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33. Disabled men need escorts - with Sonia von Sacher 05.06.2026 1h 33m

Disabled men are rarely able to get their sexual needs filled. That's where Sonia comes in - she not only offers specific services as an escort to accommodate disabled clients, but also gives them a discount. They make up much of her clientele, and have shaped her outlook on both work and life. We chatted about her experiences in sex work - not just with disabled clients, but with pro submission, 6 week trips with clients, her female clientele and so much more. Follow Sonia on socials:https://www.instagram.com/sonia.von.sacherhttps://www.tiktok.com/⁨@sonia.von.sacher⁩

32. How the FIFA world cup will harm sex workers in Vancouver and beyond with SWAN Vancouver 22.05.2026 56m

As one of the host cities for the FIFA world cup, Vancouver is already prepping for the alleged sex trafficking that comes with the event. But there's a catch - there is absolutely no proof to back up the claim that such sporting events cause an increase in sex trafficking, nor even an increase in demand for consensual sex work. Crystal from SWAN Vancouver joined me to discuss the tangible negative effects these trafficking myths have on sex workers, as well as current political changes in Vancouver that are making vulnerable worker's situations more dire than ever. SWAN is a non-profit organization that promotes the rights, health, and safety of im/migrant women engaged in indoor sex work through frontline service and systemic advocacy. They offer low-barrier, culturally-specialized, and non-stigmatizing services through both inreach and outreach programs.Donate to SWAN:https://swanvancouver.ca/donate/Follow SWAN on IG:https://www.instagram.com/swan_vancouver/Volunteer in Vancouver to help SWAN organizer safer sex supplies:https://swanvancouver.ca/volunteer/

31. The (actual) sex work situation in Germany - with Anne Bonny 01.05.2026 1h 21m

Germany has been called "the brothel of Europe" due to it's thriving sex trade and relatively lax laws. But are those laws really all that lax? Anne Bonny, an activist and member of Hydra e.V. joined me to discuss the current and future realities of sex workers in Germany. We discussed the current "Prostitution Protection Act", the push to bring the Nordic Model to Germany, and the laws that sex workers in Germany want for themselves. Donate to Hydra: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/en/donationsLearn more about Hydra: https://www.hydra-berlin.de/en/Follow Anne: https://www.instagram.com/anne.bonny.berlin

30. Racism in sex work with Mistress Vera 11.04.2026 1h

Mistress Vera Von F is no stranger to racism in the sex industry, and she joined me in London to discuss both her own experiences as well as pervasive racism throughout the industry. We dove into race play, online harassment, beauty standards, and how sexual desires reflect subconscious prejudices. Follow Mistress Vera:https://www.instagram.com/von.floozy/

29. Lenina Crowne on why she loves plastic surgery and how she became good at sex 27.03.2026 1h 7m

Lenina Crowne, a high class companion in London, joined me while I visited her city to discuss social media visibility as a sex worker, how plastic surgery has affected her life, how autism makes her a better escort, and how we feel about OnlyFans vs escorting.Follow Lenina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/leninacrownex/https://x.com/RequiemLenina

28. Whorebaiting, the female gaze, and working through a recession with Edie Montana 06.03.2026 56m

What is whorebaiting? Why do people pretend to be sex workers when they're not? Edie and I discussed this, along with the "female gaze" in sex work, working through recessions, my criticisms of Kayla Jade, and starting a business as a sex worker.Edie Montana is a stripper, performer, show director, and writer. She is the co-founder and director of Slut Riot, a growing platform that combines art and activism, aimed at de-stigmatising sex work through performances and art. Born and raised in the Italian countryside, she completed a master’s in Cultural Studies in New Zealand with her thesis on sex work representation, and now lives in Berlin. Her writing has been published in The New York Times and Huffpost, among other publications.Follow Edie on Socials:https://www.instagram.com/edie.montana/Check out Slut Riot:https://www.instagram.com/slvtriothttps://linktr.ee/slvtriot

27. What it takes to run a queer indie porn company with Mahx Capacity of Aorta Films 20.02.2026 1h 20m

Mahx Capacity joined me to discuss being a porn doula, keeping an indie queer porn company financially afloat, consent on porn sets, creators as a non-renewable resource, and finding community in the queer porn world.Mahx Capacity is a Brooklyn based performance maker, entrepreneur and postmodern pornographer. They are the co-founder and creative director of Aorta Films as well as a performer and consultant.Check out Aorta Films:https://www.instagram.com/aorta_studiohttps://bsky.app/profile/aortafilms.bsky.socialhttps://x.com/aorta_filmsFollow Mahx:https://www.instagram.com/mahxcapacity666

26. Queer Porn Icon Jiz Lee on sex trends, falling in love on set, and queer porn archives 06.02.2026 1h 11m

Trailblazer of queer porn Jiz Lee joined me on the pod to discuss their favorite sex trends, burnout in art vs porn, how the porn landscape has change for creators, fears surrounding AI in porn, and their advice for queer people who want to enter the industry.Find more of Jiz:https://www.instagram.com/jizlee/https://bsky.app/profile/jizlee.bsky.socialBuy their book, "Coming Out Like a Porn Star"https://jizlee.bigcartel.com/

25. Dungeon owner Miss May on why she loves being so mean to her subs 23.01.2026 1h 2m

Professional mean girl Miss May joined me in London for a chat about her passion for pissing on people, the dream BDSM furniture she wants to add to her dungeon, dealing with the comedown from sessions, and male vs female subs. Miss May is a professional dominatrix and dungeon owner based between London and Berlin.Follow Miss May on socials:https://www.instagram.com/missmayberlin/https://x.com/missmayberlinhttps://www.tiktok.com/@worshipmissmay

