Because We Said So

Episodes

• 100K Special! The Truth About Working With Friends 15.07.2026 1h 20m

  Because We Said So has officially hit 100K subscribers! To celebrate, we're hosting 18 bwssties for an exclusive dinner at Ce La Vi, Sandton, on 24 July, and we'd love for you to join us!To enter:-Subscribe to our YouTube channel.-Follow us on all of our BWSS social media platforms.-Find your favourite BWSS Instagram Reel, repost it to your Instagram Story, tag us, and use the hashtag #BWSS100K. In this week's special episode, we kick things off with our Pop Culture Rewind, where we chat all things Durban July, our favourite looks, and the latest reality TV from Married at First Sight Mzansi to Love Island USA. We also dive into a conversation we've touched on at GRYND — which is the reality of working with your friend. From boundaries and business to money, conflict, and what it really takes to build something meaningful together. 
• The "Pick Me" Problem 08.07.2026 1h 26m

  On this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we’re unpacking all things pick-me culture, internalized misogyny and explore where these behaviours come from. We also catch up on the latest in pop culture, including our first live show at YFM GRYND 2026, Bafana Bafana’s loss, the latest Love Island USA couples and more! The financial segment is brought to you by Metropolitan, whose No-Lapse Funeral Growth Plan is made with freelancers and gig workers in mind. To find out more or sign up, WhatsApp “NoLapse” to 0860 724 724. #nolapse Disclaimer: The information shared during this financial segment is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered financial advice. Please consult a qualified financial adviser. Don’t forget to join us and our bwssties in Bali trip — click the link below: Link: https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-  
• Choosing You Without Losing Them 01.07.2026 1h 21m

  In this week’s episode, we unpack living for your family’s approval in your 20s. We talk about what it means to try meet family expectations, and what it can actually cost you.We also get into a quick pop culture recap, from Love Island USA, Aaliyah’s face pregnancy announcement to Andile the calculator.Of course we once again have a fun edition to our episode called Sip Happens, in partnership with L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit Spritzer. If you haven’t yet, here is the link to register for the 2026 local government elections: https://registertovote.elections.org.za/voter/registration/zaDon’t forget to join us on our bwssties in Bali trip—click the link below to find out more:Link: https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-bali/This episode is proudly sponsored by L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit Spritzer. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly.
• The Polygamist, Love Island & Everything In Between 24.06.2026 1h 15m

  This week’s episode is all about pop culture. We’re getting into everything from South Africa’s trending series named The Polygamist to Love Island USA to the FIFA World Cup. We also unpack and some of the upcoming concerts heading to South Africa such as Kehlani and Neyo. And of course, we have our Sip Happens segment, in partnership with L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit where we also share an exciting opportunity for you to win a paid trip to Milan. To enter - click the link below to find out more details. https://tr.ee/0gLgDKcQ7yDon’t forget to join us and our bwssties in Bali trip — click the link below:  https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-  
• Is "Good on Paper" Good Enough? 17.06.2026 1h 3m

  In this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we’re talking about what happens when someone checks all the boxes on paper, but you’re still not sure if they’re the right person for you. To spice things up, we’ve also decided to play a game of This or That: Jolaring Edition Don’t forget to join us and our bwssties in Bali trip — using the link below: Link: https://luxetribes.com/trips/bwssties-in-
• Dilemma Diaries 10.06.2026 54m

  In this week’s episode of Because We Said So, we dive into the dilemmas our bwssties have been facing. From advice about family to work and relationships, there’s nothing that’s off the table.  Want to join us and our bwssties in Bali? Click on the link in our bio.
• How to Survive The Girl's Trip 03.06.2026 1h 17m

  We’re talking all things group travel—from chaotic group chats and money talks to personalities and unspoken expectations. And if you’ve been dreaming of your next girls’ trip, Bwssties in Bali is calling!  Bring your bestie or come make new ones and join us. Sip Happens is back, in partnership with L’Orange Rossa by Brutal Fruit. Not for persons under 18. Please enjoy responsibly.
• Should Friends Match Your Aesthetic? 27.05.2026 1h 15m

  From navigating whether female friendships are performative to unpacking influencer friendships and whether they are transactional, this episode explores friendships as the main conversation. Our Sip Happens segment is back again in partnership with L’Orange by Brutal Fruit, alongside our pop culture rewind covering everything from Top Billing auditions, Drake’s latest album, and the viral Kevin Hart roast. This episode is proudly sponsored by L’Orange by Brutal Fruit. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly.
• Made by Africa, Loved by The World ft. Linda Mtoba 22.05.2026 1h 2m

