TOO FAST TOO SLOW

Episodes

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  DUDE, WE MISS YOU 18.10.2026 12m

  “Dude, we miss you.”It feels good to hear that, right? But have you ever wondered what they actually miss?If you’re the one everybody calls, the listener, the helper, the strong one, this episode is for you. We talk about the difference between being missed and being known, why people can miss what you do for them without really knowing you, and what it tells you when you go quiet and see who shows up.You’ll also get three simple things you can try this week to find out who’s really there.Because being missed is nice. But being known is what we’re all after.
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  OUT OF TOUCH pt1 07.09.2026 7m

  What if our fear of the world has disguised itself as holiness? We’ve built Christian bubbles so comfortable that we mock what we no longer understand, while Jesus stepped directly into human brokenness without becoming part of it. Out of Touch asks what it would look like to step beyond our comfort, into the places we fear, and still carry the light without losing ourselves.
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  “I HAVE NO AUTHORITY HERE” 28.08.2026 2m

  What’s Stopping You From Taking Action?Are you waiting for permission to lead? This short episode explores the fears that keep us passive and challenges us to take initiative, embrace responsibility, and recognize the power we already have.(another recording from my voice archives)
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  NOTHING TO SAY, YET 26.08.2026 2m

  This episode challenges the pressure to post just because everyone else is, arguing that your message should lead you to post — not posting lead you to a message. True intentionality means waiting for a thought that needs to be out there, rather than hunting for "something cool" to share, and it's okay to have zero energy to post even while doing great things. Reclaiming that freedom means you could go silent for a month without fearing it costs you your reputation or status.
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  SELF HATRED - ROLAND ELVIS 17.07.2026 22m

  What if self-hatred isn’t who you are, but a belief you’ve learned to carry?In this episode of Too Fast Too Slow, Roland explores how self-hatred can become a borrowed belief system shaped by parenting, social media, comparison, and the environments we grow up in. Together, we unpack why so many people fear the spotlight, silence their own voices, and settle for being tolerated instead of celebrated.We also discuss practical steps toward healing—from cognitive restructuring and journaling to self-forgiveness and seeking healthier environments. Most importantly, we explore how pain can become fuel for growth as you build a life grounded in undeniable personal value rather than borrowed insecurity.
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  I AM NOT A VICTIM 11.07.2026 1m

  This excerpt rejects victim mentality in favor of personal accountability, defining the "in-between" as the transformative gap between ambition and achievement. It warns that claiming to know it all halts growth, and that blaming family or environment hands your power to someone else. The message: own your timing, keep growing, and stop outsourcing your worth to outside validation.
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  LIVING ON EDGE 08.07.2026 2m

  Expecting harm at every turn reshapes you — even the innocent can start looking guarded, and that guardedness pushes people away. This episode exposes how living on edge slowly turns peace into something unfamiliar.(This is actually from my voice recording archives)
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  Pilot 09.05.2026 1m

  Hey guys, welcome to Too Fast, Too Slow — a podcast about navigating life in between the rush and the waiting.In a world constantly pushing us to move faster, achieve more, and figure everything out, this is a space for honest conversations about faith, purpose, creativity, culture, leadership, and becoming.Whether life currently feels too fast or too slow for you, I hope these conversations remind you that you’re not alone in the journey.I’m glad you’re here.