Curated Questions: Conversations Celebrating the Power of Questions!

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  Still Sharp: Lulu Miller on the Questions We Stop Asking | Lulu Miller #104 08.10.2026 1h 3min

  " Real curiosity, untethered, unsoftened, it's a pretty intense tool. And I think the kids haven't blunted the weapon by politeness or by fear of looking dumb or by the belief that there are certain things we should know. It's still sharp." - Lulu Miller Lulu Miller first found the power of questions on a subway train, listening to an early Radiolab episode about fireflies that blink in unison. That question opened a door she had been looking for since childhood: another world, inside this one. Today she co-hosts Radiolab with Latif Nasser, co-founded Invisibilia, and created Terrestrials, a nature podcast for kids and families. Her international bestseller, Why Fish Don't Exist, begins with a question many of us carry quietly: what is the point? Her answer reminds us that the categories we trust are often questions we stop asking. But the power scared her. She once fled journalism for a fiction MFA, convinced her questions could hurt people. Jad Abumrad's reframe brought her back: those worries are the sound of your moral compass. In this conversation, Lulu shares three ways to move a conversation past the rehearsed version: ask something tactile, ask the elephant-in-the-room question, and interrupt with care. Then the kids on Terrestrials take over, asking NASA scientists and the poet laureate the blunt, open questions adults soften away. Real curiosity, unsoftened, is still sharp. Who blunted ours? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning! Resources Mentioned Radiolab (https://radiolab.org/) Latif Nasser (https://latif-nasser.squarespace.com/about) NPR (https://www.npr.org/) Invisibilia (https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510307/invisibilia) Terrestrials Podcast (https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/radiolab-kids) Why Fish Don't Exist by Lulu Miller (https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Why-Fish-Dont-Exist/Lulu-Miller/9781501160349) This American Life (https://www.thisamericanlife.org/) Radiolab, Fireflies "Emergence" episode (https://radiolab.org/podcast/91501-there-is-no-lord-of-the-fireflies) Olbers' paradox (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olbers%27_paradox) Jad Abumrad (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jad_Abumrad) Robert Krulwich (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Krulwich) Jocelyn Ford (https://mediaeducationlab.com/about/jocelyn-ford) Nell Greenfieldboyce (https://www.nellgreenfieldboyce.com/) Gregory Warner (https://gregorywarner.substack.com/) Ellen Horne (https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellen-horne-78a45a2) The Addams Family (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Addams_Family) Radiolab parasites episode (https://radiolab.org/podcast/darkode) Hanna Rosin (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanna_Rosin) Alix Spiegel (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alix_Spiegel) Zoopharmacognosy (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zoopharmacognosy) Terrestrials, "An Ocean in Space" episode (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/an-ocean-in-space/id1504895463?i=1000702888723) Europa Clipper (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Europa_Clipper) Europa (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Europa_(moon)) Ada Limón (https://adalimon.com/) Voyager Golden Record (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voyager_Golden_Record) Producer Ben Ford (https://www.producerbenford.com/) Beauty Pill (https://www.beautypill.com/)
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  The People Who Leave Get the Last Word: Revisiting a Question Ten Years Later | Ken Woodward #103 01.10.2026 12min

  "What do former members say about the organization?" - Ken Woodward Ten years ago today, I asked a question on my daily practice, IOTD365: what do former members say about an organization? I wrote it after my daughter gave up on an internship. One conversation in a hallway with a senior who'd done it was all it took. In 2016 I read that question as an insider asking leaders to listen. Today I read it as a former member who left federal service after thirty-two years without anyone asking what I knew. I also read it as a founder who can't hear what's said after I leave the room. In this episode, I reread the original post and question the man who wrote it. I look at where reputation really lives and the courage it takes to tell someone the truth. Then I borrow a habit from my years navigating submarines in and out of port. Taking a fix on an old question shows how far I've moved. What question did you answer years ago that deserves a second look? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  The Questions That Make You Nod: How Agreement Hides Assumptions | Ken Woodward #102 24.09.2026 27min

