Date with Cents

Date with Cents

TorahCents
Країна Сполучені Штати
Жанри Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, How To
Мова EN-US
Епізодів 188
Останній 29.05.2026

Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.

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  • How To Stop Wasting Your Summer and Finally Meet Your Husband 29.05.2026 31хв
    Send episode requests here A lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again. Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fall…it's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym. In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men you actually want aren't showing up in your life, what you're doing that makes quality men lose interes...
  • I Walked Away From A Good Man This Year - Here's Why 21.05.2026 40хв
    Send episode requests here A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man after dating him for over a year and a half. In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second. You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to le...
  • I Don't Trust Men And It's The Best Dating Decision I Ever Made (My Meg & Klay Take) 14.05.2026 53хв
    Send episode requests here I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that. When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him. That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?” This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am now—the one who dates without s...
  • DWC REWIND: When You Put In Too Much Effort 07.05.2026 39хв
    Send episode requests here If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you. You’re the woman who is always making time You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support, You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going. You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves. Join me in this...
  • DWC REWIND: Launching Your H.O.E. Phase 30.04.2026 30хв
    Send episode requests here Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY. All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you...
  • DWC REWIND: How To Show Up As A Quality Woman Who Attracts Quality Men 23.04.2026 29хв
    Send episode requests here “There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.” That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. Why? Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. It’s deeper than being educ...
  • DWC REWIND: Why You Keep Choosing The Wrong Man (And Why It’s Exhausting You) 16.04.2026 32хв
    Send episode requests here You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone. Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you bu...
  • DWC REWIND: How To Drop "Good Girl" Habits To Date Deliciously 09.04.2026 55хв
    Send episode requests here Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones… …and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship. This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are. If...
  • DWC REWIND: What If You Try—And Love Still Doesn’t Happen? 02.04.2026 32хв
    Send episode requests here That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love. If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes. In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's...
  • DWC REWIND: When Dating Him Feels Like a Crack Addiction 26.03.2026 44хв
    Send episode requests here Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. We wanna hear from him daily We wanna see him all the time. And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away. Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction. Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lo...
  • DWC REWIND: The Mis-Education of the Good Girl 19.03.2026 48хв
    Send episode requests here We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. We can even go to war if we want to. And even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage… …that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do. And this directly impact...
  • DWC REWIND: Delusions & Difficulties Around Attracting Quality Men 12.03.2026 47хв
    Send episode requests here Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men. Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs. They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men. Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t. In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a co...
  • DWC REWIND: Becoming The "Sun" In Your Love Life Solar System 05.03.2026 33хв
    Send episode requests here Becoming the sun in your love life changes everything. Most women are floating through dating… Responding to texts because they feel like they have to. Going exclusive because he brought it up. Feeling overwhelmed because men want their time. Saying yes when they really want to say no. That’s not power. That’s the sunken place. In today’s episode, I break down what it actually means to become the “SUN” in your love life solar system — and why most women are uncons...
  • How To Savagely Vet A Man In 30 Days (Before You Get Attached) 26.02.2026 45хв
    Send episode requests here You've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to. But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment. In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework to savagely vet a man in 30 days before you get attached. You'll discover the four things to evaluate instead of your feelings , why smart women still end up with men who fail all four, and the next la...
  • Forgotten Birthdays, Broken Promises, and Valentine's Day Lies - What To Do When A Man Disappoints You 19.02.2026 41хв
    Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method …a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself. You'll discover why security doesn't come from men keeping their word (it comes from how fast you respond when they don't), the Good Girl Reflex that makes you audit yourself instead of his behavior, and the difference between a man who's trying and a man who's performing trying to run out the ...
  • My 10 Dating Rules for Recovering "Good Girls" Who Want Marriage in 2026 12.02.2026 45хв
    Send episode requests here Any woman can get married—that's not hard to do. The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. Then we end up crying on TikTok about husbands who forget our birthdays for 10 years straight or refuse to buy us carrot cake because they don't like it. In this episode, I'm breaking down my 10 dating rules for recovering good girls w...
  • How to Meet 50 Men Per Month So You Can Meet Your Future Husband By Summer with Kimberly E. 05.02.2026 1год 17хв
    Send episode requests here Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds. "Where are we supposed to get 50 men?" "I can barely talk to two men!" "This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlanta who helps women land high-earning, high-caliber men. In this episode, we're breaking down why 50 men is actual...
  • How To Have 2-3 Men Emotionally and Financially Investing In You In 90 Days 29.01.2026 32хв
    Send episode requests here We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when yo...
  • Delicious Dating Q&A Part 4 22.01.2026 37хв
    Send episode requests here You got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misali...
  • How To Go From No Dates To A Wedding Date In A Year 15.01.2026 1год 7хв
    Send episode requests here It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't. In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the en...