 🛠 Looking for the best tools, tips, and resources every BossMom needs in life and business? → https://boss-mom.com/resources 💬 Ready to go deeper with us? When you know that community and connection aren't just nice-to-haves, but the strategy that helps you thrive—come join us inside BossMom+.  It's our private networking community built just for moms growing businesses—because you shouldn't have to do this alone. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✨ Why friendship breakups are happening to so many women right now (and what the Fire Horse year has to do with it) ✨ The powerful difference between setting boundaries (exhausting) and raising your standards (empowering) ✨ How to shift from "I can't handle this" to "I have unlimited capacity for the right things" ✨ Why emotional honesty with your kids is the most important skill you can model ✨ What "communities of understanding" are and why they're the future of connection ✨ Why self-sacrifice doesn't make you a better mom—it just makes you depleted ✨ How to curate connections with discernment instead of obligation Success doesn't come from doing more—it comes from doing what matters and making it easier to stay consistent. That's why tools like FutureMe GPT and Nurture to Convert AI were created: to help you take action, simplify your messaging, and grow your business without the overwhelm. Your audience is ready for you. Now it's about showing up in a way that works for you. Check out bossmom.com/futureme and nurturetoconvert.ai to see how much lighter business can feel. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes!
• Your Kids Are Not Your Purpose 26.02.2026 17min

  At BossMom, we're normalizing the conversations that help you grow a business while raising a family. In this episode, Dana tackles one of the most controversial beliefs she holds: your children should not be your purpose. Before you close this tab, hear her out—because this distinction might be the most liberating thing you hear all year. Dana opens up about why believing your kids are your only purpose actually burdens them with the weight of your unfulfilled dreams. She shares a heated debate she had at a Circle event where someone completely misunderstood what she meant, and breaks down the critical difference between "my kids ARE my purpose" versus "my kids GIVE ME purpose." One creates guilt, shame, and disconnection. The other creates fuel, integration, and a reciprocal relationship where you empower each other. From her five-year-old daughter's problem-solving at a pumpkin patch ("Mom, get your computer and make money while we're in the bouncy house!") to why she believes modeling beats martyring every single time, Dana challenges everything you've been told about what it means to be a "good mom." The real lesson? When you pursue your dreams openly and involve your kids in age-appropriate ways, you don't create disconnection—you create a team. And your kids learn more from watching you build something meaningful than from you sacrificing silently and resenting it later. Explore More Resources from BossMom BossMom is your go-to home base for content, support, and community designed specifically for moms growing businesses → https://bossmom.com 📝 Check out the full article that pairs with this episode: → https://bossmom.com/boss-mom-podcast/purpose/ 📚 Want more conversations like this? Browse our full library of articles: → https://boss-mom.com/articles 🛠 Looking for the best tools, tips, and resources every BossMom needs in life and business? → https://boss-mom.com/resources 💬 Ready to go deeper with us? When you know that community and connection aren't just nice-to-haves, but the strategy that helps you thrive—come join us inside BossMom+. →  It's our private networking community built just for moms growing businesses—because you shouldn't have to do this alone. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✨ Why "your kids are your purpose" is actually burdensome to your children (and what to believe instead) ✨ The game-changing difference between kids BEING your purpose vs. kids GIVING you purpose ✨ Why modeling beats martyring every time—and what that actually looks like in practice ✨ How to involve your kids in your work in age-appropriate ways (from toddlers to teens) ✨ The disconnection trap: why shame and isolation around your ambitions harm your relationships more than the ambitions themselves ✨ Dana's "model, don't martyr" philosophy and why your kids need to see you pursue your dreams Success doesn't come from doing more—it comes from doing what matters and making it easier to stay consistent. That's why tools like FutureMe GPT and Nurture to Convert AI were created: to help you take action, simplify your messaging, and grow your business without the overwhelm. Your audience is ready for you. Now it's about showing up in a way that works for you. Check out bossmom.com/futureme and nurturetoconvert.ai to see how much lighter business can feel. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes! About BossMom: BossMom is the leading voice and resource for moms building businesses. We know you're not here to choose between being an amazing parent or running a successful business—you're here to build a life that makes room for both. Find more resources, support, and community right here → https://bossmom.com Elevate the routines you live in. Head to cozyearth.com and use code BOSSMOM for up to 20% off. And if you get a Post-Purchase Survey, be sure to mention you heard about Cozy Earth right here! Dana is obsessed with their Cuddle Blanket. It feels like a weighted blanket and is so amazing she got a second one because her daughter kept stealing hers.            
• How to Stay Connected After Kids: Real Tools for Modern Marriage with Eli Weinstein 21.02.2026 51min

  At BossMom, we're normalizing the conversations that help you grow a business while raising a family. In this episode, Dana sits down with therapist and author Elijah Weinstein to talk about the quiet drift that happens in marriages when kids enter the picture. From unspoken expectations and the myth of empathy to practical tools like the import/export list and full communication, he shares honest and actionable lessons on how to stop growing apart and start showing up for each other again. You don't need a perfect marriage to start strengthening it, you just need the willingness to say the hard things out loud and give your partner the full picture instead of expecting them to connect dots you never drew. Elijah's book, From I Do to We Do, is available starting March 17, 2026. Find it and all the links at eliweinsteinlcsw.com, or connect with him on Instagram at @eliweinstein.lcsw. This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth. Elevate the routines you live in. Head to cozyearth.com and use code BOSSMOM for up to 20% off. And if you get a Post-Purchase Survey, be sure to mention you heard about Cozy Earth right here! Dana is obsessed with their Cuddle Blanket. It feels like a weighted blanket and is so amazing she got a second one because her daughter kept stealing hers. Explore More Resources from BossMom BossMom is your go-to home base for content, support, and community designed specifically for moms growing businesses → https://bossmom.com   📝 Check out the full article that pairs with this episode: → https://bossmom.com/relationships/how-to-stay-conn…ds-eli-weinstein/     📚 Want more conversations like this? Browse our full library of articles: → https://boss-mom.com/articles   🛠 Looking for the best tools, tips, and resources every BossMom needs in life and business? → https://boss-mom.com/resources   💬 Ready to go deeper with us? When you know that community and connection aren't just nice-to-haves, but the strategy that helps you thrive—come join us inside BossMom+. → https://bossmom.com/free-app?utm_source=LibSyn&utm_medium=Podcast&utm_campaign=Free+App&utm_id=Join+the+free+BossMom+App   It's our private networking community built just for moms growing businesses—because you shouldn't have to do this alone. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✨ Why the slow drift in marriage often starts after having kids and what to do about it ✨ How unspoken expectations quietly build resentment and how to stop the cycle ✨ The difference between empathy and sympathy and why sympathy might actually serve your relationship better ✨ What the Holy Trinity framework is and how it can transform the way you communicate with your partner ✨ How the import/export list can help you and your partner get on the same page before small things become big ones ✨ Why full communication is less about talking more and more about giving your partner the whole picture   Success doesn't come from doing more it comes from doing what matters and making it easier to stay consistent. That's why tools like FutureMe GPT and Nurture to Convert AI were created: to help you take action, simplify your messaging, and grow your business without the overwhelm. Your audience is ready for you. Now it's about showing up in a way that works for you. Check out bossmom.com/futureme and nurturetoconvert.ai to see how much lighter business can feel. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes! About BossMom: BossMom is the leading voice and resource for moms building businesses. We know you're not here to choose between being an amazing parent or running a successful business—you're here to build a life that makes room for both. Find more resources, support, and community right here → https://bossmom.com