Saying Yes Again: Real Talk About Love, Dating & Relationships After 40

Episodes

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  I Don't Want To Take Care of a Man 06.10.2026 26m

  The real question is not whether you want to take care of a man—it's whether he can stand beside the life you've built without trying to run it. For women who are single, divorced, widowed, or dating in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, this conversation gets honest about the difference between caring for someone and carrying them. Dr. Lisa & Tony open with the familiar line, "I don't want to take care of a man," and explores what it can mean for women entering a new chapter. After decades of raising children, managing households, and building careers, many women value the freedom and independence they've worked hard to create. They want a relationship that feels like a partnership—not another responsibility. This episode explores why "caring" and "carrying" aren't the same, why age alone doesn't guarantee maturity, and why self-sufficiency, communication, and respect for boundaries matter. Dr. Lisa & Tony also consider the questions worth asking while dating: Can he celebrate your success? Does he have a life and purpose of his own? Does being with him make your life bigger—or smaller? For every woman who wants to protect the life she's built without closing the door to love, this is a conversation about dating with standards, keeping your independence, and saying yes again on your own terms. Dr. Lisa & Tony are the voices behind Saying Yes Again, a podcast about navigating love, loss, independence, and second chances with honesty and clarity. Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok
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  Dating Over 50: What If It Doesn't Work Out? 28.08.2026 32m

    In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the mindset shifts necessary for embracing new relationships in midlife. They talk about shifting from "What if it doesn't work out"? to "What if it does." They discuss overcoming fears, redefining success, and the importance of growth and flexibility in dating again. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing New Beginnings in Midlife 02:07 The Impact of Pessimism on Dating 04:04 Crawling Before Walking: Relearning How to Date 05:55 Changing Priorities and Self-Discovery in Midlife 07:49 The Role of Familiarity and Unfamiliarity in Choices 10:06 Expanding Horizons: Seeking New Options 12:02 The Power of Flexibility and Adjustments in Relationships 13:58 Growth Through Experiences and Saying Yes Again 16:09 Overcoming Fear of Failure and Success 18:06 Building Friendship as a Foundation 19:56 The Deepest Fear: What If It Works? 22:13 Living Fully and Embracing Change 24:11 The Importance of Being Open to the Unfamiliar 26:09 Learning from Every Experience 28:03 Shifting the Question: From What If to Who Might I Become 29:55 The Power of Growth and Saying Yes Again 31:47 Challenge: Saying Yes to Life and Love 34:11 Conclusion: Embrace the Journey of Self-Discovery Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok
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  What Fear Has Cost You (And You Don't Even Know It) 04.08.2026 17m

  Dr. Lisa and Tony explore how fear can hold us back from love, success, and happiness, and how leaning into faith and courage can transform our lives. This episode offers practical advice on overcoming fear and embracing life's opportunities.  Takeaways Fear is a terrible decision-maker; faith shows what you can gain. Every meaningful life moment involves overcoming fear. Building confidence in saying yes makes future fears easier to face. Changing your mindset from 'what if it doesn't work' to 'what if it does' can transform your life. Leaning into fear instead of avoiding it opens doors to love, success, and happiness. Chapters 00:00 Fear is a GPS, not a Stop Sign 02:27 Overcoming Fear of Love and Disappointment 05:34 Every Meaningful Moment Requires Courage 07:42 Trust Yourself More Than Doubts 10:33 Allow Fear to Strengthen, Not Stop You 11:23 Sharing Our Journey to Inspire Others 12:53 The Power of Saying Yes to Your Future 13:32 Leaning into Fear to Discover Your Purpose 14:02 Say Yes to Love, Life, and Second Chances 15:02 Join Our Community and Start Your Journey   Saying Yes Again Website  Saying Yes Again Starter Kit  Saying Yes Again YouTube    
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  Before You Say Yes Again, Some Things Have To End 28.07.2026 34m

