Wives Not Sisters

Episodes

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  The Wives Are Having A Baby!!!!! 21.07.2026 31m

  We're finally sharing the news we've been holding close to our hearts. ❤️ After months away, Alix & Kayla are back to explain where they've been—and why. In this deeply personal episode, they open up about the life-changing journey that's been happening behind the scenes: after nearly four years of infertility, pregnancy loss, and navigating the emotional rollercoaster of surrogacy, they're finally expecting a baby. But alongside the excitement comes a difficult decision. They talk honest...
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  I'm A Lesbian Married To A Man 12.05.2026 17m

  Can you still call yourself a lesbian if you’re married to a man? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one listener story that immediately sent them into a spiral of questions, nuance, and identity politics. After a Sister Wife writes in to share that she’s identified as a lesbian her entire life—except for one unexpected exception: her husband—the conversation turns into a deep dive on labels, attraction, fluidity, and whether definitions still matter in modern queer relationship...
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  Late In Life Lesbians 05.05.2026 48m

  What does it actually mean to be a late-in-life lesbian… and is there even such a thing as “too late”? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community: realizing you’re queer later in life. From women coming out in their 30s, 40s, and beyond to the grief, freedom, and total identity spiral that can come with it, this conversation is equal parts hilarious and deeply emotional. The episode starts off chaotic (as it should) with ...
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  Does My Ex Girlfriend Listen To My Podcast? 28.04.2026 16m

  In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla spiral into one of the most accidentally hilarious conversations yet after realizing an ex might be lurking on their podcast TikTok. What starts as a simple “wait… does she listen?” quickly turns into a full-blown conversation about exes, boundaries, social media stalking, and the very lesbian art of never fully disappearing from each other’s lives. From suspicious TikTok profile recommendations to the absolute chaos of accidentally following an ex’s ...
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  We're Getting Divorced 21.04.2026 43m

  What actually counts as a divorceable offense… and what’s just relationship growing pains? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most complex (and very requested) topics from the Sister Wives community: divorce. From lighthearted “would you leave me for this?” scenarios to deeply personal listener stories, they unpack what really pushes relationships to the breaking point—and what might still be worth working through. The conversation starts off chaotic (as always) with...
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  Hooking Up With Your Bestie's Ex (Amanda Batula, Ciara Miller & West Wilson) 14.04.2026 30m

  What happens when loyalty, love, and timing all collide… and someone crosses the ultimate friendship line? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the messiest (and most talked-about) relationship dynamics: hooking up with a friend’s ex. Using the latest Bravo drama as a jumping-off point, they break down the viral love triangle that has everyone asking the same question—is this ever okay? What starts as a pop culture deep dive quickly turns into a much bigger conversation ...
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  WLW Strap Stories 07.04.2026 49m

  What happens when you ask the internet for their most chaotic strap-on stories? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of their wildest listener-submitted topics yet—and you guys absolutely delivered. From TSA agents pulling harnesses out of carry-ons to dogs sprinting through the house with a strap-on in their mouth, the stories are equal parts hilarious, horrifying, and way too relatable. They react in real time to your submissions, breaking down everything from travel mishaps and ...
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  My Girlfriend Has Only Ever Been With Guys 31.03.2026 13m

  What happens when great chemistry meets… not-so-great sexual compatibility? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla respond to a vulnerable listener question about navigating intimacy with a “baby gay” partner who’s never been with a woman—and isn’t quite enjoying sex yet. From struggling to orgasm to feeling unsure about what actually feels good, they unpack the many layers that could be at play. The conversation dives into everything from internalized shame and sexual inexperience to the ...
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  Masc And Femme Beauty Standards 24.03.2026 53m

  What does it actually mean to be masc or femme… and who decided the rules? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most unexpectedly heated topics in the Sister Wives community: masc vs. femme beauty standards. After a TikTok clip sparked a wave of strong opinions, they unpack the nuance behind it all—reading real listener comments, challenging their own perspectives, and asking the bigger question: who is actually setting these standards? From body expectations and androgyny t...
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  Aspyn Ovard is in a Throuple 19.03.2026 20m

  Alix and Kayla are back with a quickie—but this one spirals into a very juicy conversation 👀 In this episode, they dive into the internet drama surrounding a longtime influencer whose life took a major turn—from young marriage and mommy-vlogger perfection to divorce, coming out, and now… a rumored (and confirmed?) throuple. They unpack everything: The timeline of her relationship and coming outThe internet’s reaction (supportive, confused, and very judgmental)The complexity of labels like “le...
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  Girls Hooking Up With Girls 17.03.2026 1h 2m

