Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Chastity Queen
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A kinky and open discussion from a woman with experience in professional domination and the BDSM lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins some episodes to talk about kink, chastity, and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. The podcast explores the psychology of D/s relationships, control, and mental power exchange. It offers answers and stories for both submissives and female dominants, whether they are new to the scene or experienced.
Episodes
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LOCTOBER BEGINS - Let the Races Begin! 01.10.2026 8mOctober begins with a direct challenge: stay caged, prove your obedience, and make your restraint an act of devotion to me. I lay out daily expectations for Locktober, why unlocking is unacceptable, and how you can show service through consistency, focus, and tribute. Thank you for listening. And you can go to my Throne WISHLIST at Chastity Queen and commit or buy me a gift. https://throne.com/chastityqueen Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see... -
CAGE ON! Locktober Starts Tonight 30.09.2026 26mMy chaste slave! Locktober doesn’t begin on October 1. It begins the night you stop negotiating with yourself and choose a clear, total commitment. I am setting the tone on the eve of October with a direct plan: "Get your cage ready, get your body ready, and wake up already locked so you don’t miss a single second of the 31 day chastity challenge." I talk through what makes this work for real people, not just the fantasy version. That means practical rules for staying locked, what to do if y... -
Locktober 2026 29.09.2026 20mchaste slaves! The keys are already ringing, and I am asking for something simple and brutal: COMMIT to Locktober 2026. I CHALLENGE you! A thirty-one-day chastity challenge is less about hardware and more about discipline, devotion, and follow-through. If you’re new to a chastity cage, comfort matters, so set yourself up NOW, before October hits. If you’re experienced, raise the bar by making the month intentional and ritual-driven, not just another stretch of being locked. If late-nig... -
MY RULES: Setting Boundaries With Submissives 16.09.2026 34mSome people only want a Domme when lust hits, and then disappear the moment it fades. I’m not here for that. I’m Chastity Queen, and I’m talking about the patterns I see over and over in BDSM power exchange: the predictable spike, the urgent messages, the love bombing, and the drop-off once the craving is satisfied. If you’ve ever wondered why a dynamic starts to feel transactional, this is the hard truth behind it and the boundary that changes everything. I explain what I actually expect fr... -
LOCKTOBER & A Guided Chastity Meditation To Surrender Control 14.09.2026 21mLocktober 2026 isn’t just a date on the calendar, it’s a decision point. I open with a straightforward invitation to connect with Me on FetLife, join the Crown and Cage Society group, and look at the upcoming event on Saturday, September 26th (Hamilton, ON, Canada) for anyone who wants to cage up for October or longer with Me as your Keyholder. If you’ve been curious about commitment but keep drifting back to “maybe later,” this is your nudge to make it real, with a plan you can follow.... -
SERVE ME! Serving A Dominant Means Your Priorities Change 07.08.2026 16mslave, A power exchange can be playful, but it can also be a serious practice with rules, rituals, and real follow-through. I, Chastity Queen firmly lay out what devotion looks like when service is the point: preparation, presentation, and consistent obedience. From specific wardrobe tasks to expectations around gifting and tribute, the message is clear: if you want attention, you earn it through action. I also unpack the deeper “why” behind submission. What does it mean to be noticed by a do... -
SLAVE TASK! DAILY CHASTITY PROOF for Chastity Queen 06.08.2026 11mMy slave, A daily ritual can be more powerful than any one-off fantasy, and I’m talking to the listeners who already know what devotion feels like. I lay out a clear chastity protocol built around presentation, consistency, and proof, with the kind of standards that turn “I’ll try” into “I will.” If you’re into Femdom chastity, dominance and submission, orgasm control, or structured kink routines, you’ll hear exactly how I think about effort and obedience. I get specific about the detai... -
From Vanilla To Female-Led Power Exchange 05.08.2026 41mYou can feel the moment a relationship is ready for more, but you can also feel the fear that comes with it. I’m talking about how to bring a D/s dynamic into an established partnership in a way that protects trust, builds confidence, and keeps the connection warm, erotic, and real. I read a listener message that perfectly captures what many couples experience: a new dominant partner hesitates, then one honest reaction gives her permission to grow into leadership through protocol and ritual. ... -
TW: PIG LOSER 16.07.2026 25mTRIGGER WARNING This episode is extremely verbally offensive, degrading and extreme in it's content. This is for losers and urinal lickers ONLY. Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com THRONE WISH LIS... -
