Human Becoming

Human Becoming

Tumi
Country South Africa
Language EN-US
Episodes 82
Latest 22.10.2026

Human Becoming is a weekly podcast exploring what it means to be human, from shame and anger to healing and belonging. Hosted by Tumi Moloto, a non-binary, queer African healer, historian, and storyteller, it examines how personal experiences shape identity and story. The show encourages listeners to reconnect with themselves and move away from disconnection and collective trauma toward compassion and collective healing. It is an intimate journey through the host's own becoming, offered as a way for others to better understand their own humanity.

Episodes

  • Venus Retrograde: flash round check ins, and contemplations on beauty 22.10.2026 34m
    Send us Fan Mail Here for another Venus retrograde yap session with the one and only Tiaré Lani.
  • mountain diaries: sitting by the waters, a prayer for awakening through heartbreak 19.10.2026 19m
    Send us Fan Mail Hello, dear listener. For the past almost three months, I have been living in the mountains at a small buddhist retreat centre. Mountain diaries will be an informal series sharing my meandering thoughts, emotions, philosophies and experiences while I explore my inner worlds in the solitude and quiet of this space. Episode highlights include: working with resentment, blame, and forgiveness.
  • mountain diaries: embracing our suffering (polyamory is dukkha) 17.10.2026 21m
    Send us Fan Mail Hello, dear listener. For the past almost three months, I have been living in the mountains at a small buddhist retreat centre. Mountain diaries will be an informal series sharing my meandering thoughts, emotions, philosophies and experiences while I explore my inner worlds in the solitude and quiet of this space.
  • mountain diaries: somatically practicing non-attachment and holding life loosely 15.10.2026 27m
    Send us Fan Mail Hello, dear listener. For the past almost three months, I have been living in the mountains at a small buddhist retreat centre. Mountain diaries will be an informal series sharing my meandering thoughts, emotions, philosophies and experiences while I explore my inner worlds in the solitude and quiet of this space.
  • mountain diaries: buddhism, impermanence (lol) and my current off-grid adventures 11.10.2026 37m
    Send us Fan Mail Hello, dear listener. For the past almost three months, I have been living in the mountains at a small buddhist retreat centre. Mountain diaries will be an informal series sharing my meandering thoughts, emotions, philosophies and experiences while I explore my inner worlds in the solitude and quiet of this space.
  • venus retrograde: love, sex, money and getting back to the party w/ Tiaré Lani 09.10.2026 1h 24m
    Send us Fan Mail We’re back! Happy Venus Retrograde. Tiaré Lani and I are back to discuss what is on our hearts and philosopher minds during this retrograde season: namely, money, sex, love, and the weird and wild threads that weave these seemingly disparate worlds together. We also yap about our own journeys in activist spaces and what we wish for in a world that’s ready to get back to the party i.e is ready to move beyond crisis management (although that is important) and towards a deep pri...
  • heart check ins, nervous system compatibility and relational self esteem w/ Tiaré Lani 08.10.2026 1h 11m
    Send us Fan Mail This was such a sweet episode to record. My dear friend Tiaré Lani and I gather to discuss all of the woes, longings, and aches of our dear hearts. In honour of Venus's Retrograde in Scorpio, we discuss the big break ups we've been navigating in this season of our lives, what we're learning about love and how we're keeping our hearts innocent, open and naive in a world that can feel quite romantically crushing (in all the ways). Come join us as we philosophise and dream about...
  • why I’ve dropped everything to pursue a ‘career’ in climate justice 26.08.2025 24m
    Send us Fan Mail title is self explanatory ✨
  • the spark doesn’t mean “they’re the one” 11.07.2025 23m
    Send us Fan Mail an episode on romantic recovery and how we learn to see the spark / the bubbly feelings we feel when we meet someone we project “the one”ness onto as what it is: karma.
  • checking in: where I’ve been, where I’m at, where I’m going 02.06.2025 30m
    Send us Fan Mail the title says it all.
  • hb microthought about autism and adhd 22.11.2024 18m
