Find Your Feminine Podcast

Episodes

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  #93: Stop Waiting to Feel Alive:The Neuroscience of Deciding & Why Pleasure Is the Portal 02.05.2026 50m

  In this intimate, unfiltered episode I'm sharing where I've been the last three weeks... Getting vulnerable about how I'm REALLY doing during the move home to Melbourne, the messy in-between of life, and the very uncomfortable truth I had to face about myself.  The episode for the woman in the in-between — who's been waiting to feel alive again. 🌹 The woman who is abandoning herself from living the life she was put here to experience, out of fear.  This ones for you, my love.    INSIDE THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL UNCOVER:  The real reason this last month has been the hardest of my life  What happens in your brain (and life) when you make a decision and stop wishing for your dream life to happen...  Why pleasure is the fastest, most direct portal into rewiring your entire reality The exact reason 14 devotional days is enough to make you completely unrecognisable & quantum leap into your new life. + so much more!   She's jammed packed with gold!    MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE   The 14 Days to Ecstasy - Join now!  {Doors close on the 10th of May OR when we get 20 enrollments}    CONNECT WITH ME Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com  
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  #92: How You Do Sex Is How You Do Life (feat. Marie Zak) 22.04.2026 1h 4m

  A soul-stirring conversation, originally from my guest appearance on The Marie Embodied Podcast — now brought home to Find Your Feminine. This is the fullest version of my story I've ever shared here on the podcast. The night everything cracked open. The hypnotherapy session that took me back to age three. The moment my body came online & my pleasure returned for the first time. Marie and I move through the difference between a climactic life and an orgasmic one, what your numbness is really sitting on top of, the illnesses that whisper back to unfelt s*xual trauma, and why your p**** is the most honest compass you'll ever meet.   What we cover:  ✦ The moment I knew something needed to change and I didn't want to spend my entire life numb.✦ The three-year-old memory I didn't know I was carrying that was blocking my pleasure.✦ Climactic life vs. orgasmic life ✦ The quiet language of your p**** (and what she's been trying to tell you) ✦ Yoni dearmoring & the night I wept in my husband's arms ✦ The glow no facial can give you ✦ What every woman secretly wants — no matter her surface goal + SO much more!  About Marie: Somatic practitioner based in Nelson, BC, and host of The Marie Embodied Podcast. Her work guides women home through a nervous system lens. → [@marieembodied]   Resources + Links Mentioned 🎓 Free Orgasmic Woman Masterclass → [JOIN NOW] 📲 Find Carlie on Instagram → [@carliejade] 
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  #91: How Pleasure Heals You at a Cellular Level - The Science of Epigenetics + Your Orgasm 01.04.2026 38m

  his is the episode Carlie has been dying to record. Equal parts science and soul — and genuinely one of the most mind-blowing things you'll hear on this podcast. We're going deep into epigenetics — the science of how your behaviours, environment, thoughts, and feelings actually change the expression of your DNA. And specifically, how your pleasure, your orgasm, and your relationship with yourself are some of the most powerful healing tools available to you right now. If you've ever been told your health is just genetics, or that pleasure is indulgent, or that your body is something to fix from the outside — this episode will completely reframe everything.   In This Episode You'll Learn What epigenetics actually is  Why 95% of your genetic expression is mutable and changeable through how you live and the type of sex you're having.  How your self-talk either makes you sick or healthy The exact biochemicals released during orgasm and what they do for your health Why your pleasure is one of the highest frequency states you can be in 5 practical ways to use pleasure as medicine starting today + SO much more!    Resources + Links Mentioned 🎓 Free Orgasmic Woman Masterclass → [JOIN NOW] 📲 Find Carlie on Instagram → [@carliejade] 
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  #90: How to Introduce Your Partner to Tantra & Sacred Sexuality (When They've Never Done This Before) 23.03.2026 54m

