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  Why the French Don't Drink at 5pm | Drinking Cultures in the U.S. and France 22.10.2026 29m

  Why would a bartender in Paris taste a wine, swirl it and spit it into the sink at 1:30 in the afternoon, and what does it say about how differently France and the US drink?In this episode of coucou, Kim looks at French vs. American drinking culture, from a bar stool in Paris to her own table in Provence. It begins with an apéro she hosted for French families, where she finally tried to get the cheese plate right: mildest to strongest, clockwise, room to breathe, no crackers. One fig pâté in the middle of the board set off a thirty-minute conversation about rules nobody had ever written down for her. From there she looks at the rhythm that shapes a French day: wine with lunch, a café, a sweet goûter in the late afternoon, then apéro at seven.Kim loves to dine solo in Paris, and in the 6th arrondissement she watched two cultures meet over one meal. An American diner ordered a second dirty martini just as her duck breast arrived, and a waiter quietly suggested the wine list. Neither understood the other. For one, the drink is the point. For the other, it is part of the meal. Kim wonders where our habits come from, from her Midwest upbringing and sorority days at the University of Wisconsin to why a day party feels normal to some and baffling to others.This isn't about which culture gets it right. Kim is an American expat three years into life in France, and she isn't trying to become French or give up the things she grew up with. She is learning to savor, with a wine class on the calendar, while keeping her beach-day drink and her first dirty martini back in the US. Which of your own everyday habits would you discover you had inherited if you lived somewhere else?Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/coucou.pod/">@coucou.pod </a>Produced by <a href="https://novapodcasting.com/">NOVA</a>
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  What If There's Another Way to Live? with Anne Ditmeyer 15.10.2026 51m

  What if the life you're supposed to live isn't the one you actually want?Kim sits down with Anne Ditmeyer, an American designer, creative coach, and author who has spent nearly two decades building an unconventional life and career in Paris. Through her workshops, creative exercises, and book OVERRIDE: What If There Was Another Way?, Anne helps people question the rules they've inherited and imagine new possibilities for themselves.Together, they explore what it means to create your own path, why we feel pressured to have everything figured out, and how creativity, curiosity, and small experiments can help us navigate uncertainty. Anne also shares the less glamorous realities of life in Paris, from French bureaucracy and making friends to her adventures exploring the city's public swimming pools.It's a conversation about trusting yourself, embracing the messy middle, and remembering that there's always another way to live.Resources:Anne Ditmeyer's website, workshops, and newsletter: annedittmeyer.comAnne on Instagram: @pretavoyagerOVERRIDE: What If There Was Another Way? by Anne DitmeyerDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Visit our website coucoupod.comProduced by NOVA
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  Designing an Intentional Life That May Lead You to Paris: Interview with Jenny Minney 08.10.2026 46m

  What happens when you stop following the path that makes sense and start listening to what you actually want?Kim sits down in Paris with Jenny Minney, a graphic, brand and editorial designer and host of the podcast By Design. Jenny left New York City and moved to Paris in her 20s, following a desire that didn't necessarily make sense for her career, relationship or the life she had already built.They talk about learning to trust your intuition, letting go of five-year plans, navigating uncertainty and separating your identity from your work. Jenny also shares how moving abroad changed her relationship with social media, success, anxiety and the pressure women feel to have everything figured out.It's a conversation about Another Way to Live, and why sometimes designing a life that feels like your own means being willing to step off the path you're "supposed" to follow.Resources:Follow Jenny Minney On InstagramBy Design podcastAccord French Language School in ParisDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  A French Woman's Perspective Living in NYC with Lauriane Blanc 01.10.2026 51m

  Kim sits down with Lauriane Blanc, a French woman who left the Loire Valley for New York City and went on to co-found Women Abroad Club, a community helping women build meaningful lives abroad.With Kim building a life in France and Lauriane building one in America, they compare what each culture gets right, from career ambition and education to food, fashion, friendship and the very different ways French and American women connect. Lauriane also shares what surprised her most about American life, what still makes her feel unmistakably French and why moving abroad can completely change your idea of home.They also get into the less glamorous side of starting over somewhere new: learning a language, finding your people, navigating work and putting yourself outside your comfort zone again and again. Lauriane shares why community and even one meaningful relationship can make such a difference when you’re trying to create a life in another country.Resources:Women Abroad ClubWomen Abroad CastLauriane Blanc on LinkedInDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  What September in France Teaches Us About What Really Matters 24.09.2026 35m