  "Disagreement makes the map visible. Agreement lets it pass for the terrain." - Ken Woodward "Thank you for your service" arrives with a script already written. A World War II veteran taught Ken Woodward a better reply: "You were worth it." That exchange opens a solo episode about the worlds hidden inside the questions we answer. Ken starts with a single verb that put broken glass on a road where there was none, then turns to survey research showing how answer choices define normal, and to philosopher R.G. Collingwood's idea that every question stands on assumptions. From there he returns to the streets of Washington, D.C., sorting the questions strangers asked his "Black and Brown Lives Matter" sign by the maps they carried, including the ones pointing back at the sign itself. The hardest case comes last: a question Ken agreed with, never examined, and what his nod cost the conversation. Disagreement makes the map visible. Agreement lets it pass for the terrain. What world did you agree to before you answered? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  When Certainty Drifts | Ken Woodward #101 17.09.2026 29min

  "  I ate of that apple. It tasted like safety." - Ken Woodward Once a submarine goes under, nobody aboard knows exactly where they are. The boat runs on an estimate that drifts, and being off course feels exactly like being on course. The only remedy is to come up and take a fix. In this solo episode, Ken asks whether certainty is what keeps us safe, or whether safety comes from our ability to keep checking our position against the world. He draws on his time as a Navy Radioman plotting fixes, Arie Kruglanski's research on the need for closure, a Listerine ad campaign that manufactured a fear to sell a cure, and John Keats's idea of negative capability. He also tells the story of a political and religious certainty that once absolved him of responsibility, and what 2,085 miles of D.C. streets taught him about fear. The episode closes with a question to take with you: Is my need for certainty making me safer? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  Debbie Millman: Earning Trust & Storytelling Through Questions | Debbie Millman #100 10.09.2026 57min

  "The biggest reason somebody will avoid answering a question is because they don't trust you with the answer." - Debbie Millman Debbie Millman has spent 21 years asking questions on Design Matters, the show she started in 2005 before podcasting had rules. In episode 100 of Curated Questions, she takes the receiving chair. Debbie traces her craft from a survey-style list she asked everyone, work she now calls terrible, to a method she describes as storytelling through questions, where each question carries the context a guest needs to respond to a fully realized moment in their life. She explains why she avoids false wisdom language, multiple-choice framing, and interpretation the guest hasn't offered yet, and makes the case that people withhold answers when they don't trust you with them. The conversation ranges across branding, her clients, the questions she brings to any redesign, the rebuild of The Rumpus with Roxane Gay, and what AI costs students who skip the difficulty. She closes with the question consuming her at 65: how to live this last third. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning! Resources Mentioned Debbie Millman (https://www.debbiemillman.com) Design Matters (https://www.designmattersmedia.com) Sterling Brands (https://www.sterlingbrands.com) AIGA (https://www.aiga.org) SVA Masters in Branding (https://branding.sva.edu) Roxane Gay (https://audacity.substack.com) The Rumpus (https://therumpus.net) Lambda Legal (https://lambdalegal.org) NASA (https://www.nasa.gov) U.S. Department of Justice (https://www.justice.gov) Paula Scher (https://www.pentagram.com/about/paula-scher) Dr. Dan Formosa (https://sva.edu/faculty/dan-formosa) Kevin Kelly (https://kk.org) "If You're Over 40, You're Ready to Use A.I." — Debbie Millman, NYT (https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/27/opinion/teaching-kabbalah-ai.html) The New Yorker (https://www.newyorker.com) Kottke.org (https://kottke.org) Craig Mod (https://craigmod.com) The Marginalian (https://www.themarginalian.org) The New York Times (https://www.nytimes.com) The Washington Post (https://www.washingtonpost.com) Los Angeles Times (https://www.latimes.com) Maria Popova (https://www.themarginalian.org) Jason Kottke (https://kottke.org/about) TED Talks (https://www.ted.com/talks) Tim Ferriss (https://tim.blog) Dax Shepard, Armchair Expert (https://armchairexpertpod.com) Krista Tippett, On Being (https://onbeing.org) NPR (https://www.npr.org) Glennon Doyle (https://glennondoyle.com) Andrew Caulk (https://www.curatedquestions.com/podcast) Barbra Streisand (https://www.barbrastreisand.com) Terry Gross, Fresh Air (https://www.npr.org/programs/fresh-air) Sam Fragoso, Talk Easy (https://talkeasypod.com) Adam Grant (https://www.adamgrant.net) Brené Brown (https://brenebrown.com) Frances Frei and Anne Morriss, Fixable (https://www.ted.com/podcasts/fixable) Figuring, by Maria Popova (https://www.themarginalian.org/figuring) Natascha McElhone (https://www.audible.com/pd/Figuring-Audiobook/198484475X) Traversal, by Maria Popova (https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780374616410/traversal) Arcosanti (https://www.arcosanti.org) Santiago Carrasquilla (http://www.santiagocarrasquilla.com) Art Camp (https://madeatartcamp.com) Ruth Ann Harnisch / The Harnisch Foundation (https://thehf.org) Sukey Novogratz (https://justsit.com) Producer Ben Ford (https://www.producerbenford.com/) Beauty Pill (https://www.beautypill.com/)
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  What Are They Really Asking? | Former Starbucks SVP Wanda J. Herndon on the Second Question #99 03.09.2026 1h 10min