  In this conversation, Lisa and Tony explore the concept of necessary endings, inspired by Dr. Henry Cloud's book, "Necessary Endings." They delve into the importance of recognizing when to let go of old habits, relationships, and mindsets to foster personal growth and create a more fulfilling future. They share personal stories of their own experiences with endings, including relationships, careers, and identities, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when something has run its course. The discussion also touches on overcoming fear of decision-making and the need to stop dwelling on the past to embrace new opportunities. Takeaways 00:00 "Some things have to come to an end." 01:18 "It's about healing and letting go." 06:04 "Burnout pushed me to the point where..." 07:03 "It's okay to let it go and to end." 08:25 "It's time to grow and change." 25:41 "What story do I keep repeating?" 25:41 "Stop being fearful of making decisions." Chapters 00:00 The Necessity of Endings 02:13 Personal Stories of Transformation 11:48 Identifying Necessary Endings 21:59 Letting Go of the Past 25:41 Overcoming Fear of Decisions 28:29 Embracing Growth and Change Links and resources Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud - https://www.amazon.com/Necessary-Endings-Dr-Henry-Cloud/dp/1591457684 Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok
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  Empowering Women to Trust Their Intuition After Divorce with Dr. Nicole Rochester 14.07.2026 44m

  In this episode, Dr. Nicole Rochester shares her transformational journey through divorce, healing, and rediscovering herself. She offers powerful insights on recognizing red flags, trusting intuition, and embracing second chances in love. Dr. Nicole Rochester is a mom, pediatrician, business owner, TEDx speaker, and the host of the Your nEXt Chapter Podcast. She ended a 28-year marriage and had to navigate heartbreak, betrayal, grief and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial "strong friend", Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating safe spaces where high-achieving women who have experienced "divine disruptions" can heal, recover, and THRIVE as they write the next chapter of their lives!  key  topics Recognizing subtle signs of emotional abuse The importance of self-worth and self-love Trusting intuition and recognizing red flags The role of faith and community in healing Letting go of control and embracing divine timing The significance of unlearning limiting beliefs Steps to rebuild trust in oneself and others The impact of personal boundaries and honesty Navigating dating after divorce with intention The importance of self-care and joy in recovery Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nicole Rochester 01:43 Signs of a Troubled Marriage 05:32 Recognizing Emotional Abuse 09:31 Advice for Those Experiencing Betrayal 12:28 The Internal Struggle of Professional Women 15:43 The Turning Point in Dr. Nicole's Journey 19:58 God's Preparation for Change 22:43 Empowering Women Post-Betrayal 25:10 Breaking the Superwoman Myth 26:18 The Importance of Asking for Help 27:51 Trusting Yourself and Your Intuition 29:13 Dating with Intention 35:34 Embracing New Beginnings 36:06 Future Aspirations and Community Engagement Links and resources Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud - https://www.amazon.com/Necessary-Endings-Dr-Henry-Cloud/dp/1591457684 Your Next Chapter Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-next-chapter/id1471234567 Dr. Nicole Rochester - Social Media - https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co/ Dr. Nicole Rochester - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co Get your free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again.
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  Love, Luggage, and a Promise Ring: The Deltoro's Story of Secoind Chances 07.07.2026 1h

  Join us as Constance and William Del Toro share their incredible love story, which blossomed from a chance meeting at the airport into a thriving marriage. Discover how faith, timing, and boldness can create a fairy tale in midlife. Takeaways Be open to love at any age and trust divine timing Honest communication and setting clear intentions are key Self-healing and shadow work prepare you for love Support and partnership strengthen relationships Taking bold, intentional actions can change your life Sharing love stories can inspire others to believe in second chances Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a Magical Love Story 02:06 The Chance Meeting at the Airport 10:04 The First Date and Connection 14:26 The Bold Declaration of Love 19:33 The Proposal and Commitment 22:22 Overcoming Grief and Embracing New Love 23:24 Manifesting Love: The Power of Intentions 25:03 Embracing Authenticity in Relationships 26:32 Second Chances: Luck or Divine Intervention? 28:59 Recognizing the One: Moments of Connection 31:09 The Leap of Faith: Expressing True Feelings 32:35 Advice for Finding Love: Be Open and Engaging 34:05 Navigating Public Perception: Love in the Spotlight 37:49 Building Together: Love and Business Dynamics 40:31 Building a Trustworthy Team 41:12 Supporting a Partner's Ambitions 44:28 Finding Love Later in Life 47:55 Self-Reflection and Healing 48:54 Creating a Love Story: The Book 51:06 Future Plans and Expanding Horizons Del Toro Life - TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thedeltoro_life Del Toro Life - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedeltoro_life Del Toro Life Website - https://thedeltorolife.com Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get your free Saying Yes Again starter kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Get our newsletter packed with inspiration and tips on navigating your second chapter Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok
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  Embracing Love Again: Navigating Fear and Building Trust 01.07.2026 28m