  September in France means la rentrée, a return to school, work, routines and everyday life after summer. But after four years living in Aix-en-Provence, Kim has realized it can also be a chance to return to yourself.After a summer road trip through the French Alps, Switzerland and Italy, Kim is reflecting on the things she wants to carry with her into this next season. She shares what living in France has taught her about being present, slowing down, letting go of constant productivity, making space for creativity and becoming more comfortable with uncertainty.She also opens up about anxiety, guilt, watching her children grow older and the complicated emotions that come with building a beautiful life far from family. Rather than making another list of resolutions, Kim is thinking about another way to live, one centered on the things that actually make a life feel meaningful.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  Q&A: French Beauty, Friendships and False Perceptions 17.09.2026 32m

  Kim is answering more of your questions about life in France, from how French parents balance work, kids and weeknight dinners to what motherhood looks like when women don’t completely change their style after having children.She shares how her friendships have evolved after nearly four years abroad, the one part of French culture she’d take with her anywhere, and the unexpected things her kids noticed during their recent trip back to the U.S., including screen time and the way Americans talk about food.Kim also revisits Bringing Up Bébé after raising her own children in France and shares which observations still feel true. Plus, drawing on her years working at Sephora, she compares French and American beauty standards, from skincare and “baby Botox” to perfectly polished beauty versus the French preference for leaving something a little imperfect.Resources:Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela DruckermanDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod coucou Podcast WebsiteProduced by NOVA
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  Are You Building a Life You Want or One That Only Looks Good? 10.09.2026 28m

  What happens when you build a life that looks successful from the outside, but somewhere along the way stop asking whether it actually feels right?Kim reflects on the life she and her family built in Marin County,  San Francisco, CA before moving to France, from corporate careers and private schools to the subtle pressure of titles, homes, cars and keeping up appearances. She shares a vulnerable moment on the Golden Gate Bridge when everything she had been pushing down finally caught up with her, and how a lyric from The National’s “Fake Empire” gave her language for what she was feeling.Three years after leaving that life behind, Kim shares how distance has changed the way she thinks about success, comparison and the choices we make without questioning why. France didn’t provide an instant answer, but it gave her enough space to ask a different question: If nobody else were watching, would you still choose the life you’re living?Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  French Behaviors I Found Strange 03.09.2026 27m

  After three years living in France, some of the French behaviors Kim once found strange don’t seem so strange anymore. From topless beaches and bikinis at every age to a much more laissez-faire approach to parenting, she reflects on the cultural differences that have made her question some of her own American habits.She also shares what she’s learned about the French tendency to complain, critique and say “c’est pas mal,” and why that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re less happy. Instead, she’s beginning to see how much value the French place on enjoying the day that’s actually in front of them rather than constantly chasing what comes next.Plus, Kim shares her advice on the best time to visit the South of France and why June, September and October may be better choices than the peak summer months.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  The Do's & Don'ts of Learning Another Language 27.08.2026 30m

  Kim thought moving to France would mean she’d naturally “pick up” French. What she quickly realized was that immersion alone isn't enough and becoming comfortable in another language takes far more patience, courage and deliberate practice than she expected.In this episode, Kim shares the do’s and don’ts she’s learned while studying French as an adult, from creating her own immersion through podcasts and French TV to giving herself daily “bravery challenges” that forced her to speak even when she was afraid of getting it wrong. She also shares some of the mistakes she can laugh about now, including accidentally buying diarrhea medicine for her daughter’s fever, ordering a Thanksgiving turkey for the wrong day and completely misspelling her daughter’s name on a birthday cake.More than anything, learning French has taught her what it feels like to be a beginner again. It’s been an exercise in patience, humility and getting comfortable with making mistakes, while recognizing just how rewarding those little breakthroughs can feel.Resources:Alliance FrançaiseDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  The Beautiful, Complicated Truth About Living Abroad 20.08.2026 31m