  This episode was inspired by a message from one of Carlie's long-term clients — a woman who had done deep pleasure work solo, and was now in a new relationship wanting to bring her partner into this world without freaking him out. If you've ever felt ahead of your partner on this path and wondered how to bridge that gap, this one is for you. Carlie breaks down exactly how to invite your partner into sacred sexuality — without the awkward conversation, without emasculating him, and without turning the bedroom into a yoga class.   In This Episode You'll Learn The difference between regular sex and tantric sex — and why it matters The #1 mistake women make when introducing their partner to this work (and why it always backfires) The exact 6 steps you can follow to upgrade your sex life and bring your partner into this this sacred sexuality work.  + SO much more.    Resources + Links Mentioned 🌸 Free Pleasure Blocker Quiz [Take the Quiz Now]  🌹 Watch The Orgasmic Woman Masterclass [Sign Up]  💫 VIP — Very Important Pussy (Carlie's signature program, includes the Sacred Lovers Guide as a free bonus) → [OPEN NOW]  📲 Find Carlie on Instagram → [@carliejade]  
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  #89: Sex, God & Healing: The Sacred Sexuality Conversation Nobody's Having | with Alina Camargo 07.03.2026 1h

  What does it actually take to heal your sexuality — not just intellectually understand it, but feel it, reclaim it, and make it holy? In this episode I'm joined by my dearest friend, Alina Camargo — love witch, medicine woman, and sacred sexuality healer — for one of the most raw, real, and profound conversations this podcast has ever held. This is not a light episode. But it is a liberating one. In this episode, we go into: Alina's journey from sexual abuse and trauma to becoming an orgasmic woman How Ayahuasca helped her purge generational sexual trauma — and the moment she realised it ends with her Why tantra changed her relationship with God, sex, and her own body  The biggest misconception about sexuality work + SO much more!   🔗 CONNECT WITH ALINA: Worship Her Masterclass - Join here  @alinatheprimalmystic    🔗 CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com  
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  #88: Why You Can't Orgasm (And It's Not What You Think) | The Neuroscience of Pleasure & Orgasm Blocks 20.02.2026 1h 5m

  If you've ever felt broken in your body, numb to pleasure, or like no matter what you do, you just can't let go during sex? Then this episode is for you. In today's episode of The Find Your Feminine Podcast, women's sexuality hypnotherapist Carlie Jade deep dives into the real neuroscience behind why so many women struggle to orgasm & why it has absolutely NOTHING to do with them being broken. In this episode you'll discover:   The real neuroscience reason why you can't orgasm (and why it's not your fault) What your amygdala is doing during sex and why it's blocking your pleasure The Thinking/Feeling Loop that keeps women stuck in cycles of numbness and disconnection What women need to experience true orgasm.  What researchers found in brain scans during female orgasm that will blow your mind The 3 top biggest orgasm blocks for women  How neuroplasticity can literally rewire your brain for more pleasure And practical steps you can start today to bring your pleasure back online. Because your pleasure is your birthright!    Resources mentioned in this episode: 🧠 Take the FREE Pleasure Blocks Quiz → [Link to Quiz Here] Answer these 13 questions to uncover exactly what's blocking your pleasure.  💫 Join the VIP Waitlist → www.carliejade.com/vipVIP is Carlie's signature 12-week women's sexuality hypnotherapy program combining nervous system healing, subconscious reprogramming, and somatic pleasure practices. Doors open soon — get on the waitlist for first access (limited spaces).    🔗 CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com    
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  #87: The Truth Behind The Files: Why Your Sexuality Is Your Greatest Rebellion 09.02.2026 45m