  " I had to start trying to think beneath the questions: what are they really saying?" - Wanda Herndon Wanda J. Herndon trained as a journalist, then spent forty years on the other side of the notebook. Dow. DuPont. Eleven years as Starbucks SVP of Global Communications while the company grew from 550 stores to more than 11,000. Her curiosity starts with a middle child in Flint, Michigan, who wore out her siblings asking why. She describes learning, after being misquoted, to ask what a reporter is really asking. She calls listening a discipline she never mastered. And the question that carried her through divorce: what is this moment trying to teach me? Crisis work as a puzzle solved with who, what, why, when, where, how. Mentoring as a two-way street. Why she always asked Howard Schultz why. Being the CEO of you. Owning Flint rather than letting others define it. And her right now question: will we survive this chaos, and what can I do to help? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning! Resources Mentioned Orin Smith (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orin_C._Smith) Nikki Giovanni (https://www.nikki-giovanni.com/) Starbucks (https://www.starbucks.com/) Audre Lorde (https://alp.org/about/audre) Flint Michigan (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flint,_Michigan) Howard Schultz (https://schultzfamilyfoundation.org/team-member/howard-schultz/) Onward by Howard Schultz (https://a.co/d/0cG7QyPF) Pour Your Heart Into It by Howard Schultz (https://a.co/d/00OhYP7W) Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. (https://aka1908.com/) Greater Seattle Chapter of The Links, Inc. (https://www.greaterseattlelinks.org/) Wanda Herndon website (http://wcommgroup.com/) Wanda Herndon on LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/wandajherndon) Wanda Herndon on Facebook (https://facebook.com/wandajherndon) Wanda Herndon on Instagram (https://instagram.com/wandajherndon) Producer Ben Ford (https://www.producerbenford.com/)
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  Paid To Say I Don't Know | Ken Woodward #98 27.08.2026 28min

  " You do not knock on a door that's been painted over. One word scores the paint and reopens it." - Ken Woodward Researchers paid people to admit when they didn't know something. Given access to AI advice, they almost never did. The design made it startling. Participants could decline any question with no penalty. Guessing wrong cost them money. The AI advice they received was usually wrong. Every incentive pointed toward three simple words, and access to a machine nearly eliminated their willingness to say them. What got suppressed wasn't accuracy. It was the willingness to be seen not knowing. In this solo episode, Ken opens with a lie he told a friend in a room where nothing was at stake, then traces the same reflex through a sidewalk in Southeast D.C., five questions he couldn't answer, and a backyard conversation that ran five hours past its twenty-minute plan. "I don't know" isn't a report on empty shelves. It's a doorway, and it's the only one. What question are you avoiding because not knowing would cost you something? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  The Last Time Was A Tuesday | Ken Woodward #97 20.08.2026 28min