  Living abroad can look like rosé in Provence, beautiful markets, cobblestone streets and weekend trips to Italy. And sometimes, it really is that dreamy. But after more than three years in France, Kim is sharing the parts that don’t always make it onto Instagram: exhausting travel days, time zone differences, language barriers, homesickness and the strange feeling of no longer fully belonging to one place.She also opens up about raising kids between cultures, from school and sports to American traditions they’re growing up without, and the questions that come with deciding what parts of your home culture to hold onto. Along the way, Kim reflects on the personal work that moving abroad can bring to the surface and why changing countries doesn’t automatically change who you are.It’s a look at the beautiful, complicated reality behind choosing Another Way to Live, and why even the hardest parts can still be part of a life you’re grateful to have created.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  What America Looks Like After Living in France 13.08.2026 29m

  After three years living in Aix-en-Provence, Kim returned to the U.S. for three weeks and found herself seeing American life with completely new eyes.From enormous iced coffees, packed schedules and noisy restaurants to generous strangers, family reunions and the unmistakable warmth of American culture, she reflects on the things that suddenly stood out after becoming accustomed to a slower pace of life in France.Kim shares what she noticed about American attitudes toward time, food, parenting, convenience and productivity, along with the French habits she has come to appreciate, including lingering over meals, embracing downtime and being more present in everyday life.Rather than deciding one culture has it figured out, she reflects on what both France and America have taught her about living well, and why sometimes leaving home is exactly what helps you see it more clearly.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  The Magic of an Ordinary Life 06.08.2026 30m

  What if the moments that matter most aren’t the extravagant trips or perfectly planned experiences, but the quiet ones happening right in front of us?Kim begins by sharing the very American collection of food, medicine, beauty products and everyday essentials she brings back to France after visiting the U.S. Then, she reflects on how living in Provence has changed her understanding of an “extraordinary” life.From camping under the stars in the backyard and watching movies projected onto the ceiling to late-night swims, messy summer days and an unexpectedly memorable trip to McDonald’s, Kim shares why ordinary moments often become the ones we remember most. She also talks about letting go of overscheduling, asking what her family actually needs and learning to be fully present for the life they’re already living.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  Motherhood, French Style and Starting a Business in France: Q&A Part 2 30.07.2026 20m

  Kim is back with the second half of her listener Q&A, recorded after a technical issue cut the video short during the original session. She answers questions about building a life in France, from the biggest changes she has experienced as a mother to the realities of French paperwork and starting a business abroad.Kim shares why parenting in France has helped her worry less, give her children more independence and step away from the pressure to fill their schedules. She also talks about the preservation of childhood, France’s slower adoption of screens in schools, the friendships she has formed with other mothers and what French women really think about the world’s fascination with them.Plus, Kim shares the French fashion brands she wears most including Sézane, Soeur, Ysé, Stella & Suzie, Zara, J.Crew and Tuckernuck, her approach to building a wardrobe and what she learned while navigating visas, freelance work and the French administrative system.Resources:SézaneSoeurYséMaison Stella & SuzieZaraJ.CrewTuckernuckFrance-Visas: International Talent VisasFrance-Visas: Self-Employed or Liberal ActivityDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  French vs. American Schools: A Teacher’s Perspective 23.07.2026 41m

  Kim is joined by her sister, Courtney Ochs, a first-grade teacher from Chicago, to compare the American and French school systems from both a teacher’s and a parent’s perspective.They get into the major differences they’ve noticed in school schedules, vacations, lunches, recess and classroom technology. Courtney shares what teaching looks like in an American public school, while Kim explains the more traditional approach her children experience at an international school in France.They also compare classroom discipline, support for different learning needs, communication with teachers and the very different expectations around parental involvement. From three-course French school lunches and handwritten cursive homework to classroom iPads and parents competing for volunteer spots, both systems have benefits, drawbacks and plenty they could learn from each other.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  Daily Life in France 16.07.2026 34m