  If you've been reading the news, watching the world crumble right before your eyes, and wondering "what the f**k am I supposed to do about any of this?", then this episode is for you.  With everything happening in the world right now. From the riots, the revelations, the files being released, I finally understand WHY I chose to do this work and why it matters more than ever. And why you too chose to be here too during it all.  And what we're supposed to all be focusing on right now, especially if we feel hopeless and confused. This is the BEST thing we can do not only for ourselves but for civilization as a whole.  HINT: It's all tied to your own sexual reclamation and healing.  Content Warning: This episode discusses sexual trauma, collective trauma, and current events that may be triggering for some listeners.   What We're Diving Into: Why 30-40% of women struggle with orgasm (and it's not what you think) The ancient connection between sexuality and source energy that's been hidden from us How sexual trauma—personal and collective—keeps us disconnected from our power Why the most powerful thing you can access as a human has been suppressed, shamed, and manipulated What tantric practices actually are (hint: it's not just about sex) The real reason behind sexual trauma, trafficking, and the darkness we're seeing exposed right now How to reclaim your birthright to pleasure, power, and connection Why focusing on the reality you WANT is the most important thing you can do right now   This Episode Might Be For You If: You struggle with orgasm or opening up sexually You have a hard time trusting in relationships You're carrying sexual trauma (from this lifetime or feeling like it's deeper) You feel disconnected from your body and power You're looking at world events and feel helpless about what to do You want to understand the bigger spiritual picture of what's happening right now   Resources Mentioned: "Outwitting the Devil" by Napoleon Hill Elizabeth April Youtube Interview + Videos  First hand experience of a Human Traffic Survivor  VIP Program (link below)   🔗 CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com     Keywords: sexual awakening, women's sexuality, orgasm, tantric practices, sexual trauma healing, spiritual awakening, source energy, hypnotherapy, reclaiming power, sacred sexuality, higher timeline, collective healing, feminine energy, sexual freedom Hashtags: #SexualAwakening #SacredSexuality #WomensSexuality #SpiritualAwakening #TraumaHealing #TantricPractices #ReclaimYourPower #SourceEnergy #FeminineEnergy #Hypnotherapy #SexualHealing #CollectiveHealing #HigherTimeline
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  #86: The Real Reason Relationships Fail (& 6 Ways to Make Yours Thrive) 05.02.2026 1h 9m

  This might be one of my favorite episodes I've ever created. After watching Married at First Sight Australia and witnessing how quickly people run when relationships get uncomfortable, I knew I had to share what makes a relationship actually THRIVE. After my own experience of devotionally loving the same man for over a decade, plus having qualifications in the field of love, sex, and relationships and working with hundreds of clients, I've found that thriving relationships need these exact 6 key ingredients. If you want a love like your grandparents had.... Something handcarved, intentional, and soul-deep—this episode is for you.     💕 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Very Important Pussy (VIP) program   🔗 CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com
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  #85:The Energetic Glow Up Masterclass — Why Your Body Holds Trauma (and How to Glow Again) PART 3 05.02.2026 29m

  PART 3 [Watch Masterclass Here]  Hello beautiful souls & welcome to the Find your Feminine Podcast.  Today I'm bringing you a 3 part series taken from such a potent and powerful live masterclass I held called the "Energetic Glow Up". Which is all about how unhealed sexual trauma lives in the body and how it shows up as numbness, disconnection, illness, and a completely dims our natural glow as women.  The Ultimate glow up is when a woman returns to her pleasure! And I'm about to show you how.  Inside this episode I will be sharing how any woman can go from numb to mulit-orgasmic in as little as 90 days. The exact steps I guide my clients through that provides them with the most phenomenal results.  Some of the topics covered today:  The Specific Characteristics of All Highly Orgasmic Women  How to become a highly orgasmic woman in 90 days + so much more!    MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE: Watch the Energetic Glow Up Masterclass  Join Waitlist for V.I.P    Social Media:  Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com  
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  #84:The Energetic Glow Up Masterclass — Why Your Body Holds Trauma (and How to Glow Again) PART 2 05.02.2026 31m

  PART 2 [Watch Masterclass Here]  Hello beautiful souls & welcome to the Find your Feminine Podcast.  Today I'm bringing you a 3 part series taken from such a potent and powerful live masterclass I held called the "Energetic Glow Up". Which is all about how unhealed sexual trauma lives in the body and how it shows up as numbness, disconnection, illness, and a completely dims our natural glow as women.  The Ultimate glow up is when a woman returns to her pleasure! And I'm about to show you how.  Inside this episode I get intimate and share my own transformation through sexual healing and how I now help hundreds of women do the same thing.    Some of the topics covered today:  How to free up the blockages in your body that is dimming your glow The exact 4 steps to heal ANYTHING in your body  The Root Emotional causes of Acne & Skin Issues, Stubborn Weight Gain & Numbness + so much more!   MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE: Watch the Energetic Glow Up Masterclass  Join Waitlist for V.I.P    Social Media:  Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com  
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  #83:The Energetic Glow Up Masterclass — Why Your Body Holds Trauma (and How to Glow Again) PART 1 04.02.2026 43m