  "Every unasked question has an expiration date." - Ken Woodward Ken tries to say goodbye to a shipmate before leaving the submarine. The man goes on emergency leave, and the goodbye has already happened without him noticing it. He had the calendar, the date, the list of names. The last one got past him anyway. That is the shape of this episode. We do not know which time is the last time, and preparation does not change that. Ken walks through Tim Urban's arithmetic on parents, a return to his hometown that was supposed to be final and wasn't, and an upcoming lunch with his ninety-three-year-old aunt, who is the last door into a generation that has already closed. In Ambiguous Loss, Pauline Boss offers a useful frame: closure is largely a myth, and the real skill is holding something open without needing it to shut. The question idea underneath it: every unasked question has an expiration date you cannot see. Some are saving for a better moment. Some you can't ask because you don't yet know you will want the answer. Ken is recording before he flies, without a resolution, because the not knowing is the point. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  A Slightly Smaller Life | Ken Woodward #96 13.08.2026 32min

  "There is just a slightly smaller life that you experience as a completely normal one." - Ken Woodward Seven experiments. Ten thousand people. Half learned a topic from an AI summary, half from ordinary web links. Same facts. The AI group came away with shallower knowledge, and when researchers propped the door open, placing live source links right beside the summary, almost nobody walked through. Sixty-eight percent of Google searches now end without a click. With an AI Overview on the page, eighty-three percent. This episode is about what that costs. Not wrong answers, wrong answers get caught. It's the second question that never gets asked, which leaves no error message and no gap in the record. Just a slightly smaller life that you experience as a completely normal one. Then: a man on a corner in Northeast D.C. who gave me a name that wasn't his, and what it took to get the real one. One more thing, I need your help naming something. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  Even Socrates Didn't Ask: On the Hidden Power of Questions | Lani Watson #95 06.08.2026 1h 29min

  " This aporia, this state of confusion and bafflement, is actually a fantastically exciting, liberating, intellectually stimulating place to be because you're really facing something that you don't know that you thought you did." - Lani Watson Dr. Lani Watson has spent her career on a question most of us never stop to ask. What is a question, and why does it hold such power? Known online as The Questions Doctor, Lani is a philosopher and the author of Q: The Hidden Power of Questions in a World That Wants Answers. In this episode, we sit with the idea that questions are a kind of everyday magic. A power we all carry and rarely notice. They change our brains. They change our relationships. They shape the very answers we receive. We talk about Socrates and the gift of not knowing. We talk about a world racing toward answers, and what we lose when we rush past the question. We talk about who gets to ask, and who does not. Come sit with the questions a while. There is power in the asking, and it belongs to all of us. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  The Station Never Called: The Listener's Question | Ken Woodward #94 30.07.2026 24min

  "Listening is not real until the listener makes a sound back." - Ken Woodward A sound-powered telephone runs on nothing but the sound of your own voice. No battery. No amplifier. I served on submarines, and I never forgot the joke we played on every new sailor: we sent him hunting the whole ship for batteries that do not exist. The power was in him the entire time. He only had to speak. This is a solo episode about listening. About the repeat-back, the discipline of saying a message back until it lands correctly. About a 2025 study that found the follow-up question is the clearest sign that real listening is happening. About what Dr. Haru Yamada taught me, that to ask and to listen are one motion. And it is about one officer I served with, a question I never asked him, and why I let it go unasked. The circuit is always live. Who is the station you have never called? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  Built to Reach, Not to Catch | Ken Woodward #93 23.07.2026 30min

  "Nothing in us reports on an absence. No creature ever needed a sense for the path it did not walk." - Ken Woodward More than sixty percent of Google searches now end without a single click. We type the question, read the summary, and leave. The trip is gone. Neuroscientist Anne-Laure Le Cunff argues that curiosity needs a gap to switch on, and that learning deepens while the question stays open. The answer closes the window. But the reaching is not our failure. Wanting the missing piece is old equipment, and it worked well for a very long time, because you used to have to walk over the ridge to find out. What changed is the hit rate. We catch every time now, in three seconds, and the machinery on the other side never gets to run. This week we look at which gaps are worth keeping open, why resistance is the mechanism rather than the toll, and what ten years of a daily question taught me about the limits of my own idea. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  Show What You Know By The Questions You Ask | Robert Doore #92 16.07.2026 1h 2min