  Daily life in France: errands, doctors, groceries and all the little surprises.Kim is sharing what daily life in France actually looks like, beyond the postcard version. After an ant infestation in her old French house sends her on a very un-American errand, she starts unpacking all the little ways everyday routines feel different in France.From booking doctors on Doctolib and picking up vaccines at the pharmacy to shopping at the market, carrying groceries in an “old lady cart,” figuring out weekday lunches, navigating the bank and comparing prices between France and the U.S., this episode is a realistic look at the slower, more local rhythm of life in France.Resources:DoctolibDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  American Habits France Helped Me See in Myself 09.07.2026 29m

  After three years in France, Kim is reflecting on the American habits she did not fully notice until she had enough distance to see them clearly.In this episode, she talks about rushing through the day, measuring life by productivity, feeling pressure to “keep busy,” overthinking parenting, buying too much, delaying rest, and treating pleasure like something that has to be earned. France has not magically cured any of these habits, but it has helped her question the fears, assumptions, and expectations that shaped so much of how she lived before.She also shares a summer travel chat about where people in France and Europe actually go on vacation, from Greek islands to Malta, Italy, Croatia, and Turkey.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod 
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  Beyond the Checklist with Oliver Gee of The Earful Tower 02.07.2026 46m

  In this episode of Conversations From Paris: Kim sits down with Oliver Gee, the creator of The Earful Tower, one of the most beloved English-language podcasts about Paris. Oliver shares how he went from Australian journalist in Paris to storyteller, podcaster, walking tour host, author, and unofficial expert on the city’s hidden corners.Together, Kim and Oliver talk about what visitors often get wrong about Paris, why the best travel moments usually happen when you leave room for surprise, and how to experience the city beyond TikTok lists and tourist checkboxes. They also get into raising kids in France, learning French in real life, the beauty of small museums, and why Paris never runs out of stories.Resources:The Earful Tower Official WebsiteThe Earful Tower PodcastThe Earful Tower Walking ToursActivities for Kids in Paris: Kapla Centre, Color Room, Atelier des Lumieres Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod
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  What I’d Like to Say to the French, Respectfully 25.06.2026 33m

  After three years living in Provence, Kim is sharing the things she’d like to say to the French, respectfully, as an American living in France.From the quiet intimidation of speaking French as an adult to the structure, rules and rhythms that shape daily life in France, she reflects on what it feels like to live between two cultures. She also shares what France has taught her about slowing down, protecting pleasure, noticing beauty, and questioning the parts of American life she once accepted without thinking.Plus, Kim shares her packing advice for summer travel in France, so hopes that’s helpful to anyone coming to Europe soon!Resources:Packing CubesDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod Produced by NOVA
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  Q&A About Life in France 18.06.2026 31m

  Kim is answering listener questions about what life in France really looks like day to day, from summer camps in Provence and her slower morning routine to motherhood, making friends, style, fitness, writing, and the question everyone asks: will her family stay in France?She shares how living in Aix-en-Provence has changed the way she thinks about work, parenting, creativity, and raising third-culture kids. She also gets into the practical side of moving abroad, including choosing France, navigating visas, starting a freelance business, and finding a new rhythm far from the American rush.Resources:Don't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod 
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  The Stages of Living Abroad: The Beginning, Homesickness & Finding Yourself 11.06.2026 33m

  Living abroad is not one big romantic leap. It is a process, and Kim is breaking it down into the stages she has experienced after moving from California to France.In this episode, Kim shares what life is like in the first year. She shares how these can often feel like the “toddler years” of expat life, when everything feels magical, confusing and slightly humiliating, from speaking in broken sentences to surviving the French post office. She also talks about the second-year homesickness that can hit when the novelty wears off, the cultural traditions you start to miss, and the deeper questions that come with building a new life far from home.Now in her third year, Kim reflects on the quiet confidence that comes with feeling more settled, speaking French more comfortably, letting go of old expectations, and noticing the small moments that make life feel fuller. From Aperol spritzes and sugary French cocktails to raising kids abroad and rediscovering herself, this is an honest look at what it really feels like to grow into a life in another country.Resources:Episode mentioned: Are These the Best Years of Our Lives?Episode mentioned: What No One Tells You About Moving AbroadDon't forget to subscribe, rate & review and follow us on Instagram @coucou.pod