QUEEN'S RITUAL -Sacred Space Submission 12.07.2026 19mA door, a knock, the click of tall boots on the floor, and the moment you realise the rules have changed. We invite you into Chastity Queen’s sacred space through a guided, trance-like ritual that blends relaxation, erotic audio storytelling, and the psychology of power exchange. If you’re drawn to femdom energy, chastity themes, or structured submission, the journey is built to feel immersive, slow, and intentional. We move from breath and calm into clear protocol: entering with lowered eye... -
Porn Discipline And Chastity Training With A Female Dominant 02.07.2026 23m• breaking the porn to masturbation loop through clear rules • shifting from selfish impulses to service and obedience • using permission requests to slow down urges and earn rewards • setting penalties for porn use and unauthorized touching • treating mistakes as training data instead of disappearing • reducing porn like a withdrawal habit with audits and tracking • building discipline for sharper focus and better life goals • choosing a chastity ca... -
KISS THE GROUND xxx 23.06.2026 9mA single daily ritual can tell the truth about your devotion faster than any message ever will. The focus stays on the small actions that actually build obedience: a consistent routine, a physical reminder of hierarchy, and simple words of gratitude that reinforce who you are when you submit. Whether you’re exploring BDSM audio for the first time or you already live for ritual, this is a direct reminder that devotion is something you do, not something you claim. If you like th... -
YOU ARE MY CAGED PROPERTY 17.06.2026 12mMy calm voice asks for something intense: hand over control and notice what happens to your mind when My rules are simple. If you’ve ever felt your attention pulled toward compulsive habits, late-night scrolling, or porn cravings, the throughline here is focus: narrowing your world to one clear commitment and watching stress drop as decisions disappear. Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can c... -
DO you HAVE A PLACE AT MY FEET? 08.06.2026 24mI slow the breath, lock in a submissive headspace, and lay out a no-nonsense view of service, obedience, and what it means to earn a place at My feet. I also challenge shame, defend consent, and explain how intense humiliation play can build real confidence when it is chosen on purpose. • guided breathing to settle the mind and focus attention • clear power exchange expectations and the role of service • hard limits, boundaries, and why mismatch means no play • tri... -
SHRINKING 03.06.2026 16mYour cage isn’t getting smaller, so why does it feel tighter the moment desire hits? I walk you through the most common daily experience in locked chastity: thinking about your keyholder, feeling arousal surge, and sensing the device clamp down like a physical reminder of control. Subscribe, share the episode with someone curious, and leave a review, then tell me: what part of control feels most real to you? SUPPORT THE SHOW WITH THE LINK BELOW. Try to connect with your local BDSM co... -
ENTER MY DUNGEON: I AM your KEYHOLDER 25.05.2026 20mThe moment you hand over the keys, the story stops being about a device and starts being about direction. From the first slow inhale to the final reminder that “chastity IS freedom,” I build a clear frame: I lead, you follow, and consistency matters more than intensity. If you’re curious about chastity training, keyholder relationships, and consensual power exchange, you’ll hear how authority can be established with calm rules and repeatable cues. * SUPPORT THE SHOW (LINK BELOW) and TIP CHA... -
PUPPY PLAY in My Dungeon 23.05.2026 19mA confident voice, a strict set of rules, and a slow walk into a private space where control is the point. I lean into a femdom power exchange fantasy that uses ritual, obedience cues, and permission based pacing to create tension without relying on chaos. If you are curious about BDSM puppy play roleplay, dominance and submission, chastity themes, or pet play dynamics, you will hear how a scene can feel more intense when the structure is unmistakable. * DON'T FORGET TO TIP UNDER SUPPORT THE... -
BYE BYE ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION 20.05.2026 14mYour body isn’t “broken” if it can respond in private but shuts down with a real partner. That pattern can be a LOUD clue that you’re dealing with PED/psychological erectile dysfunction, where anxiety, attention, and conditioning override what your body can physically do. I dig into the mind body disconnect that shows up as weak erections, fast finishes, numb sensation, or that awful moment when you finally have time together and nothing works. I will get pointed and specific about wha... -
BALL KICKING PUNISHMENT 16.05.2026 12mA strict voice, a clear Hierarchy, and a blunt question that won’t let you off the hook: DO YOU NEED TO BE KICKED? Commanding power-exchange IS where discipline isn’t random, it’s framed as a response to repeated disobedience and THE NEED FOR A SWIFT KICKING. SEND ME A TIP ON BUZZSPOUT THROUGH THE LISTENER SUPPORT FEATURE! Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife ... -
SUCK MY DICK 16.05.2026 11mHEY COCKSUCKER! Get ready for some good, old-fashioned, explicit strap-on oral training. If you’re searching for BDSM audio that feels direct, commanding, and structured, this is designed to pull you in fast and deep. SEND ME A TIP ON BUZZSPOUT THROUGH THE LISTENER SUPPORT FEATURE! Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, C...
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