  " Show what you know by the questions you ask." - Robert Doore Robert Doore carries two names, Robert Doore and Rides at the Door, and a journey most maps don't draw: from Big Red football on the Blackfeet Reservation to becoming the highest-ranking Native American in the NFL since Jim Thorpe. Now the President and CEO of Chief Mountain Sports and Consulting, he tells Ken he didn't learn the power of questions early on. He learned it at 21, in a Washington, D.C. room full of generals and cabinet officials, when he found the courage to ask a mentor, "How did you get to be so smart?" The answer, be well read, ask lots of questions, became his Jedi training. The conversation moves through Maslow's summer with the Blackfeet, teaching "Indian 101" to policymakers, representation as a door-opener, and fear as the cousin of failure. Robert's right now question: What does success look like? His answer isn't money. It's impact. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  The Fear Is Far, The Hope Is Near: America At 250 | Ken Woodward #91 09.07.2026 16min

  "That is what a patriot is. Someone who loves the country enough to trade the myth for the question." - Ken Woodward We took a single question to two places: the garden of the Heurich House in Washington, DC, and a town-center street in Rockville. What are you asking, right now, about America at two hundred and fifty? We did not coach anyone. We asked, and we listened. What came back was not one mood. It was several, sitting side by side. A civility one immigrant was taught here and watched thin. A fear for the vote. An institution lost and a resolve to become one. The next two hundred and fifty years held in one hand and tonight's parking in the other. A whole country found again in a crowd at a pool. Underneath all five runs one thread: the fear lives at a distance, and the hope lives within reach. Agency far away arrives as something done to us. Agency close enough to touch arrives as hope. The episode follows that thread back to the founding, to Frederick Douglass, and to what the word patriot is supposed to mean. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  Right Now Questions - Union Market, DC: When Now Becomes Next | Ken Woodward #90 02.07.2026 15min

  "When someone asks us about now, many of us answer with next." - Ken Woodward We took the mic into Union Market and asked strangers one question. What is your Right Now Question? Their answers, and the quiet trend running underneath them. On a warm June afternoon in Washington, DC, we stood in Union Market and asked the people passing through a single thing. Not what they do. Not where they are headed. Just this. What is your Right Now Question? What came back was a market full of strangers, each one carrying something. A job. A move. A book they could not choose. A neighborhood changing faster than anyone can hold. Listen for the trend running underneath the answers, then meet us on the other side for what we noticed. A few of the Right Now Questions we heard: Am I going to get this job? What does peace look like? Do I stay, or do I go? Do the new neighbors know what this used to be? Where will these protests lead us? What is so hard about being kind? This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  The Question We Wait to Be Asked | Ken Woodward #89 25.06.2026 29min

  "The avoided question and the awaited question. Same person. Two sides of one ache." - Ken Woodward Nearly all of the research on curiosity studies the person asking. A new study out of New York University, led by Dr. Niobe Way and Rachel Taffe, turned the lens around and asked the receiver instead. They gave 641 young people a single written prompt: what is the question you most wish someone would ask you, and why. More than ninety-seven out of every hundred had an answer ready. In this solo episode, Ken sits in that other chair. He walks the eight kinds of questions people long to receive and the six reasons underneath them, and finds that almost none of them are about information. People want to be seen, to be cared for, to be given permission to say the loving thing they have been holding back. Drawing on more than thirteen hundred conversations from his two years walking every street in Washington, D.C., Ken offers the lived proof: the woman undone by "good to see you," the friend he carries, the questions strangers had been waiting years for someone to ask. He closes on two pillars of the same practice. The question you are avoiding, and the question you are awaiting. A meditation on the plainest question in the language, and what it costs to drive around for years with one sitting unasked in the seat beside us. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  Learning to Be Asked | Ken Woodward #88 18.06.2026 32min

  "Ian thought a question was a way to find out who was above him and who was below him. The fire taught him it was a way to find out who was beside him." - Ken Woodward Ian told me he had gotten better at asking questions, and then said the thing that caught my attention. He used to be afraid to ask. Partially fear of looking nosy. Mostly afraid that asking one question would open him up to being asked one back. I knew that fear from the inside, so the two of us got on a call to dig in. This episode follows what we found. The scarcity in the house that raised him, and how a stretched mind cannot afford a question. The old wiring that treats being pushed out of the group as a threat to survival. Why his fear was not timidity but an accurate read of how people actually work. And the small weekly circle, built on one plain question, that changed the physics until the thing he feared was simply no longer true. With a debt to Brian Fretwell and Finding Good, a nod to Seth Godin and Polly Wiessner, and a question at the end I do not have the answer to. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  The Anatomy of a Question | Ken Woodward #87 11.06.2026 30min