24. Belonging on Social Media with Dr. Carolina Are 09.01.2026 1h 21m

Dr. Carolina Are joined me to discuss her research on social media censorship, sex work in academia, how AI impacts influencers, shadowbanning, and of course, Taylor Swift.Carolina is a pole dancing academic, blogger, author, speaker, pole dance instructor and performer, and activist. She published some of the first ever studies on shadowbanning, and is currently a digital criminologist at the London School of Economics and Political Science. Follow Carolina on socials:https://www.instagram.com/bloggeronpole/https://bsky.app/profile/bloggeronpole.bsky.socialhttps://www.tiktok.com/@bloggeronpole

23. Eva Oh on women in power, the lust of greed, and keeping men in her personal prison 12.12.2025 1h 33m

Eva Oh joined me in London for a titillating conversation on her life as a dominatrix, hesitance in dating, the meaning she finds in mentoring, and what's wrong with men.Eva Oh is an award winning dominatrix, advocate, mentor, and podcast host, who has been wielding her power as a sex worker since 2011 to be come one of the most famous dominatrixes in the world.Follow Eva on socials:https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me/https://x.com/youwillpleaseMEhttps://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme

I'm Back! 29.11.2025 4m

A quick little update to let you know where I've been, and tell you about upcoming episodes!

22. Your burning questions 14.04.2025 36m

What was my favorite booking? What do I think about Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue? What are my go-to icebreakers with clients? I'm answering these questions and many more!Some other sex workers on TikTok you should follow, as mentioned in the episode:https://www.tiktok.com/@juicypomma4.0https://www.tiktok.com/@shakingsheetshttps://www.tiktok.com/@pursenuggets5.0https://www.tiktok.com/@inaralordehttps://www.tiktok.com/@jadeblairxoxhttps://www.tiktok.com/@tigressthe304.personal

21. One year of being a whore - lessons and reflections 31.03.2025 37m

It's officially been one year since I started escorting full time! Today I'm diving into all the lessons I've learned, and my personal reflections on this year for me.

20. The truth about dating 17.03.2025 35m

A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal life (not about my clients), and it's such an important facet of many women's lives. This isn't a comprehensive totality of my views - I would have to talk for a few hours to get everything out! I'd love to hear your opinion in the comments and start a conversation. TikTok accounts mentioned:https://www.tiktok.com/@texasgardenfairyhttps://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edithttps://www.tiktok.com/@observationswithmyeyes(tip: if you don't have the TikTok app, you can watch all videos without having to download it or log in by viewing the links on desktop!)Books mentioned:Why Men Love Bitches, Sherry ArgovCalling in The One, Katherine Woodward Thomas

19. Living in Berlin - my experiences 03.03.2025 40m

I've been living in Berlin for almost a decade (!) and often get asked online what it's like to live here - so here's a deep dive! I talk about the pros and cons from my personal perspective (warning: there's a lot of cons) as well has how much the city has changed since I moved here.

18. Porn Historian Noelle Perdue on banning porn, AI, and the future of content 16.02.2025 45m

Today's conversation is full of not just juicy bits about porn, but important lessons for anyone who is even slightly interested in the industry. We discuss what a porn ban would actually look like, how AI effect the adult industry, the role of porn in sex education, and how porn is used as a political pawn. Noelle Perdue is a writer, producer and porn historian with nearly 10 years of experience working platform side for multiple mainstream and independent adult industry companies. Having written everything from Food Network porn parodies to legally binding terms and conditions, much of her current work explores the blurry borders of obscenity and how pornography's history can influence our digital and political futures.Follow Noelle on socials:https://www.instagram.com/all_day_breakfast_/

17. Veteran Stripper Chiqui Love on gold diggers, dating vs escorting, and 20 years in the industry 02.02.2025 1h 3m

Chiqui Love joins me for a lively discussion on her decades of experience as a stripper, how sex work has changed her approach to both dating and feminism, and how the industry has changed since she got her start in London in the early 2000’s. Chiqui Love is a stripper, burlesque, and cabaret artist and all round erotic entertainer. With over 22 years’ experience in the industry, she combines different elements of performance into her own unique style, and is also a sex worker rights advocate. She was the founding member of not one, but two stripper’s collectives, one in London and one in Berlin. Follow Chicqui on socials:https://www.instagram.com/chiquilovelovelove/

16. Dominatrix Madame L'affaire on classism in sex work and her love for BDSM 22.12.2024 58m

Madame Ava L'affaire joins me for a discussion on all things BDSM and sex work. We talk about her past experiences as an escort, her passion for being a dominatrix, experiencing class discrepancies as a sex worker, the whorearchy, sexual shame, and more.Madame Ava L'affaire is a dominatrix and sex worker rights activist. She grew up in Berlin and is the child of Afghan refugees.Follow Madame Ava on socials:https://www.instagram.com/madame_laffaire/https://x.com/Madame_affaire

15. Trans Escort Sienna Carlisle on the Domme archetype, transphobia, and rebranding 08.12.2024 42m

Today I am joined by the magnificent Sienna Carlisle. We discuss her journey from being a pro-domme to now being a domme and escort, transphobia in the sex industry, her experiences with clients, her recent rebrand, and working in Australia vs Europe. Sienna Carlisle is an international trans goddess whose journey has spanned many countries and many parts of the industry. She is a luxury companion as well as a domme depending on the dynamic at hand.Follow Sienna on socials:https://www.instagram.com/sienna.carlisle/https://twitter.com/siennacarlisle