    Send us Fan Mail Hello! Welcome back to another microthought. This episode is about my recent audhd diagnosis, how that changed from my diagnosis of bipolar 5 years ago, my thoughts on late diagnosis and the appearance of autism + adhd in people socialised as women, and a couple more fun thoughts just for you. Enjoy ✨
  • hb microthought contemplations amidst climate catastrophe 18.11.2024 12m
    Send us Fan Mail I’m starting a new segment of human becoming called hb micro thoughts. This will be for thoughts, stories and experiences that are small and sharp and want to be shared within 15 minutes or so. This micro thought is about the climate crisis, global warming, and the collective grief that you may be feeling as you look out at the world in crisis.
  • human becoming returns (?) 20.03.2024 37m
    Send us Fan Mail Human becoming returns (maybe?). This episode is a little hi! hello! how are you! before I return from my podcasting hiatus to get back to one of my favourite mediums. I talk about God and our large self, who human becoming is and who I am now (hint hint: who knows!), how I’ve been using Instagram as my metaphorical yoga mat, capitalism, and some of my intentions for this new era of the podcast.
  • how to use Human Becoming (an orienting guide) 01.02.2024 30m
    Send us Fan Mail Hello, dear human, and welcome to the Human Becoming podcast. It is so, so lovely to have you here. Human Becoming has been alive for 3 WHOLE YEARS. In that time, I’ve explored themes of shame, desire, sexuality, the shadow, magick, ancestral healing, somatics, money, and so much more. Wherever you are in your journey, Human Becoming has something special for you - and in this episode, I run through all the seasons and what they cover so that you can figure out where ...
  • why I want you to join the money magick coven 11.11.2023 32m
    Send us Fan Mail I love the money magick coven. And sometimes I struggle to capture just how brilliant, transformative and magickal this work has been for me and my clients. So I’ve made a podcast episode that is all about WHY I love the money magick coven, and why I want YOU to join me in it.
  • the somatics of break ups 26.10.2023 39m
    Send us Fan Mail We are wired for connection. We are attachment-oriented beings. What happens when our attachment relationships are disrupted or severed? This episode is all about the somatics of attachment: how our earliest attachment strategies develop, and how to support ourselves when they get activated. Break ups can be REALLY challenging for our bodies and nervous systems. My hope is that this episode supports you in meeting yourself with tenderness, compassion and care as you navig...
  • Whorishness is next to Godliness 03.10.2023 53m
    Send us Fan Mail Whorishness is one of my highest spiritual ideals (hail Babalon!) Today’s episode is all about my journey into whorishness, slutiness, sacred sexuality and God. If you’re a deeply spiritual being and a deeply sexual being (hint hint: we all are!)… If you’re curious about being a slut for God and the mysteries… If you’re wanting to ride the wild beast that is our reality with total approval and acceptance… And feel DEEPLY turned on as you do… this episode for you.
  • navigating desire and capacity in intimate partnerships 20.09.2023 35m
    Send us Fan Mail What’s the difference between desire and capacity when you’re dating someone new? (Or, when you’re just being a human in relationship with other humans!) In this episode we speak about the principles of capacity (what we are able to do) and desire (what we want to do), and how learning to understand the difference between the two can help us to navigate our relationships with more love, tenderness and compassion.
  • a conspiring of magickal minds with Camille Bacon 06.09.2023 1h 1m
    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I have the delight of speaking to my dear friend, brilliant artist and fellow magician Camille Bacon. Camille describes herself as a heap of blood and bones and a hefty dose of star sprinkle, the glitter on the oceans surface and the primordial rhythm of the deep. I describe her as a generator of worlds and culture, a leader of the new Aeon, a beloved devotee of the Gods and the mystery, and a prolific creator of the unnameable and unknowa...
  • why I am choosing celibacy 30.08.2023 55m
    Send us Fan Mail This episode is about my recent decision to explore celibacy, how I’ve been feeling poly burned-out, where I choose partners that probably should just be my coaching clients, and what I’ve been learning about myself as a relational being through my recent romantic escapades (and non-escapades!).

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