  "The question was not broken. It was unfinished." - Ken Woodward Buried in the introduction of the twentieth century's most famously unread book is the most precise dissection of a question ever written. In this solo episode, we open Martin Heidegger's Being and Time and recover his anatomy of inquiry: every question has a subject, a source, and an intent, and most questions fail not from bad wording but from missing parts. We test the anatomy against the streets of Washington, D.C., including a backyard in Marshall Heights where a five-hour-and-forty-five-minute conversation revealed what sixty-one years of an unasked question feels like. Then the reckoning. The man who drew the map of questioning joined the Nazi Party, deleted his Jewish teacher's name from his own dedication page, and spent forty-three years refusing the one question that came addressed to him. Knowing the anatomy is not the asking. This episode is about the difference, and the drive home. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions) Keep questioning! Resources Mentioned Martin Heidegger Being and Time by Martin Heidegger Soul Boom Podcast Amanda Ripley Arthur C. Brooks Edmund Husserl Producer Ben Ford Beauty Pill
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  The Smallest Act of Authorship | Ken Woodward #86 04.06.2026 21min

  "The smallest act of authorship is a question." - Ken Woodward Nine months ago, Naomi Campbell of the Right Question Institute said one word that gave me a word I had been searching for: agency. I felt it land in my body before I understood it in my head. I promised my listeners I would come back with an answer. This episode is that answer. Agency is the authorship of our own lives. Not control, which none of us has. Authorship is something smaller and more stubborn. It is the refusal to be only what the world wrote about us. And the smallest act of authorship, it turns out, is a question. The moment we ask, we stop receiving the world and start writing on it. I carry two stories from my walk across Washington. A man I call Doc, raised by a mother who would not let him absorb anything without questioning it first. A woman I call Pearl, who answered the worst day of her life by building a neighborhood for the children coming up behind her. Agency is inherent. It can be suppressed, but never removed. The whole question is whether we pick up the pen. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning!
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  What Will You Soon Realize You Already Know? | Larry Robertson #85 28.05.2026 1h 49min

  " The more you play around with it, and the more you see the power in a question, the more you realize that it actually is the cure for the uncertainty that ails many of us." - Larry Robertson Larry Robertson has spent three decades advising leaders on growth, innovation, and strategy. He is also a US Fulbright Scholar, a columnist, and the author of four award-winning books. His newest, Great Question: The Art of the Ask and Getting More of What You Really Want, draws on more than 140 interviews spanning neuroscience, psychology, business, and the arts. Larry believes we are not a storytelling species. We are a questioning species. He arrived at that conviction book by book, pattern by pattern, over two decades of research. In this conversation, we explore the power of questions as a form of agency. We examine intellectual humility and what happens when you stop performing certainty. We discuss leadership, polarization, and the Braver Angels framework. We also unpack Larry's five-element Art of the Ask. Questions are not a technique. They are a behavior. They are something you already know how to do. This conversation is a reminder to start practicing again. This Curated Questions episode can be found on all major platforms and at CuratedQuestions.com. Be sure to subscribe to the weekly Curated Questions Dispatch newsletter for more fun with questions and curiosity! (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions (https://substack.com/@curatedquestions?)) Keep questioning! Resources Mentioned  Great Question: The Art of the Ask and Getting More of What You Really Want  Sara Lawrence Lightfoot  Audre Lorde  Rebel Leadership by Larry Robertson  VUCA Ernest  Hemingway  Mark Leary  Fulbright Scholarships  Braver Angels  I Never Thought Of It That Way by Monica Guzman  David Whyte  David Pearl  Peter Drucker  A Deliberate Pause by Larry Robertson Larry Roberson on LinkedIn Larry's Website Producer Ben Ford Beauty Pill