  This episode dives deep into the reality of starting over in love after divorce, highlighting how fear, trust, and self-awareness play pivotal roles in second chances at love. Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy share their personal journey, insights on overcoming inner obstacles, and practical advice on saying yes to love again. 00:00 - Introduction: Love, fear, and second chances 02:23 - The concept of a 'life partner' versus marriage 03:49 - Overcoming fear to re-enter the dating scene 05:15 - Changing mindset about marriage and love 06:41 - Building trust and friendship after divorce 09:30 - Fear does not disappear with love 10:59 - Love doesn't heal all wounds but enhances the healing process 15:42 - The difference between loving and receiving love 16:12 - The challenge of accepting love from others 18:27 - Internal blocks to receiving love and vulnerability 20:48 - Letting go of the pursuit of certainty in relationships 22:13 - The importance of flexibility and realistic expectations 24:37 - The value of shared experiences and understanding surprises in relationship growth 26:57 - Overcoming fear with intentionality and openness 28:22 - How to connect with Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy online 29:20 - Teasing upcoming episode: The viral love story of the Del Toro's 30:12 - Final thoughts: Love, life, and second chances Resources & Links: Get your free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Saying Yes Again on Facebook Saying Yes Again on Instagram Watch on YouTube for the full video
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  Surviving Texting Drama: Stop Reading Between The Lines 16.06.2026 34m

  This episode explores how overanalyzing text messages can hinder dating, especially in midlife. Dr. Lisa and Tony share insights on overcoming fears, building trust, and embracing uncertainty to foster genuine connections. Chapters 00:00 The Texting Dilemma in Dating 02:57 Understanding Assumptions and Reactions 05:45 The Impact of Communication Styles 08:54 Overanalyzing Text Messages 11:43 The Role of Uncertainty in Relationships 15:02 Building Trust and Connection 17:50 Navigating Fear and Control in Dating 20:39 Practical Tips for Healthy Communication 23:56 The Journey to Trust and Certainty 26:46 Embracing Uncertainty in Relationships Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok
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  The Truth About, 'I Don't Need Anybody' 09.06.2026 24m

  In this insightful conversation, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the complex relationship between independence, vulnerability, and emotional connection post-divorce. They discuss how societal norms and personal fears influence our ability to form meaningful relationships and offers guidance on balancing independence with emotional openness. Takeaways Pretending not to need love can keep people stuck and numb. Many successful women are tired of disappointment and choose emotional self-protection. Men and women often develop emotional shells to avoid vulnerability. True independence is about freedom, not emotional detachment. Connection is vital for physical and mental health, especially in later life. Chapters 00:00 The Myth of Independence and Emotional Detachment 01:26 Why Successful Women Feel Tired of Trying 02:20 The Cost of Emotional Self-Protection 03:20 Men's Emotional Detachment Post-Divorce 04:20 The Danger of Emotional Shutdown 05:36 Sabotaging Healthy Love 06:36 The Difference Between Real and Fake Independence 08:03 Confusing Confidence with Emotional Detachment 09:34 Numbness vs. Peace 10:27 The Wall of Independence 12:17 Hyper Independence After Long-Term Relationships 14:20 Resisting Connection and Vulnerability 16:49 The Fear of Letting Love In 18:41 The Cost of Emotional Flatness 19:52 The Importance of Human Connection 20:59 Healing vs. Numbing 22:31 Join the Saying Yes Again Community Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok        
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  When Dating Starts To Feel Like A Threat 02.06.2026 30m