  What actually counts as sexy… and what’s just awkward? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into a spicy (and very funny) conversation about lesbian sex, flirting, and the little moments that can either turn up the heat or completely ruin the vibe. From being pushed against the fridge to intense eye contact, belt-loop pulling, accidental headbutts, and the infamous phrase “good girl,” they unpack the tiny details that make intimacy work—or make you burst out laughing mid-makeout. Alon...
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  WLW Couple Reacts To Heated Rivalry 12.03.2026 12m

  There’s one very gay show everyone seems to be talking about right now… so naturally, Alix & Kayla haven’t watched it. In this quickie episode, they dive into the internet’s latest obsession — “Heated Rivalry.” From the extremely passionate fan reactions to the very explicit scenes circulating on social media, the show has taken over queer corners of the internet. The only problem? Kayla has a hard time watching shows where the main characters are men. The conversation turns into a hilari...
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  Bi Girls With Husbands 10.03.2026 1h 2m

  Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community: the experience of bi women in relationships with male partners. After asking their audience for stories and questions, they unpack everything from “allowed cheating” dynamics and open relationships to the emotional reality of choosing monogamy when you’re attracted to more than one gender. The conversation explores the complicated feelings that can come up in long-term relationships—like grievin...
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  Becca Moore & Zoe Boyd DM Drama 05.03.2026 15m

  What’s worse: sending a cringe DM… or fumbling someone you already married in your head? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla break down the viral DM moment between Becca Moore and Zoe Boyd that divided the internet. When a flirty (but arguably unhinged) cat-related message landed in Becca’s inbox, the internet split into teams: Was it just a joke? Was it too sexual too fast? Or did both of them fumble the bag? From DM etiquette and Gen Z flirting to “lines,” thirst traps, and how to a...
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  Understanding Detransition: Real Experiences from Queer and Trans Voices 03.03.2026 1h 20m

  In this episode, Alix & Kayla explore stories from people who have transitioned and later detransitioned, unpacking the deeply personal, emotional, and complex experiences behind those journeys. From informed consent and puberty to trauma, social influence, and the evolving language around gender identity, they discuss how identity formation can shift over time—and why holding space for nuance matters. Through anonymous community stories and open conversation, they reflect on how gender, ...
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  Cat Missal is Gay & Tell Me Lies Finale Reaction 26.02.2026 16m

  Did the Tell Me Lies finale actually deliver… or are we all just emotionally attached to chaos? In this quickie episode, Alix & Kayla break down the Tell Me Lies finale—spoilers included—and unpack everything from toxic relationship dynamics to unresolved plotlines and the very real lesbian internet crossover that somehow always leads back to the same tiny queer universe. From casting coincidences and queer Hollywood connections to the psychology behind Stephen and Lucy’s relationship, th...
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  WLW Travel: What It’s Really Like Traveling the World as a Married Lesbian Couple 24.02.2026 1h 1m

  Why does queer dating sometimes feel like relearning everything from scratch? In this episode, Alix & Kayla talk about the strange, funny, and sometimes emotional reality of navigating attraction, identity, and dating after stepping outside heteronormative expectations. From questioning what “counts” as chemistry to unpacking the pressure to label experiences too quickly, they explore how queer relationships often challenge the scripts we grew up with—and why that uncertainty can actually...
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  OMG…My First Time Hooking Up With Another Woman 17.02.2026 54m

  What is it actually like the first time you’re with a woman? In this episode, Alix & Kayla talk about first times with girls — the magical ones, the awkward ones, the confusing ones, and the ones that quietly change everything. Drawing from listener stories, polls, and their own experiences, they explore what it means when desire finally makes sense, why some first times feel life-changing and others feel messy, and how fear, alcohol, shame, curiosity, and timing all shape our queer awak...
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  The Body Image Episode: Millennial Women, Diet Culture & Gender Expression 10.02.2026 1h 2m

  What does body image look like when you’re queer, partnered, confident… and still unlearning everything you were taught? In this episode, Alix & Kayla get deeply honest about body image, desire, and self-perception inside queer relationships. They talk about comparing yourself to your past body, feeling pressure to look “gay enough,” navigating femme and masc expectations, and how confidence, strength, and self-expression shape attraction far more than size or shape. From almond moms and ...
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  I'm WLW, But I'd Never Date A Woman 03.02.2026 57m

  In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one of the most controversial queer takes on the internet: being attracted to women, sleeping with women, but not wanting to date or marry them. Is it preference, internalized homophobia, avoidance, or just honest self-awareness? Through listener submissions, they dive into WLW stereotypes, deal breakers, attachment styles, emotional intensity, codependency, and why queer relationships can feel so confronting. This episode is funny, nuanced, validatin...