  In celebration of Africa Day and as part of Facebook’s Made by Africa, Loved by the World campaign, we sit down with award-winning actress, influencer, and entrepreneur Linda Mtoba. From Isibaya and The River to Queendom, Linda reflects on her journey in the entertainment industry, building authentic community online, and the power of African storytelling in the digital age. Sit back and enjoy bwssties!
• Made by Africa, Loved by The World ft. Nomzamo Mbatha 20.05.2026 1h 27m

  In this Africa Day special in collaboration with Facebook, we sit down with Nomzamo Mbatha to talk about what it means to be Made by Africa, Loved by the World. From her early journey in entertainment to starring in global productions like Coming 2 America and reconnecting with her roots through Shaka iLembe, Nomzamo opens up about identity, ambition, community, and the realities of building an international career as an African creative.
• 365 days of BWSS. 13.05.2026 1h 25m

  Because We Said So turns ONE! In this special anniversary episode, we reflect on the highs and lows of building the podcast from scratch, introduce our new Sip Happens segment with L’Orange by Brutal Fruit, and get into some pop culture moments including the Met Gala, The Devil Wears Prada SA premiere, and the Michael Jackson movie review. Not for persons under the age of 18. Enjoy responsibly.
• Is Closure A Scam? 06.05.2026 1h 22m

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re asking: is closure a scam or do we actually need it to move on? We talk relationships, ghosting, and why unanswered questions hit so hard. Plus, The Trials of Winnie Mandela, Metro FM Awards highlights, and Megan Thee Stallion’s breakup
• Live For Now, Suffer Later. 29.04.2026 1h 14m

  This week, we’re talking money habits and how the “live now, suffer later” mindset is affecting our generation’s finances. We also touch on saving and how we learned to save. Plus pop culture updates from Bieberchella and more All this and more, enjoy!
• "Do It, And Do It Well!" ft Nadia Nakai. 22.04.2026 1h 11m

  This week, we’re joined by our very first celebrity guest, The beautiful Nadia Nakai. We dive into the art of reinventing yourself as she opens up about her transition from music and reality TV into fashion, beauty, and business. Plus, our weekly dose of dilemmas and our weekly musings. Enjoy Bwssties🎙️
• Is age JUST a number? 15.04.2026 1h 15m

  It’s Landzy’s birthday, and we’re celebrating with a conversation about age gap relationships, are they realistic, and do they actually work? We also get into this weeks pop culture, weekly musings and your dilemmas.Sit back and enjoy!
• Landzy is Back!! Let's Catch Up. 08.04.2026 54m

  Landzy is back, and we’re catching up on all things pop culture! From Latto’s pregnancy announcement to the Hannah Montana 20-year anniversary and the latest headlines, there’s a lot to unpack. Get comfortable and catch up with us!
• The Busines of Being You ft. Xoli Gcabashe 01.04.2026 1h 9m

  For the final episode in our March features, we’re joined by a guest we know you’ll love, Xoli Gcabashe - social media content creator and business owner. This week, we dive into “the business of being you”, unpacking what it really means to build a platform in South Africa. We chat about how we got started, the highs and lows, and what the future might look like for us in this space.
• Are High Achievers Made at Home? 25.03.2026 1h 11m

  Hey there Bwssties! This week on Because We Said So, we’re joined by a return guest, Kele Khoza and this time we’re unpacking soft parenting, what it looks like in practice, how it compares to how we were raised, and whether it can actually produce excellence in children.
• The Truth About Group Friendships ft. Vanessa Padi 18.03.2026 1h 12m

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re talking about group friendships dynamics, the good, the complicated, and everything in between. On the pop culture side, we discuss global tensions between the US and Iran, the passing of Eric Dane, and current cultural moments including the lineup of concerts in South Africa and MaXhosa Africa’s recent Fashion Week showcase.
• "My Man Is Jealous Of My Boss?" ft. Kele Khoza 18.03.2026 55m

  This week on Because We Said So, we’re switching things up! With Landzy still recovering, we’re joined by a guest host and friend of the show, Kele Khoza, who helps us dive into some of the dilemmas you, our bwssties, have been sending in. Together, we read through your situations and offer honest advice on love, friendships, family, work, and personal growth.