  This episode explores the emotional challenges of dating after divorce, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, experience over performance, and reducing pressure to foster genuine connections. Dr. Lisa and Tony shares personal insights and practical advice for navigating modern dating with confidence and self-love. Key  topics The impact of social media on relationship expectations The importance of authenticity and being present during dates How to shift mindset from evaluation to experience Handling nervousness and guardedness in dating The significance of dating as an experience, not a test Chapters 00:00 The Illusion of Perfection in Dating 02:45 Navigating Emotional Barriers 05:57 Transforming Dates into Experiences 08:45 The Pressure of Expectations in Dating 11:56 Reframing Dating Mindsets 15:05 Finding Authentic Connections 17:45 Creating Opportunities for Genuine Interactions Saying Yes Again website to join our email list Watch the entire video on our YouTube channel  Join our Facebook Community 
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  Defensive Dating Is Destroying Your Love Life 19.05.2026 16m

  Dr. Lisa and Tony Exploring the emotional barriers and defensive dating habits of singles over 40 post-divorce, and how fear and trust impact new relationships. Takeaways Fear of vulnerability often drives emotional detachment in dating. Many singles over 40 wear armor to protect themselves from hurt. Healing involves trusting oneself and learning to manage fear. Defensive dating can prevent deep connections and true intimacy. Recognizing and addressing underlying fears is key to healthy relationships. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dating After Divorce 02:22 The Fear Behind Defensive Dating 03:44 Trusting Yourself Again 05:08 Cautious vs. Vulnerable Dating 06:28 The Impact of Fear on Dating Strategies Website - https://sayingyesagain.com  
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  Who Comes First- Your Spouse or Your Children? 13.05.2026 28m

  This episode tackles the emotionally charged topic of prioritizing your spouse versus your children in blended families and remarriages. Hosted by Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony, it explores how to build a strong foundation, maintain healthy boundaries, and model love and respect for children and partners alike. Action  items: Prioritize your marriage to build a stable family foundation Create regular date nights to maintain connection Set healthy boundaries to protect your relationship Model love and respect for children through your actions Communicate openly with children about family dynamics Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Dilemma 01:26 The Emotional Complexity of Prioritizing Spouse vs. Children 03:58 Shifting Perspectives: From Children to Spouse 06:04 The Foundation of a Strong Marriage 09:21 Navigating Blended Families and Long-Term Partnerships 10:26 Common Pitfalls in Parenting Dynamics 12:31 Understanding Emotional Dependencies 17:23 The Importance of Inclusion in Blended Families 19:00 Challenges in Blended Family Dynamics 20:37 Strategies for Strengthening Marital Foundations 21:25 Practical Steps to Prioritize Marriage 24:15 The Balance of Parenting and Partnership 28:07 Conclusion: Modeling Healthy Relationships Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok  
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  It's Not Just Us: The Reality of Blending Families 06.05.2026 22m

   In this episode, Tony and Dr. Lisa share their candid experiences and insights on blending lives later in life. They discuss the complexities of merging personalities, pasts, and family dynamics, offering practical advice and heartfelt stories for those navigating similar journeys. Timestamps 00:00 - The joys and challenges of loving and blending lives later in life 00:10 - Exploring what it really means to integrate into a partner's existing family structure 00:38 - Lisa shares her experience at the Black Effect Podcast Summit and the power of stepping out of comfort zones 01:09 - Celebrating small wins: The journey from pitching a podcast to gaining exposure 01:33 - The significance of validation in creative pursuits and personal growth 01:58 - The role of existing relationship dynamics in blended families 02:27 - Personal stories: Overcoming fears and embracing opportunities 02:57 - The importance of community and recognition in pursuing goals 03:23 - How life experiences shape our approach to blending families 03:53 - Final reflections on navigating love and family in later years Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube
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  Why Good People Struggle to Receive Love — Breaking Barriers to Healthy Relationships 24.04.2026 22m