  PART 1 Hello beautiful souls & welcome to the Find your Feminine Podcast.  Today I'm bringing you a 3 part series taken from such a potent and powerful live masterclass I held called the "Energetic Glow Up". Which is all about how unhealed sexual trauma lives in the body and how it shows up as numbness, disconnection, illness, and a completely dims our natural glow as women.  The Ultimate glow up is when a woman returns to her pleasure! And I'm about to show you how.  Inside this episode I get intimate and share my own transformation through sexual healing and how I now help hundreds of women do the same thing.    Some of the topics covered today:  Sexual trauma stored in the body Why so many women feel numb How your trauma & blocked energy dims your glow How you do sex is how you do EVERYTHING in life Healing trauma to reclaim pleasure and vitality The feminine sexual awakening happening now + SO much more!   MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE: Watch the Energetic Glow Up Masterclass  Join Waitlist for V.I.P    Social Media:  Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com  
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  #82: How to Build a Life You Can Hold, Not Just Dream About 07.01.2026 58m

  Hi beautiful souls! So happy to announce that the podcast is officially back with regular Wednesday episodes ✨ I can't wait to connect with you more. In this episode, I share a little (or big) life update & how I'm grounding whilst entering a powerful season of transition and preparing for a deeply expansive 2026. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by vision boards, manifestation advice, and “don’t waste your year” content online. I created this episode as a grounded, embodied alternative. Because you don’t manifest what you want. You manifest what your nervous system feels safe enough to hold. In this conversation, we explore: Why vision boards don’t work without nervous system capacity How your survival brain blocks growth through familiarity The real reason your goals may keep repeating year after year The 3-step formula to sustainable expansion How to regulate your nervous system daily (in just 10 minutes) Using micro-steps and somatic “reps” to rewire your ability to receive more love, money, pleasure, and success This episode is an invitation to stop chasing highs and start creating a hand-carved, grounded, deeply satisfying life you can actually stay present for. If 2026 is calling you into more, this conversation will show you how to expand your capacity to meet it. With love, Carlie Jade xx  MENTIONED IN SHOW NOTES: Substack Article    Social Media:  Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com   Until next Wednesday, xx       
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  #81: How to Ask Your Way to an Orgasmic Reality 04.09.2025 37m

  Can the life of your dreams, full of pleasure, aliveness, and fulfillment... Really begin with the questions you ask yourself? The answer is yes. In this episode, I dive into the power of high-quality, introspective questions and how they can literally rewire your brain, shift your energy, and help you manifest your most orgasmic reality. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why the quality of your questions determines the quality of your life. How to use simple questioning techniques to transform painful or triggering memories into growth and empowerment. The difference between a climactic life (always chasing highs) and an orgasmic life (intimate, nourishing, present, and deeply pleasurable). + SO MUCH MORE!   Resources & Links: Download my Free Workbook of Transformational Questions: Download here  Learn more about VIP – Very Important Pussy, my signature program for embodying pleasure, self-love, and feminine magnetism: https://carliejade.com/ Social Media:  Instagram @carliejade  Substack: @carliejade  Website: https://carliejade.com/ Email: hello@carliejade.com
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  The MOST important question you need to ask yourself before you end your relationship… 09.07.2025 46m

  If you've ever found yourself wondering whether your relationship has run its course, this episode is for you. Whether you're in a tough season with your partner or just questioning whether they’re “the one,” Carlie dives deep into the real reason you might be feeling disconnected — and the one powerful mindset shift that could change everything.   What we dive into: The life-altering impact of the questions you ask yourself Why your subconscious mind might be working against your relationship The truth about comparison, resentment, and relationship tunnel vision How your mindset in love reflects your mindset in life and business + SO much more!    ✨ Submit your questions or episode requests via Conversations with Carlie ✨ Follow along on Instagram: @Carliejade ✨ Loved this episode? Share it with a friend or leave a review — it means the world to me!
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  The Healing Trap: When “Doing the Work” Becomes a Form of Self-Sabotage 25.06.2025 42m

  What if the very thing you’ve been doing to free yourself… is the thing keeping you stuck? In this episode, Carlie dives into the shadow side of the healing journey. The subtle yet powerful trap so many women fall into without even realizing: becoming addicted to healing. You’ll hear why constantly “doing the work” can quietly reinforce your identity as the woman who’s never fully ready, never quite enough, and always almost there… And how this keeps you from embodying the orgasmic, liberated version of you that already exists.   Carlie unpacks: The unspoken cost of over-identifying with your pain story How trauma healing without a clear vision of your future can become its own loop Why pleasure and freedom can feel unsafe to a nervous system wired for struggle How the body becomes chemically addicted to suffering Why therapy alone might be keeping you anchored in the past The Tantric shift from healing to feeling — and how to rise from love, not lack And the 8-step pleasure-based process she teaches inside her VIP program   This episode is a gentle (but fiery) wake-up call for the woman who’s done so much work — but still isn’t living the reality she’s been manifesting. It’s time to break the healing loop, reclaim your joy, and become the version of you who no longer needs to be fixed — only felt, seen, and set free.   🔥 Resources & Links: ✨ Free Gift: Download the Orgasmic Reality Meditation   💋 Join the Waitlist for VIP: Very Important Pussy A 3-month pleasure awakening experience for the woman ready to finally live her desires.
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  5 Steps to Transform Your Life in 90 days and Enter 2025 as a High Value Woman 27.09.2024 57m

  Hello beautiful souls, Todays a little different! We're basically doing a mini course in a podcast episode, and she's gonna get juicy and deep! As mentioned, there is a workbook that goes along with this episode, you can download the workbook below.DOWNLOAD HEREMake sure you leave a review or send me a DM @carliejade if you loved todays episode! Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP
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  Pain during sex & Vaginismus | Common reasons + How to heal it 08.08.2024 22m

  Hello beautiful souls, I've been having so many calls lately with women who are experiencing pain during sex & vaginismus so I thought it would be really beautiful to have a resource where women can refer back to for help.It is really common & 100% curable. And the pathway to healing your vaginismus usually involves embarking on the sexual reclamation journey of a lifetime.If you know of anyone who is currently healing from this, make sure you send this episode! OPEN FOR ENROLMENT Very Important Pussy - VIP 3 Month Container + 1:1 CoachingSend us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP
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  5 ways to majorly improve your sex life 01.08.2024 51m

  Hello my love, If you know me, you know I love a good actionable list. And today I've shared with you 5 simple (and free) ways to majorly improve your sex life! You're in for a juicy episode today with lots of examples and actionable steps!, so enjoy xx MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE The Erotic Blueprint VIP - Very Important Pussy Enrolment Energetic Glow Up - FREE Masterclass Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP
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  The Reason your holding onto Energetic Weight {The truth your PT won't tell you} 29.07.2024 42m

  Hello my loves, Okay so I wish MORE people knew this but there is always an energetic reason why your body is holding onto excess weight. You can do all the dieting and exercise you want but if you're never getting to the root cause - no change will ever occur.If you want to learn the "HOW" than join me in my FREE upcoming Masterclass ENERGETIC GLOW UP - 12th of August - 8pm PDT VIP OPEN FOR ENROLMENT - Receive $100 off Enrolment if you sign up before the 5th of August Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP
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  How to Manifest Your Dream {Conscious} Relationship 19.07.2024 53m

  Welcome my loves, Ok so I get asked all the time "How I can manifest my dream relationship!". It's the tea that we all seem to want. So I thought I'd give you the resource that I wish someone had for me all those years ago! Inside this episode you will learn not only how to manifest your dream relationship but also but blocks you from getting on in the first place! Plus so much more.MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE: Astrology Cafe Human Design Specific or Nonspecific manifestor VIP - Open for Enrollment www.carliejade.com/vip Send us a textMy SOCIAL detailsApply for 1:1 MentorshipInstagram @CarliejadeWebsiteEmailWaitlist for VIP