  In this episode, Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why even the best, most consistent people often struggle to accept love. They uncover the emotional blocks that prevent many from opening their hearts and share practical insights to foster vulnerability and healing. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and the topic of love and vulnerability 00:14 - Celebrating life and love milestones in Aruba 01:13 - Why good people remain single despite doing "all the right things" 01:43 - Exploring the root causes: fear of love, past hurts, and internal barriers 02:21 - How past experiences shape current ability to accept love 03:15 - The danger of overanalyzing and pulling back when love gets close 04:15 - The pain of love that wasn't reciprocated and emotional scars 05:15 - Self-sabotage and the fear of vulnerability 06:14 - Recognizing signs: paranoia, overthinking, pulling away 07:14 - Choosing the wrong partners and controlling the relationship process 08:14 - The need for trust and surrender in love 09:14 - Control as a defense mechanism and its impact on relationships 10:13 - The importance of letting your guard down and being open to love 11:11 - Distinguishing between genuine peace and protective barriers 12:17 - How to relax into healthy love and drop the defenses 13:39 - Influence of childhood, familial patterns, and ancestral wounds 14:00 - The significance of evaluating your social circle and energy influence 15:14 - Redefining what healthy love looks like versus boredom or familiarity 16:43 - The power of self-awareness and learning to receive love 17:13 - Small steps: trusting, letting go of fears, and being vulnerable 18:13 - Reflective questions: Do you push away or invite possible love? 19:36 - Do you prefer chaos and inconsistency over steady, calm partnerships? 19:54 - Are you unconsciously using independence as a shield? 20:36 - The possibility that love is already around you but you haven't known how to absorb it 21:06 - Encouragement for self-inventory and sharing insights with others 22:01 - The importance of spring cleaning your emotional landscape 22:41 - Invitation to join community and subscribe to ongoing support 23:11 - Closing remarks and encouragement to say "yes" to love Saying Yes Again Community on Facebook Remember, love begins with self-awareness and openness. Let go of past hurts, clear out emotional clutter, and step into the possibility of being truly loved. If you're ready to receive love, sign up for our transformational 6-week coaching experience designed for accomplished women ready to release outdated beliefs about love, rebuild confidence, and create meaningful relationships.
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  Why Do Good People End Up Alone? 31.03.2026 24m

  Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why good, committed people often find themselves alone despite their qualities and morals. This episode dives into the complexities of compatibility, timing, and self-awareness in the pursuit of love. Timestamps: 00:37 - Introducing the question: Why or are good people alone? 0:56 - Defining what makes someone "good" and why that doesn't guarantee relationship success 1:54 - The difference between being a good person and being a good partner 2:24 - The impact of compatibility versus morals and values 4:16 - The importance of alignment in values and emotional needs 5:10 - Timing and healing: Why being ready matters 6:35 - The role of non-negotiables and avoiding the wrong choices 7:58 - Nurturing tendencies, people-pleasing, and attracting the wrong people 8:58 - The challenge of being emotionally unavailable or hard to love 10:37 - Recognizing and addressing personal walls and guardrails 12:30 - Self-reflection after past relationships and setting realistic expectations 14:45 - The changed dating landscape after or 40 and bringing past habits into new relationships 16:09 - Characteristics that differentiate "choosable" partners—communication, growth, emotional availability 18:28 - The importance of self-awareness and willingness to grow 20:23 - Are you unknowingly putting up barriers that keep you single? 21:16 - Summing up: Good people aren't alone because they are unworthy, but because love requires more—timing, vulnerability, alignment 22:24 - Final encouragement to take stock, work on barriers, and open up to love 23:19 - Announcement: A 6-week experience to help women or create their next chapter in love, starting soonResources & Links: Saying Yes Again Website Six-Week Love Building Program (details on website) Remember, love is about alignment and timing, not just goodness. Reflect on your barriers, or be honest with yourself, and open to growth for the love you deserve.
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  Are Good Men Really Tired Of Dating After 40? 24.03.2026 23m

  In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the often-overlooked struggles men face in midlife dating. They discuss how emotional wounds from divorce, financial setbacks, and societal expectations leave many good men feeling exhausted and cautious about new relationships. The hosts emphasize the importance of clear communication, mutual support, and creating intentional spaces—like their mixers—for mature singles to connect authentically. They encourage both men and women to be open, patient, and honest, reminding listeners that it's never too late to find real love and say yes again. If you are a woman ready to step into this next chapter, join us for a transformational 6-week coaching experience designed for accomplished women ready to release outdated beliefs about love, rebuild confidence, and create meaningful relationships. Program starts May 26th Register here Connect with us: Saying Yes Again YouTube Saying Yes Again Website Saying Yes Again Facebook Saying Yes Again Store    
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  Why Is It So Hard for Great Singles Over 40 to Find Each Other? 17.03.2026 22m

  In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore why successful, emotionally intelligent singles over 40 often struggle to find each other. They discuss how established routines, protective attitudes toward personal peace, and past heartbreaks can make meeting new partners challenging. The hosts emphasize the importance of intentional socializing, mindset shifts, and openness to positive disruption. They also highlight the need for compatibility and shared values, and share their own experiences, including hosting mature mixers to help singles connect in relaxed, authentic environments. The episode encourages listeners to remain hopeful and proactive in seeking meaningful relationships. To be the first to receive updates about our events, subscribe to our newsletter on our website at sayingyesagain.com 
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  Secure Your Second Chance: Estate Planning and Legacy Building 03.02.2026 40m

  In this episode, attorney Laurie Thomas Williams shares vital insights on protecting your wealth and legacy no matter where you are in life but especially after rebuilding your life following divorce or a second marriage. Learn practical steps, common pitfalls, and how to plan intentionally for peace of mind and financial security. Timestamps:  00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: Protecting what you've rebuilt 03:42 - Starting over: The importance of legal and financial planning 05:24 - Challenges faced by midlife remarriages and blended families 08:13 - The risks of neglecting beneficiary updates and legal documents 09:54 - Essential documents to review after divorce 11:04 - Why every adult should have a will, regardless of circumstances 12:23 - Updating power of attorney and health directives 14:20 - Protecting your business interests and succession plans 17:34 - Sharing real cases to demystify estate planning 18:22 - Building legacy without perfection: Control, clarity, protection 19:44 - Why estate planning isn't just about death—it's about your life now 20:44 - The trust myth: It's for everyone, not just the rich 23:21 - Lessons learned from blended family conflicts and what you wish you'd known earlier 26:38 - Details about the upcoming "Mindset to Millions" event on February 7th 31:11 - Planning for death, disability, and future control of your assets 32:41 - Protecting your family and business in everyday life and emergencies 34:04 - The importance of intentional wealth building and legacy planning 35:12 - The risks of doing nothing and saying yes to clarity and protection 36:12 - Final remarks: Register now, bring your spouse, and plan with purpose You can contact Attorney Thomas Williams here Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok  
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  Unlocking Emotional Freedom: April Nowlin's Guide To Love 27.01.2026 34m

  In this episode of the Saying Yes Again podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony welcome April Nowlin, a certified relationship coach, speaker, and author. The conversation delves into April's personal journey through heartbreak and divorce, which ultimately led her to help others navigate their own relationship challenges. You can connect with April here  and on all social media ‪@aprilnowlin
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  It's Not Too Late: You're Right On Time 13.01.2026 18m

  This conversation explores the journey of finding love after 40, emphasizing that it's never too late to seek meaningful relationships. Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the mindset shifts necessary for those over 40, the historical context of relationships, and the advantages of maturity in dating. Key themes include emotional availability, the importance of knowing oneself, and the transition from chasing to choosing relationships. The discussion encourages listeners to embrace their experiences and wisdom as they navigate the dating landscape. Chapters 00:00 Embracing Love After 40 03:29 Historical Perspectives on Relationships 06:39 The Sweet Spot of Maturity 09:28 Choosing Relationships Over Chasing 12:43 Emotional Availability and Self-Discovery 19:04 Saying Yes Again Ending Youtube Video.mp4 Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our free Saying Yes Again Starter Kit. Discover why dating feels so exhausting after heartbreak—and begin rebuilding the one thing healthy love depends on: Trusting yourself again. Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our Apple podcast Subscribe to our Spotify podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok